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ORIGINAL: Ropebefun

I have to admit I always liked to hear the people that I played with beg.  However, I only really liked when I could tell it was real and not just something they were doing because they knew I wanted them to or because they were acting.  And I could see how it could get very annoying if done in a whinning manner.  And I agree with what Nueva Vida said.  That it matters what it is for and to how it is done.  That just my two cents.

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ORIGINAL: graceadieu

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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ORIGINAL: angelic

For me begging is a very negative thing and when I first read the thread, my first response was 'there is no blippin' way I will ever beg again'.  I say that though because in the past even though I was required to beg, it really didn't matter.  I guess I needed it to matter.  As a result, begging is now a hard limit and I simply will not do it. 

angelic,

a hard limit? Might be better to save that criteria for something that might be more important........... just a thought. thanks for your input.

CP

If that's something that's linked to a negative/traumatic past experience for her (which is what it sounds like to me), it might really be that important. Anyway, limits are a very individual thing and it's her right to decide what is or isn't a limit for her.

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ORIGINAL: loveandlight87

I asked Sir about the begging question and, among other things, his response included a statement regarding him seeing me beg with my eyes and my body.  Because I am primarily non-verbal in playspace, it seems this comes out in my body language.  I guess I haven't been all that aware of it before, but after his comments I realized that is what I do.  I've really enjoyed reading this thread.  Thank you.

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

CP, it was your comment that this isn't important that we look askance at. Obviously it is important to her or she wouldn't have limited it.

The way you worded it makes it seem as though you are setting yourself up as arbiter of what is important. And as you well know, people are strange creatures and what is of vast importance to one is of no importance to the next.

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I do not recall giving up my right to an opinion simply because I started a thread!

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ORIGINAL: loveandlight87

Thank you Kallisto! I feel kinda weird with the verbal stuff.  Especially when it's cued.  But I just can't control my body like I can my mouth.  You too?

love

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

It seems that this activity/requirement is being employed more and more by both side of the slash.
i do not refer to the rollplay type of begging but the sincere function of begging by the "s" to her/his "D" or "M".
For some on the "s" side it is a nice enhancement to their need humiliation, while others accept it as a desire on the part of their "D" or "M".

What is your take on it regardless of which side of the slash your on?

CP

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

I see begging as nothing more than a sub/slave respectfully asking for something where as were we together as equalls the asking would be a request.. For me it is just how someone identifies as. 

Master and Mistress expect it in that same kind of way Iron Bear, Sir,

For me, though begging is an incredibly difficult thing to do.  When I was younger there was some serious abuse coupled with asking for anything. So just asking is a hard thing for me to do.  Master and Mistress require me to ask for what I want.  *sigh*  Well, at my request, I now ask for everything.  May I get online for a few minutes?  May I make a phone call?  May I go to the bathroom/get a glass of water/sit down?  It makes asking for little things that I don't really care about easy.  But asking for something I want - like a hug or time alone or to be used... I end up sobbing.  Imagine sobbing just to get a hug.  It is a place of great vulnerability which has been betrayed many times in the past.  The mere act pulls the deepest fears out of me. 

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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub

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I do not recall giving up my right to an opinion simply because I started a thread!

I thought you gave that up when you were born with a penis.

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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

My opinion is, I don't beg, I'm not a dog. If you want begging get a dog.

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

It seems that this activity/requirement is being employed more and more by both side of the slash.
i do not refer to the rollplay type of begging but the sincere function of begging by the "s" to her/his "D" or "M".
For some on the "s" side it is a nice enhancement to their need humiliation, while others accept it as a desire on the part of their "D" or "M".

What is your take on it regardless of which side of the slash your on?

CP

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

My opinion is, I don't beg, I'm not a dog. If you want begging get a dog.

yourhand,

I guess that puts you in the "no" list huh?

CP

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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

Giggling, yeah Celtic I guess it does:P

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

My opinion is, I don't beg, I'm not a dog. If you want begging get a dog.

yourhand,

I guess that puts you in the "no" list huh?

CP

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub

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I do not recall giving up my right to an opinion simply because I started a thread!

I thought you gave that up when you were born with a penis.

hardbody,

And so it may seem to some! But for myself, I was born with a cock!



CP

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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub

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I do not recall giving up my right to an opinion simply because I started a thread!

I thought you gave that up when you were born with a penis.

hardbody,

And so it may seem to some! But for myself, I was born with a cock!



CP

Actually, I misstated. Being born with a penis doesn't forfeit your right to have an opinion. It just guarantees that your opinion will always be wrong.

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ORIGINAL: Andalusite

How can you ask/say anything while being choked, anyway? We did a little bit of choking and breath play in my last relationship, but I had to tap out with my hand, rather than use a verbal cue, when it was too much.