came4U
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Joined: 1/23/2007 From: London, Ontario Status: offline
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Vend, actually not every place is all that bad, but the question is then, why not just send them money ? If they call and thank you that your gift paid to fix the car, or even to pay up on a mortgage or say electric bill. What is wrong with them enjoying having light in their house ? Well sometimes cash is just a bad idea lol. My ex pays my phone, hydro, cable and some other junk. He also gives me gift cards several times/year because well..um he just knows I am bad with cash lol...If I have it on hand, ooo it gone, for junk yanno, like shoes lol or other nonsense. Then he has to come back to bring me more n more lol. Often was mad was because it seems 'controlling' that he chooses the gift cards thus where and when I make my purchases. I realized though, he knows the schedule of when 'stuff' I own will break down or already has or what I need on a monthly basis (ie: tech store for gadgets like new phones, new washer/dryer or grocery store certificates etc etc). I don't get mad anymore, I revolve my life around spending cash on cash stuff and buying gift certificate stuff on necessities that I would neglect if not for the cards. I don't bite the hand that feeds me LOL. Trust me, they are much safer than cash to me.
< Message edited by came4U -- 12/17/2008 2:22:44 PM >
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