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LadyEllen -> RE: Looking for some help =) (transexual) (1/4/2009 7:06:00 AM)
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Ginger - be very sure that what you feel is genuine. Getting it wrong is deadly.
There are lots of threads on the Mistress boards - where this comes up fairly often - which provide lots of information, though you will have to dig for them. There are dozens of websites too - but search for gender dysphoria and the like to avoid the fetishistic fantasy porn sites.
First and most important bit of advice; dont expect anyone to help you with this. You might get help of course, in which case good luck to you, but its rare. Also dont do this for anyone but yourself. And dont expect it to be anything but the most difficult and dangerous thing you will ever do, and most likely the most lonely too. And dont expect it to be all roses and sunshine when you get near to what you want - the honest fact is, no one else gives a damn and life goes on, the only difference will be that you will be female rather than male, and facing female problems instead of male problems (in case you are under any illusions that women have it easier). And expect a lot of problems in forming romantic relationships. Yes, its tough - very tough. Expect to be ostracized by family and friends, dismissed from work and unemployable, harassed, abused and assaulted. This is not for the faint hearted and not for fantasists.
On the other hand, at 21 and assuming you have the resources to deal with a genuine condition, youre best placed to succeed.
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