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Flattered? - 1/11/2009 8:24:48 AM   
simpleplan2


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Status: offline 		Am I supposed to be automatically flattered because someone liked my profile or showed some interest?  I received an email the other day from a dom that I know is married.  Now, I state quite clearly in my profile that I'm not interested in married or attached doms nor am I interested in being a sister sub (or whatever).  Anyway, this dom messages me and I more or less restated it, saying that we couldn't be anything more than penpals.  Well, he told me that I should be flattered that he and his wife were interested in me. 

I mean, I usually add something like "thanks for the interest" to a thanks, but no thanks email...mostly cuz I'm polite that way.  But to be told that I should be flattered when I clearly state that I'm not interested?  Or am I being too tight assed?

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RE: Flattered? - 1/11/2009 8:28:15 AM   
Lynnxz


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Status: offline 		He doesn't appear to be the brightest crayon in the box... so I couldn't say I'd be flattered by his attentions. 

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RE: Flattered? - 1/11/2009 8:29:48 AM   
simpleplan2


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Status: offline 		Nah, he's a rather dull grey

btw...are you really a vet?  If so, way cool.

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RE: Flattered? - 1/11/2009 8:33:42 AM   
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RE: Flattered? - 1/11/2009 8:34:10 AM   
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RE: Flattered? - 1/11/2009 8:35:47 AM   
JustDarkness


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Status: offline 		If he has to mention to you that you need to be flattered..then perhaps you shouldn't. Beeing flattered is a feeling you should have with out beeing told.
But normally it is nice when people peek in.

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RE: Flattered? - 1/11/2009 8:38:29 AM   
SteelofUtah


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Status: offline 		What you mean that the fact that a man and a woman were impressed by your profile enough for you to change you mind on how you have prepared your entire sexual and emotional life?

Yeah you are being totally Tight Assed.

By the way Andi and I liked your Profile too so hopefully this will mean you fall head over hills for us and come to Utah and be our new second girl. I'll be expecting your plane arrival times propmtly and when you will be naked at my feet.

Don't you feel so amazingly Flattered?

Steel

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RE: Flattered? - 1/11/2009 8:40:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		I once had a gay man contact me with a badly misspelled boast about how good he was at sucking cock.  I'm straight and was unavailable at the time, and my profile stated both.

I didn't feel flattered.  Call me a snob, but the caliber of person contacting me has a lot to do with how flattered I am, and to be contacted by a semiliterate yahoo who evidently didn't read my profile didn't gratify me much.

Ignore the turkey.  He's already moved on to another random woman who's also not interested in what he has to offer.


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RE: Flattered? - 1/11/2009 8:53:40 AM   
simpleplan2


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Status: offline 		OMG!  That worked!  I LOVE you guys.  I'll be on the next plane...course I gotta sell the house, put my um up for adoption, find LONG TERM boarding for the dogs... Hmm...better not count on the next plane.  I'll get back to you

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RE: Flattered? - 1/11/2009 9:39:27 AM   
DarkSteven


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Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Flattered? - 1/11/2009 9:43:50 AM   
simpleplan2


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Status: offline 		OOOOOOOOO!  I feel like Ebay.

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RE: Flattered? - 1/11/2009 9:50:34 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Ummmm.... ummmm....ummmm... I have to compete with that?

/stammers something about his cock size/


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RE: Flattered? - 1/11/2009 9:51:49 AM   
colouredin


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See I get flattered when a builder whistles at me so im probably the worst person in the world to ask.

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RE: Flattered? - 1/11/2009 9:53:20 AM   
SteelofUtah


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Status: offline 		Yeah well I got a Standard Issue White Boy Penis. This means it's got no thrills, bells or whistles, but it works and if I try realy heard she might even get off before I do!

Yeah I know I'm a Keeper. Just remember that the next time you wanna compete.

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RE: Flattered? - 1/11/2009 11:26:41 AM   
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RE: Flattered? - 1/11/2009 11:33:55 AM   
Evility


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Status: offline 		It really is possible to be flattered and uninterested simultaneously.

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RE: Flattered? - 1/11/2009 11:39:34 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

Yeah well I got a Standard Issue White Boy Penis. This means it's got no thrills, bells or whistles, but it works and if I try realy heard she might even get off before I do!



Ain't nothin' wrong with that!!


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RE: Flattered? - 1/11/2009 11:42:42 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I once had a gay man contact me with a badly misspelled boast about how good he was at sucking cock.  I'm straight and was unavailable at the time, and my profile stated both.

I didn't feel flattered.  Call me a snob, but the caliber of person contacting me has a lot to do with how flattered I am, and to be contacted by a semiliterate yahoo who evidently didn't read my profile didn't gratify me much.

Ignore the turkey.  He's already moved on to another random woman who's also not interested in what he has to offer.



Totally agree.  You have to wonder about the literacy of some people when you get cmails like one I recently got:
 
"Hello miss would you mind spanking me till i cant sit down? "
 
This one had sent me the same message back in late November
 
I blocked him and sent the following response:
 
"If you had read my profile, you would have seen these words plainly written across the top:

I am a happily owned slave   "

 
 

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RE: Flattered? - 1/11/2009 11:47:44 AM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		This one guy on yahoo kept trying to get me to tell him about my sex life, claimed he was a doctor, but he kept saying things like how you sex?

Why you sex?


When he meant how do you like sex, and why do you have sex.

Now to me any one claiming to be a doctor, unless they were in some third world country,  should know how to put together sentances properly and should know how you sex? Is not a proper question.


quote:

ORIGINAL: servantheart



Totally agree.  You have to wonder about the literacy of some people when you get cmails like one I recently got:
 
  "

 
 

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RE: Flattered? - 1/11/2009 12:13:03 PM   
servantheart


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quote:

ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss
This one guy on yahoo kept trying to get me to tell him about my sex life, claimed he was a doctor, but he kept saying things like how you sex?

Why you sex?


When he meant how do you like sex, and why do you have sex.

Now to me any one claiming to be a doctor, unless they were in some third world country,  should know how to put together sentances properly and should know how you sex? Is not a proper question.


hmmmm....may be the same guy (or maybe the brother of the guy) who contacted me on yahoo a couple of years ago, claiming to be a doctor and asking me similar questions.  That one was interested in starting an online "sex club" with people from many countries, with the goal of meeting in person at some juncture. 
 
Oh YES!!!  PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE let me join!!!    



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