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SmokingGoddess -> Just another Pro-Domme on CollarMe.... or am I? (2/19/2009 3:25:58 PM)
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Hello CM!
I’ve been on CollarMe a couple of months and have enjoyed my stay so far. I’ve managed to be solicited by only one Nigerian scam artist… and that’s pretty good. I’ve made a few posts, read some of your posts, and feel our online relationship has progressed to the level that I should make a proper introduction.
My name is the Smoking Goddess... however I quit smoking a couple of weeks ago, so now I’m the Non-Smoking Goddess. My Ashtray Slave is mortified.
I’ve been into kink since I was a teen. I began with breathplay, choking, and general rough sexual activities. At that time, I enjoyed sex with strangers and the power exchange that’s inherent in sexual pursuits. I liked the lure, the battle, and the conquering. In these interactions I was a masochist and a submissive.
It wasn’t until I began stripping at 18 that I found and embraced My Dominant nature. Five years into my exotic dancing career, I met Joe and married him with haste. Joe was a great provider and a snooze in bed. He’d never admit it, but he was definitely my submissive throughout our marriage. However, he didn’t enjoy the deviant types of play that I did. After 4 years, I left my vanilla marriage to pursue the things that really made me tick, both inside and outside of the bedroom. I took very little from him through our parting. I felt that he’d given me all that he could and it would be wrong to ask for more.
Pro-Domination is something new to me. I decided to go pro to help supplement my income. I was working part-time and going to school when I went out on my own. It was and still is a difficult transition. Pro-Domme offered me those things that I enjoyed about dancing and less of the aspects that I didn’t like about it. However, it’s much easier to earn an income when warm bodies are right there aching to be toyed with … online conversations and screening processes can be so tedious!
I only advertise My Domme side here on CM.
In my private life, I am a Switch. I keep my Switch orientation off my profile for three reasons: First because it seems that submissives have difficulties submitting to a proclaimed Switch. Second because I don’t want a parade of dominant men attempting to romance me because I’m not here for that. I have the ability to use the search feature, I can find a Dom if I want one. Third I don’t bottom alone.
I am in a relationship with another Switch. We are collared to one another. It may seem like an unusual dynamic but it works well for us. He and I love going to munch, workshops, and play-parties. We have a joint profile on another ALTernative site… if you’re interested learning more about that, please let me know. ☺
I’ve enjoyed sharing a bit about myself, perhaps bordering on TMI. I appreciate you taking the time to read this bio and intro… I hope to get to know some of you better, as well.
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