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Harassed by another member (not what You're probably th... - 1/24/2009 9:55:40 PM

kruise

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Three years ago or maybe longer i placed an ad on craigslists and got a responce from a Woman on this board. Based on both our profiles and locations we looked like a reasonable match. After a couple of email were exchange i realized we weren't looking for the same thin and wished Her luck. Since then i get occasional snipes from Her on this website but also to by craigslist posts so it isn't as easy just to block Her here. Her behaviour proves to me that i made the right descision way back when. Tonight i get home to find that She commented on my most recent journal postings. To the Tacoma woman, You know who You are, please just leave me alone.

So, any of the male subs here ever run into this?

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RE: Harassed by another member (not what You're probabl... - 1/25/2009 3:08:14 AM

slaveboyforyou

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Nope. If she actually see this, you do realize this is just more fuel to the fire?

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RE: Harassed by another member (not what You're probabl... - 1/25/2009 3:50:39 AM

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I am a little confused.... did she comment on your journal by sending you a message on CM? Does she have a private email for you? If she emailed you through CM block her. If she has your msn or yahoo email change it or block her. I am not sure how Craigslist works so don't know if you can block messages there somehow. If you see an email that is from her delete it without reading it...much less angst in the long run.

You can't make her stop sending you messages but you can change your own reactions...eg. stop reading them or read and delete, don't comment on them in public and thus exacerbate the situation.

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RE: Harassed by another member (not what You're probabl... - 1/25/2009 4:02:37 AM

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Simply block, delete and ignore.

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RE: Harassed by another member (not what You're probabl... - 1/25/2009 4:04:47 AM

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I agree with the others change your accounts and stop pouring gasoline on the fire (this post for example)

I used to have this stray cat who would live on my porch, when I stopped feeding him he stopped coming around. Oh yea it also helped that I ran him over with my car.

Don't send me messages I did not run him over and yes he is still on the porch because I keep feeding him. But if I wanted him gone all I would have to do is stop feeding him...or the car thing

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RE: Harassed by another member (not what You're probabl... - 1/25/2009 4:22:49 AM

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.......or keep feeding it poison.

Note: Yes I am kidding too.

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RE: Harassed by another member (not what You're probabl... - 1/25/2009 4:35:24 AM

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ORIGINAL: kruise

To the Tacoma woman, You know who You are.

Not necessarily. Perhaps she's insane and thinks she's Barry Manilow. Stranger things have happened.

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RE: Harassed by another member (not what You're probabl... - 1/25/2009 4:42:30 AM

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OMG....How sick would someone have to be to think they are Barry Manilow..... Jeez I could not fathom walking around the house covered in tape and pine needles singing a song about a dead dog.

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RE: Harassed by another member (not what You're probabl... - 1/25/2009 4:49:43 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: housesub4you

OMG....How sick would someone have to be to think they are Barry Manilow..... Jeez I could not fathom walking around the house covered in tape and pine needles singing a song about a dead dog.

Could be worse, Housesub, you could think you're a blues singer and wander 'round the house singing about the dog being dead and the wife having ran off with the bloke next door.

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RE: Harassed by another member (not what You're probabl... - 1/25/2009 6:20:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent
Barry Manilow.

Hard limit. Do that again, NG, and I'll safeword you.

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RE: Harassed by another member (not what You're probabl... - 1/25/2009 6:23:06 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: NorthernGent
Barry Manilow.

Hard limit. Do that again, NG, and I'll safeword you.

For Steven, my friend...
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RE: Harassed by another member (not what You're probabl... - 1/25/2009 6:30:20 AM

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ORIGINAL: slaveboyforyou

Nope. If she actually see this, you do realize this is just more fuel to the fire?

ditto

Don`t play Misty for her.

< Message edited by Owner59 -- 1/25/2009 6:31:54 AM >

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RE: Harassed by another member (not what You're probabl... - 1/25/2009 6:33:33 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: NorthernGent

quote:

ORIGINAL: housesub4you

OMG....How sick would someone have to be to think they are Barry Manilow..... Jeez I could not fathom walking around the house covered in tape and pine needles singing a song about a dead dog.

