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MsAnnThrope -> FAQ: When to use a Signal & Other question (12/8/2008 11:31:59 PM)
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I have received a lot of questions from subs, and newbies asking about what they should except from a session or if an online or personal experience would be more preferred. Those questions are difficult to answer because all Doms, Domme, Subs, and slaves are different. What not be right for one maybe what the other needs.
The most important questions I can answer, such as
1."When is okay to used the safe word?"
2. "Does Sex Have to be involved in BDSM?"
1.It is ALWAYS okay to use your safe word at anytime. That word is there to protect you. If a session is getting to rough or too intense that one word (or words) will let your Dom / Domme know when to stop. There is no shame in stopping. If you are scared or uncomfortable anytime during your session used your Signal. Even if it is your spouses, lover, or friend. Your Dom / Domme is there to beat you not to kill you =)
2.No. Sex does not have to be involved in your session unless you want it too. Remember this is your session. We all have limits. It may not be something that you are in to at the beginning, but the further you get into this lifestyle it may be something you want. A Sub has to remember that although you are letting someone tie you up, and bound you. You are still in control. You will always be in control.
There are also more important question to be answered, but that is for another time. Okay that’s the end of This FAQ, but if you have any question feel free to write me anytime.
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