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RE: Hugging Session? - 2/4/2009 12:53:47 PM

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Hugging is a hard limit. I'd last 3 seconds. 3 hours and I'd have to be in a straight jacket and screaming.

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RE: Hugging Session? - 2/4/2009 1:16:22 PM

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I had an incident not to long ago, where this man, knowing I am blind, caressed my arm to get my attention. I think I may have over-reacted..But Geoff didn't hesitate to tell the man to leave our table (The guy had been sitting with us). I just don't like to be touched by strangers, much less caressed by one.

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However, she failed to comment on the fact that when he touched her arm, she stated, "What the fuck?? Get your fucking hands off me!!" This man was trying to get my attention by first getting hers to get mine...made no sense to me either. And Geoff did the right thing as well by telling him "You are done, get the fuck away from our table!!"

On topic, I personally love hugging, though I don't get any because I live with MoGa and she doesn't hug

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RE: Hugging Session? - 2/4/2009 1:42:14 PM

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Hugs are cool, briefly and if I know them. BUT 3 hours of anything, while I'm awake, would probably just be boring, no matter what it was.

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RE: Hugging Session? - 2/4/2009 1:44:03 PM

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Has anyone here ever experienced a 3 hour hug?

it would annoy the hell out of me.

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RE: Hugging Session? - 2/4/2009 2:09:10 PM

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I hope that while at the wedding or activities people will let me know they are going to hug me before it happens, or they may find the tip side of my cane up their ass lol

I'm a hugger, BUT I make sure people know I'm coming at them first. I was going to say I would ask you first, but if you promise some cane-play if I do NOT ask, then, hmm... I dunno now... what a dilemma!

Doll, come find me, I'll hug you all you need!

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RE: Hugging Session? - 2/4/2009 2:10:55 PM

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I'm a hugger, BUT I make sure people know I'm coming at them first.

*nods*
A blindsided hug almost feels like an assult.

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RE: Hugging Session? - 2/4/2009 2:15:01 PM

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I hope that while at the wedding or activities people will let me know they are going to hug me before it happens, or they may find the tip side of my cane up their ass lol

I'm a hugger, BUT I make sure people know I'm coming at them first. I was going to say I would ask you first, but if you promise some cane-play if I do NOT ask, then, hmm... I dunno now... what a dilemma!

Doll, come find me, I'll hug you all you need!

Cali

Oops..I forgot where I was posting for a moment..this isn't the Christian group??

Cane? You want cane? I give the best cane! I have cane training and everything! I went to Michigan!

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RE: Hugging Session? - 2/4/2009 2:16:50 PM

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I'm a hugger, BUT I make sure people know I'm coming at them first.

*nods*
A blindsided hug almost feels like an assult.

Yup, yup, they do that A LOT here in Georgia! When I get my dog, I will have a sign on his back that says "I am also her certified weapon!" lol

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RE: Hugging Session? - 2/4/2009 2:22:40 PM

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Doll, come find me, I'll hug you all you need!

Cali

Would welcome any hugs...thank you!! I just feel so deprived sometimes

lmao.

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RE: Hugging Session? - 2/4/2009 2:23:43 PM

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Doll, come find me, I'll hug you all you need!

Cali

Would welcome any hugs...thank you!! I just feel so deprived sometimes lmao.

<Slaps and pulls Dolls hair> THERE! Feel better?

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RE: Hugging Session? - 2/4/2009 2:26:03 PM

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<Slaps and pulls Dolls hair> THERE! Feel better?

Yay me...thank you MoGa...always love a good hair pulling.

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RE: Hugging Session? - 2/4/2009 3:13:27 PM

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With the right person it is great to cuddle and watch movies together, especially under a blanket in the winter time.

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RE: Hugging Session? - 2/4/2009 3:17:58 PM

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I am a D type and am not a snuggler, hugger, or cuddler...
A three hour hug for me would be something close to torture.
All I can think is... EWWWWW....

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I am not affectionate--a three-hour hug would be more than a struggle.

It turns out, this non-affectionate, not toucy-feely, need-my-personal-space attitude is not always appreciated from D-types. Are any other s-types not affectionate?

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RE: Hugging Session? - 2/4/2009 3:39:59 PM

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I am a D type and am not a snuggler, hugger, or cuddler...
A three hour hug for me would be something close to torture.
All I can think is... EWWWWW....

I understand this completely. The only way that I could hug someone for three hours, is if we are lying in bed and talking quietly. But for me to sit on his lap (poor thing! lol) for three hours, not sure who would be more tortured.

MoGa

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RE: Hugging Session? - 2/4/2009 4:03:28 PM

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Hugs are great. Love giving and getting them. But I would I have to add my name to the list of folks who would want to take it to another space after the first twenty minutes or so. I am to restless to sit and do anything for three hours straight. Not to mention my legs tend to fall asleep in situations like that.:) But glad you and your Dom enjoyed it. That's all that matters.

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RE: Hugging Session? - 2/4/2009 5:29:13 PM

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Yup

I love hugging/cuddling/general human closeness.

It was how I met my ex, actually. We cuddled (and nothing more, not even sleep) for almost 3 hours... in the dark with nothing but the sounds of computers buzzing and breathing. It was very cathartic.

EDIT: And we were even fully clothed.

When it hit about 2 hours and 50 minutes his phone rang, it was his roommates wondering if they were allowed back in the room yet >.> So I left *shrug*

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RE: Hugging Session? - 2/4/2009 8:52:01 PM

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One of the new ways to meet people are these pajama and cuddle parties where everyone is sober and no sex happens. Anyone ever been to one?

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RE: Hugging Session? - 2/4/2009 10:18:03 PM

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I am not affectionate--a three-hour hug would be more than a struggle.

It turns out, this non-affectionate, not toucy-feely, need-my-personal-space attitude is not always appreciated from D-types. Are any other s-types not affectionate?

I used to be like that. I had an aversion to being touched. if someone came up behind me and touched me, I'd flinch. Somehow or other that changed in the past couple years.

Back in July a lady friend and I laid in bed, nekkid, intertwined, some talk, for an entire afternoon. 4 or 5 hours. No sex.

No good descriptors. Sublime. Divine.

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RE: Hugging Session? - 2/4/2009 11:05:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: Vendaval

One of the new ways to meet people are these pajama and cuddle parties where everyone is sober and no sex happens. Anyone ever been to one?

No, but I've been hearing about them for quite some time.

Cali
(I wouldn't last an hour...)

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RE: Hugging Session? - 2/4/2009 11:19:09 PM

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Like you mentioned earlier, either rev you up or wear you out...lol.

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