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Profile accused as fake - 3/3/2009 9:44:01 AM

samanthacat

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Too many people on here have been telling me that my picture and profile are fake.

Because I don't want to cam with an asshole, I am now a fake person who doesn't want to show my face because it doesn't match the one in my picture? Uhhhhm....

So does collarme have a strategy? Chasing away the attractive subs by calling them fake? That doesn't make much sense to me.

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RE: Profile accused as fake - 3/3/2009 9:46:03 AM

Lynnxz

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They just want to see free tittahs. I've been called a fake so many times it's ridiculous. People will do anything for a free wank, just block them.

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RE: Profile accused as fake - 3/3/2009 9:47:55 AM

RainydayNE

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then again, there are loads of other people here who are considered attractive who don't feel the need to call attention to every little instance of trollism on the webbernetz.
it is what it is. nobody's trying to chase away the "oh so pretty girls." =p it probably actually has nothing to do with what you look like at all, and more to do with the idiot behind the other screen.
some people just suck

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RE: Profile accused as fake - 3/3/2009 9:48:58 AM

Lockit

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Being called a fake around here can almost be seen as a badge of merit! lol There will always be those that stomp their feet and get mad when they don't get what they want. Block is your friend, use him/her well.

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RE: Profile accused as fake - 3/3/2009 9:57:46 AM

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... been there done that... and it was recent too stupid assholes...

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RE: Profile accused as fake - 3/3/2009 10:02:47 AM

DavanKael

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Why allow yourself to be chased away by an inaccuracy stated by another. As others have suggested, you need not indulge those folks. Show as much or as little as you're okay with. There are a lot of cool people here and there are a bunch that suck too. Hang in there and you'll come to understand the difference.
Oh, and I'd be remiss if I didn't point out that posting this thread is a bit attention-seeking, referening yourself as an attractive female sub in the Masters forum and such...however, it's a piece of salesmanship that may yield interesting results. Who knows.
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RE: Profile accused as fake - 3/3/2009 10:42:26 AM

samanthacat

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Oh, didn't mean for it to come off that way.

I guess self confidence is an issue too....

I'm glad to know that other people have dealt with it too though.....that's all I wanted to know. The reason I posted it here was because one of the people told me that there was a thread here saying that I was fake (I see none). Obviously he was pissed that I wouldn't reply to his messages.

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RE: Profile accused as fake - 3/3/2009 10:59:32 AM

RedMagic1

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That "no one over 25" first line will piss off a lot of guys. Oh, well. Block 'em and forget about 'em.

I'm over 25, but you're welcome to send me a pic of some free tittahs because I've been all helpful and stuff.

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RE: Profile accused as fake - 3/3/2009 11:01:14 AM

chamberqueen

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It's part of being here - people don't like it if others aren't as easy as they want them to be. I've been accused of being a male, being a tranny, of using someone else's photo, etc. I've lost weight over the past couple of years and have grown my hair longer so when someone looks at my photos there are changes. It is obvious to me that they are all of the same woman but I have been accused of faking them.

Just get used to letting things roll off your shoulders. You don't owe submission to anyone. You choose to give it. If they don't like that you don't fall for their games then just see it as a sign that you kept your integrity and be happy with that. When the right person comes along then they will see just what a treasure you are.

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RE: Profile accused as fake - 3/3/2009 11:02:18 AM

slaveboy291

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This is probably why name and shame isn't allowed.

You get too many people calling others fakes who aren't but didn't want the person or didn't want to do what the person asks.

Word to the wise, take anybodies claim that a member is fake with a grain of salt.

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RE: Profile accused as fake - 3/3/2009 11:06:03 AM

VampiresLair

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quote:

ORIGINAL: samanthacat
So does collarme have a strategy? Chasing away the attractive subs by calling them fake?

Collarme itself has nothing to do with the ones you are contacting. You are young and cute, so youl get a lot of attention. IF you dont cater to every request, you must be fake. Ever hear of sour grapes? They cant get what they want so theres a reason they didnt really want it anyway.

I am fake because I do not torture Fox. I am fake because I dont have a harem. I am fake becasue I dont offer nude shots to everyone who asks and I refuse to "prove who I am" just becasue someone tells me they want it.
The list goes on and on.

