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CreativeDominant -> RE: Hearing pain... (1/3/2009 12:11:13 PM)
Personally, I think your Master came up with a great idea. I played with a submissive once that everyone knew was a "cry-baby"...big, copious tears when she played along with gnashing of teeth and loud cries when the strikes began to become harder. She too went through the whole leg-kicking thing and almost twisted her body out of position when she was up on the cross or tied to a spanking bench and her orgasms would hit. I had told her that this time when we played, she would be allowed to make all her usual noise and make all her usual movements but that it would not do her much good as her mouth was to be duct-taped and her limbs were fastened to the spanking bench as usual but the rest of her body was also tied tightly to it. I took her through the usual warm-up that she enjoyed...clamping of the nipples and then light spanking and flogging of her with interspersed touching of her ever-moistening clitoris until that first orgasm. I then switched to my paddle and my slapper and began striking harder. Here came the tears and load moaning but not the body thrashing. I gripped her hair and told her that it was time. I duct-taped her mouth, leaving her nostrils free and continued. I took her through several orgasms, all the while striking harder and slower or lighter and faster. When I switched to the Serpent's Bite, she began to thrash and so I set it down and tied her down, using rope around her body and thighs and arms to secure her more firmly to the table before continuing on with the Serpent's Bite. Her head was bobbing furiously and when I checked, tears streamed down her face continuously but her eyes had this really intense, far-away look to them. When I ended the session and after the first intensity of after-care had passed, I began to speak to her about what she had felt. It took awhile but she began to express that it had been more intense, more of a "just you and me" feeling. After we arose the next day, we spoke of it again at breakfast and she stated more clearly that with all the trappings and show removed, she had been forced to deal with the wetness coming down her cheeks and the sounds she could hear in her head but not beyond the tape. Since they could not be heard, she realized that she soon stopped doing anything more than moan loudly...to her...against the tape. Then, when I tied her down, she was forced to receive the blows and not flinch...other than that which occurred naturally...and that between the duct-tape gag and the binding of the rope, she'd been forced to concentrate on what I was doing, NOT just when I was doing it and HOW I was doing it and on her "EXPECTED" reaction. That's what led to the very intense, "just her and me" feeling. But that was accomplished with duct tape and binding. Now I want to try what your Master has done...I want to be able to order a submissive not to make noise and give her no way other than her own will, and conversely surrender of that will, to make it happen. I also want to try what your Master did not...but I have a feeling he may be considering: No movement, other than what occurs naturally in terms of flinching, without having to be bound.

GabrielleSlave -> RE: Hearing pain... (1/4/2009 5:08:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant Personally, I think your Master came up with a great idea. ThankYou; i will pass that on, although i would like Him to read what everyone has said here. quote: more of a "just you and me" feeling. Yes, You have put this so well; i can truly identify with that... quote: I also want to try what your Master did not...but I have a feeling he may be considering: No movement, other than what occurs naturally in terms of flinching, without having to be bound. He has tried that with me, but before my epiphany and i was to be honest totally rubbish at it... i would like to talk to Him about repeating the other night's silent scene, to work towards what You have suggested. This new dimension to Oour play is something i cannot wait to explore further with Him. gabrielle x

sirsholly -> RE: Hearing pain... (1/4/2009 5:14:57 AM)
CD...that was :::::thud::::: Lemme start over....that was really :::::splat::::: Um...I'll get back to you..

SlaveIndigochild -> RE: Hearing pain... (1/4/2009 5:31:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GabrielleSlave Ok, now this may sound a little wacky, but let's face it to alot of folk wiitwd does anyway lol! Last night when Wwe played, Master forbade me to make any sound. Now i am the kind of person who likes to vocalise pain, to channel it somehow or make it more manageable. Or so i thought... As i waited for Him to begin, i gave myself a good talking to. i told myself i must try my best to obey, to bend my will which naturally told me to yell; to force myself to be silent. i thought this would be impossible and that i would be punished for every sound that would inevitably excape my lips. However i was wrong. The way i was blindfolded, thickly with His scarf, meant that i could rest my head face down on the table, so that my lips touched the surface. It was not a gag, but psychologically it did the same job without being something to bite on. To cut a long story short, i was able to obey and i hardly made a sound through Him using a switch, the thin cane, a paddle and the thicker cane. I breathed into the table. But here's the thing. Because i was not making a sound i became more aware of the sensations i was receiving. Pain was transformed into something else and i swear it felt like i was actually hearing it, because i could not hear my voice. i know that sounds weird, but it was even more beautiful than i could imagine. The pain was immense; i know that if i could have made a sound i would not have coped. i cannot explain it any other way than this; i was hearing my pain... Does that sound odd to anyone else? Have i lost the plot? Am i barking mad? a confused, but still grinning gabrielle x i quote you all back because i think in my opinion all of what you say makes sense to me. My household is currently crowded.....three teens and an elder son who often visits. It's only appropriate that we are silent. When i first met Master we played at His father's house.....His father, ill and dying, in a room next to us made it appropriate that i learned to be silence also. When oi have had scenes with previous partners i was often gagged or commanded into silence. Enforced silence for me intensifies pain. i don't know about the chemistry of that but i am assuming that it is innate at a primitive level to cry out when in pain in circumstances where communication of danger and the need to be 'saved' was crucial. However there is also the capacity in each of us for the need to be silence, hide, mask weakness. i think as an internal framework making a noise distracts from pain. And i must admit when i hit a limit i moan, and moan low and long and the my Master knows.......

