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Maxwell67 -> RE: Strapon question (1/8/2009 3:54:03 PM)
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ORIGINAL: MsFlutter
The reluctance is understandable. Starting on a smaller scale with prostate massage is good for the reluctant ones if ever they become open to the idea. Done patiently and lovingly, its an incredibly intimate experience that brings a lot of unique pleasure for the male.
A former partner expressed an interest in it so I spent hours studying charts of male anatomy and reading everything I could get my hands on. Even had a long conversation with a practitioner of holistic medicine just to get a better understanding. Suffice it to say, I got a gold star :)
Oh no, I am not reluctant, I am opposed. If mine did not beg for it, I do not think it would have occurred to me to do it to them, since I generally would not attempt something on a sub I had not first tested on myself. But now, having tried it, I do it relatively often. I enjoy it from my end, and she seems to like it, and it most certainly places her into a very vulnerable position as well as causing a fair degree of pain. It is a win-win activity, really. But if I want my prostate stimulated I am sure I can find much more pleasurable (and less painful) ways to have that accomplished and without the need to place myself in a posture which has been symbolic of submission for so long it is ingrained into our genetic memory as such. Perhaps I will look into the "salad tossing" approach. That one seems to have all the benefits and none of the drawbacks.
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