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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Submissive doesn't equal service oriented. I'm submissive but not service oriented. So maybe stop pigeon holing people and assuming they're lazy or not trained and see if they really are service oriented or not? Try something really novel and see how people are, not what you want them to be. Talk to them, and much more importantly try listening.
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Having the audacity to be owned and not even submissive, let alone *service-bound*, I have to admit that I have a lazy streak a mile wide....I ADORE being with M and not *having* to do anything much.......in fact , I rather think we BOTH do.

Let's face it, some people get their warm and fuzzies from the serving thing and I suppose their guys expect it.

Perhaps the clue was in *servant*..... Bah ...if he wants that , all he has to do is say. I'm sure I can fit in the odd coffee run or bj between massive bouts of utter idleness. I'm not unreasonable, afterall.

agirl

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Submissive doesn't equal service oriented. I'm submissive but not service oriented. So maybe stop pigeon holing people and assuming they're lazy or not trained and see if they really are service oriented or not? Try something really novel and see how people are, not what you want them to be. Talk to them, and much more importantly try listening.