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stella41b -> RE: Do WHAP women still exist? (12/22/2008 1:01:04 PM)
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Oh they exist, but I guess whenever you get anywhere near their sense of sub-dar goes 'do me do me do me do me' like the siren on a police car.
If you think at the age of 47 that a willingness to take a hairbrush spanking is all you need to get you into a relationship with such a woman then I'm sorry but you're living in Cloud Cuckoo Land.
How about changing your perception of women for a start? I mean, she's not some creature there to fulfill your fantasies and make sure your dick gets hard.
Try looking at her as like.. a fellow human bring, just like you, someone who has feelings, thoughts, needs, wants, desires, dreams, problems, and that's for a start.
Then you might also want to consider that she might not always want to be strict and dominant, and that in that long term relationship she might want a bit of input, you know, and that her input might not tally with your preconceived notion of how the relationship will look.
Don't you think it gets a bit lonely working out the details alone of a relationship based on the assumption of meeting your ideal or imagined fantasy woman?
Have you ever thought of trying to just meet a woman - not a WHAP woman or a dominant woman, but just a woman and developing a relationship that you both might be interested in, together?
Makes sense?
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