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RE: Humiliation.... :D - 2/19/2009 12:58:28 PM

HumiliateherUK

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there is probably places/stores that we can go to where i wouldnt be known

This makes me believe that you wish to do something that strangers will see and understand and perhaps could damage your reputation. I do not think it's right to include strangers in our play if they have not consented to being involved.

100% agree with this.

Though I have set up "seemingly" public scenes before by pre arrangement with others without telling the submissive they were "in" on what was happening.

Also humiliation and the limits around it are so individual that its hard to really give ideas for others. I do recall one submissive who sailed through this most people might consider "humiliation" telling me the most humiliating thing in HER opinion was when she was forced to go to a nice pub wearing no makeup without having done her hair and wearing slacks. I am guessing most of the vanillas didnt realise anything was happening so were not "involved" in that instance in an unacceptable way.

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RE: Humiliation.... :D - 2/19/2009 2:48:38 PM

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I dunno, I'd have to think about public humiliation scenes, and I would think you might find a more receptive audience willing to play along in a bar or something - most larger cities have swinger bars, check the yellow pages and scout it out, you might even talk to the patrons and get some idea how they might react to such a thing.

Otherwise, have a good cover story ready, i.e., you lost a bet or something, in case somebody calls the cops or something.

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RE: Humiliation.... :D - 2/19/2009 5:03:58 PM

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pre-service teacher, so my job/credibility is at stake

One arrest and you're toast.

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RE: Humiliation.... :D - 2/19/2009 5:13:32 PM

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Right, so unless the risk is part of the kink...

Still, there are places I've been where I think I could have pulled off a public humiliation scene no problem, mostly certain bars - i..e., if I were doing this for a sub, I'd sniff out a likely bar, and get to know the bartender, patrons, etc., find a regular who knows who's cool and who isn't - usually, the later at night it is, the less chance of a Vanilla wandering in by mistake.

Then it could be done sorta spontaneously, take her out for a night on the town, then scene her - you'd have to know each others comfort zones pretty well, and it's good to have backup, there's always some idiot that thinks it's a free for all and want's to jump in.

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RE: Humiliation.... :D - 2/19/2009 5:22:06 PM

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Never really done a public scene myself, but I've seen a lot of them working and hanging out in bars. One chick did every guy in this biker bar in Jacksonville the night before her wedding.

Then I worked in an adult video store for awhile that had a small theater, and had to play referee for every kind of public scene you can imagine, from pass around girls and boys, total fucking orgies, to shy couples looking for a little discreet action.

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RE: Humiliation.... :D - 2/19/2009 8:29:28 PM

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My oh my,
there are a million ways to do humiliation in public.
-it can be something as simple as a whispered conversation that leaves her blushing and hoping nobody heard
-take her to one of those restaurants where they give you paper and crayons and have fun fun fun writing stuff
-touches that look light but are actually squeezes and pinches.
-Butterflies, plugs
the list is endless

humiliation can be both very very public
and very private at the same time

Its not about what I do to her body
its about what I do to her mind

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RE: Humiliation.... :D - 2/19/2009 10:00:55 PM

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Fast Reply -

And if you do public humiliation remember that cell phones with cameras are everywhere and your photo can easily be posted on the Net.

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RE: Humiliation.... :D - 2/20/2009 11:14:55 AM

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Most of the "public" humiliation I've done, and the most effective has really been public/private... doing something in public that no one knows about... wearing an insertable or nipple clamps under clothes, wearing piss or cum, sneaking into a restroom together to play, going pantiless ina skirt and such.

The actual public things I've done have usually involved wearing my cum more visibly, wearing a collar in public, calling me Sir or Daddy in front of others, her dressing skimpily or even flashing a guy in a bar, being ignored while I flirt with a woman.

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