GabrielleSlave -> RE: Hearing pain... (1/4/2009 5:48:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SlaveIndigochild It's only appropriate that we are silent. i think that learning silence is a valuable thing. It makes us go inside ourselves and sometimes this is not something we are generally allowed the luxury of doing in such busy lives. i had not appreciated that before. my life as other folk's is, is filled with constant noise (between Uus Sir and i have ums of 11, 8, 6, 5 and 4) and so when the ums are not around the silence is filled up with organising, planning, worrying, thinking, stressing etc etc so our minds are still not allowed that time they need to catch up. Why should play be any different then? Well, for me play is the deepest form of bonding with my Master, of getting back to who i am underneath it all, the best way of destressing and having fun with no thoughts about anything else, but Him and me. The silence i had to keep made this time even more bonding for me. What CD said was absolutely spot on....just Master and me... gabrielle x

SlaveIndigochild -> RE: Hearing pain... (1/4/2009 5:57:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GabrielleSlave quote: ORIGINAL: SlaveIndigochild It's only appropriate that we are silent. i think that learning silence is a valuable thing. It makes us go inside ourselves and sometimes this is not something we are generally allowed the luxury of doing in such busy lives. i had not appreciated that before. my life as other folk's is, is filled with constant noise (between Uus Sir and i have ums of 11, 8, 6, 5 and 4) and so when the ums are not around the silence is filled up with organising, planning, worrying, thinking, stressing etc etc so our minds are still not allowed that time they need to catch up. Why should play be any different then? Well, for me play is the deepest form of bonding with my Master, of getting back to who i am underneath it all, the best way of destressing and having fun with no thoughts about anything else, but Him and me. The silence i had to keep made this time even more bonding for me. What CD said was absolutely spot on....just Master and me... gabrielle x Dear Gabrielle When there are no Um's or Elders then i like to scream like a banshee...it's a luxury because it's rare.

JonieDoesU -> RE: Hearing pain... (1/4/2009 7:06:53 AM)
I meet with a Domme once whose main concern was that I understood that she did not want to hear a sound out of me. I went to the room, undressed, got in the position she had instructed me to and awaited her use of me. I was so worked up from just her demand that I not make a sound, I found it so very hot. And it was, through an intense beating and fisting, I never made a peep, it was all swimming around in my head and when she allowed me to cum, I came like a freight train. It isn't always like I want things but it was a great experience.

T1981 -> RE: Hearing pain... (1/4/2009 9:12:25 PM)
ZOMG had to share. Riding high on endorphins so excuse the brain-deadness of this post. I got there tonight. I tried what you said, breathing, quiet, letting the pain go through me and into the floor....the most intense thing ever. I actually crumbled to the ground several times with the intensity of what it felt like (not simply the pain but what it was doing to me). Used a new toy, some rubber tree straps, tested them out, warmed up, down, then up then down, whole different kind of pain, so good - the pain was exquisite, but letting it absorb, really absorb... holy moly. I'll expand on this when I have more brain power, but I just wanted to say THANK YOU for this thread, never would have occured to me to try for this if I hadn't read it. The orgasm afterwards was intense, but it comes in so far behind to the place I was taken to with how I processed the pain.... Thank you!!!!

GabrielleSlave -> RE: Hearing pain... (1/5/2009 12:42:51 AM)
T1981 oh oh oh i am so happy for you! [sm=cheerleader.gif] That is totally wonderful! i am sitting here with a huge grin on my face and getting even more excited about playing again with Sir! Thankyou so much for sharing that, who knows...this maybe the start of a whole movement of silent and totally spaced out subs and slaves giggles gabrielle x

mc1234 -> RE: Hearing pain... (1/5/2009 5:18:07 AM)
What a great thread to read this morning! It's making me rather jealous and wanting to see Master more than ever ... lol

Aynne88 -> RE: Hearing pain... (1/5/2009 6:51:44 AM)
The first times we played were in hotels due to distance and noise was not an option. I don't make noise, cry out, or scream, ever. To me it detracts from focusing on the delicious torment and for me personally it ruins the intensity to be screaming and making a racket. Breathe, and focus on it. Now sex? That is a whole other story...I am not nearly as disciplined in my vocal restraints.[;)]

GabrielleSlave -> RE: Hearing pain... (1/5/2009 2:02:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aynne88 The first times we played were in hotels due to distance and noise was not an option. I don't make noise, cry out, or scream, ever. To me it detracts from focusing on the delicious torment and for me personally it ruins the intensity to be screaming and making a racket. Breathe, and focus on it. Now sex? That is a whole other story...I am not nearly as disciplined in my vocal restraints.[;)] Sir had to put a hand over my mouth when He was making me cum afterwards with the plug in vibe, He figured someone would call the police lol!! [:D]

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