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catize -> RE: My obedience IS my consent (2/14/2009 11:14:35 AM)
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I find that have realistic expectations for behavior coupled with an understanding that we all make mistakes goes a long way in helping a Ds or M/s dynamic thrive. Fox makes mistakes but he does disobey. I make mistakes but I never give up my responsibilities as the owner. Maybe we have simplistic view of our world but at the core that is what defines our dynamic.
This closely matches my thinking. There is a lot of discussion about consent on the part of the submissive; but doesn’t the dominant consent also? I see it as a matter of mutual agreement with the dominant person accepting the submissive partner as humanly prone to lapses in ability, judgment, or mindfulness at times. In addition, both partners have the prerogative to consent (or not) to the specific parameters of the relationship.
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