Could be worse, Housesub, you could think you're a blues singer and wander 'round the house singing about the dog being dead and the wife having ran off with the bloke next door.

...particularly if the dog was run over by the bloke next door as he swerved to hit that damned cat that kept creeping onto his porch and crapping in the planters...

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RE: Harassed by another member (not what You're probabl... - 1/25/2009 6:42:23 AM

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This is a no-brainer. If you want to be left alone, just ignore her, eventually she will tire of making the effort and not getting a reaction.

Starting a thread about her is only going to feed her fire, so you might actually receive more "harassment" now, but it's already done. Just ignore her from here on out and don't take the bait. That will bother her more than anything you can say back to her. Complete self-control is the key.

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RE: Harassed by another member (not what You're probabl... - 1/25/2009 7:22:48 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: NorthernGent
Could be worse, Housesub, you could think you're a blues singer and wander 'round the house singing about the dog being dead and the wife having ran off with the bloke next door.

Hey! I like the blues, sometimes... I don't know the song, but the line in a BB King song "I gave you seven children, now you wanna give them back"
makes me laugh out loud every time I see it. My sisters and I always sing it when it's time to cut someone lose. M

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RE: Harassed by another member (not what You're probabl... - 1/25/2009 9:27:12 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself

quote:

ORIGINAL: NorthernGent

quote:

ORIGINAL: housesub4you

OMG....How sick would someone have to be to think they are Barry Manilow..... Jeez I could not fathom walking around the house covered in tape and pine needles singing a song about a dead dog.

Could be worse, Housesub, you could think you're a blues singer and wander 'round the house singing about the dog being dead and the wife having ran off with the bloke next door.

...particularly if the dog was run over by the bloke next door as he swerved to hit that damned cat that kept creeping onto his porch and crapping in the planters...

If we just add something about a pickup truck and drinking beer, I think we could end up on top of the charts in Nashville with this one.

As for the OPs issue, just block, ignore, delete, whatever....they will eventually go away.

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RE: Harassed by another member (not what You're probabl... - 1/25/2009 1:25:04 PM

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I have someone that is on block that regularly checks my profile out just so he will show up on the who is viewing me screen. Its been over a year now since I put this "Dom" on block and he just keeps checking my profile out just to let me know he is still out there. Does it bother me? Nope, I find it rather comical that someone could be that desperate.

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RE: Harassed by another member (not what You're probabl... - 1/25/2009 1:54:05 PM

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My pants are turning brown (His pants are turning brown)
And my hair is gray (And his hair is gray)
On Craigslist and Collarme (On Craigslist and Collarme)
I've been looking to play (He's been looking to play)
Trying to escape this domme (Trying to escape this domme)
I'm headed for LA (He's headed for LA)
California dreamin
Cos she won't go away

Tried to do a search, of all the dommes my way
Well I got down on my knees (He got down on his knees)
When she wouldn't go away (When she wouldn't go away)
But she keeps writing back (She keeps writing back)
No matter what I say (no matter what he says)
California dreamin'
'Cos she won't go away

My pants are turning brown (his pants are turning brown)
And my hair is gray (and his hair is gray)
I'm haarrssed by this domme (he's harrassed by this domme)
Who just won't go away (who just won't go away)
Maybe I should tell her
That I'm camp and gay
California dreamin' (California dreamin')
It's just I've (California dreamin')
It's just I've (California dreamin')
It's just I've gone away

original by The Mamas and Papas

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RE: Harassed by another member (not what You're probabl... - 1/25/2009 1:56:33 PM

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god, Stella.. I do so adore you!! *much love to you both*

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RE: Harassed by another member (not what You're probabl... - 1/25/2009 2:10:22 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveboyforyou

Nope. If she actually see this, you do realize this is just more fuel to the fire?

that's what I was thinking

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