So, I am quite happy to continue in my fakeness... those who are that fast to trip to that conclusion arent worth my time and energy anyway. The worthwhile ones are smarter than that.

DV

And having a profile that ONLY reads dont contact over 25 is going to get a lot of negative feedback. Make yourself sound real and the fake comments will stave off. If your profile reads like those of a lot of the fakes on here, thats what they will think you are. Just a FYI

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RE: Profile accused as fake - 3/3/2009 11:12:35 AM

VeryNastyDom

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There are a lot of fakes on here, so people have a right to be cautious. A few suggestions:

1. Add more text. While you at least filled out your likes and dislikes, "nobody over 25" is hardly a description of what/who you are looking for. You managed to compose a couple of posts so we know you can write; post a few paragraphs about yourself!

2. Change your default picture. If you don't want guys asking to cam with you, don't entice them with a picture where you are obviously topless since it gets men wondering what the rest of that chest looks like. I am sure you have some more modest pics that you can use and save the juicy ones for guys you want to know better. There is nothing wrong with sexy pics mind you, but if you post teasers like that then you should not be surprised when you get hit on by horny net geeks.

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RE: Profile accused as fake - 3/3/2009 11:14:35 AM

Kana

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Remove the pic and add some meat to the profile
Its still not gonna keep all the wolves at bay, but it will cut down the number of trolls

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RE: Profile accused as fake - 3/3/2009 11:14:49 AM

RainydayNE

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DavanKael

Oh, and I'd be remiss if I didn't point out that posting this thread is a bit attention-seeking, referening yourself as an attractive female sub in the Masters forum and such...however, it's a piece of salesmanship that may yield interesting results. Who knows.
Davan

hahahhaha :D
not attempting to be mean, i just thought this was funny and quite a good point =p

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RE: Profile accused as fake - 3/3/2009 11:15:36 AM

MissLaura1973

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I'm a fake because:
- I won't send strangers my phone number or call them based on one message exchange
- I won't accept "friend" or "chat" invites from people I don't know
- I don't want to hear about a do-me sub's fantasies
- I won't send photos or details about my body measurements
- I won't meet a stranger in a dark parking lot in the middle of the night
- I don't want to see photos of genitalia
- I don't discuss sexual interests / fantasies
- I won't give my IM nickname to anyone who asks
- I won't agree to an immediate meeting
- I don't reply to a message directly after reading it

... and the list goes on. It's kind of funny, really,

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RE: Profile accused as fake - 3/3/2009 11:20:29 AM

slaveboy291

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Your also a fake according to one profile I read a while back if your:

New to the lifestyle(profile said if a person has no references, which a newbie doesn't it's a red flag)
Have family and friends(according to most profiles I read, there's no excuse for missing a meeting meaning that you either need to be friendless or an orphan or pray that you never have a death in the family or you will be labelled a fake and a liar)
Have unstable hours at work or occasionally work the graveyard shift.
Basically any reason, no matter how legit like work, an appointment, death in the family etc etc will be taken as a lie.

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RE: Profile accused as fake - 3/3/2009 11:28:03 AM

pyrojody69

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I've unfortunately run into a lot of fakes. I can spot the dif. The ones I seem to be attracting are the ones who respond with the Yahoo ID and right away want to talk about how they are really not in the state of Michigan right now. But are in (England, Benin, South Aftrica, <Insert foreign country here) and want me to accept a package from them.. or will meet with me to divide up daddy's inheritance when she comes back to the states. Or lists a place like Tampa, Michigan, or Germany, Michigan. Neither place exists. Or..she has given me an address of where she lives, and knowing the area extremely well.. know that there is no address like that. All they care about is what you do for a living, and how much you make. Oh..and could you send them some help (financial type) due to the fact that they have been stranded by the photographer that took them there... or that for some other reason.. they are just in need of money.
Yes there are plenty of fakes out there. I must have fake magnet implanted on my profile. I've started listing those people who are fake in my journal entries. Hopefully, the real subs will see what I wrote and report them. It's all about the numbers game with getting rid of them. CM won't do anything unless a certain # of people report them.
Sir J

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RE: Profile accused as fake - 3/3/2009 11:32:41 AM

samanthacat

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Picture is gone!
Thanks for the help :)

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