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MistressRouge -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/18/2008 11:59:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Ok folks.  Those of you who know Me from around these boards know that hubby has been deployed to Korea these past seven months.  In less than two weeks, he will be home on leave for a month.  I get to spend Christmas and New Years with him and I am literally counting the days until he comes home.

My husband isn't a sub, but he has mentioned to Me that he is willing to bottom to Me one time while he is home.  I've been sitting here kind of wondering what I can do that would really rock his world on the other side of the kneel.  He's no masochist, so I know I can't unleash My full sadist on him.  He's watched me play with others countless times, so I know I don't really have any tricks to pull from My sleeve to send him reeling.  Mind fucks are absolutely out.

So, as the title says, just a question.  If you were going to play with someone after being separated for seven months, what would you do?



Bondage, sensory dep, tease and denial, denial, denial, followed by lots of rumpy pumpy [:D] lol.




steviemichael -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/19/2008 12:21:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact




So, as the title says, just a question.  If you were going to play with someone after being separated for seven months, what would you do?


i liken this as my partner who i am separated i have a sub who also is a swich (gish labels )sometimes we do many things  many times not because we have ran out of things* to do but we found  that the desires within come to the forefront.
in the early times when we both looked deep inside of each others desires needs we found fullfillment and made the hard limits and soft limits a reality nonetheless for us the lifestyle is not a shoping list that we tick off and cross out or even plan out.




steviemichael -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/19/2008 12:32:57 AM)

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ORIGINAL: krikket

Along time ago, i was in your place, only the war was Viet Nam and i'd never heard of any kind of kink.  All i wanted was to make made passionate love and to be held closely.  He wanted a hot shower, a home cooked meal and to watch a football game on TV (which shoulda told me a whole lot..lol).  He did what he wanted, first, then i got my turn.  Personally i think you could rock his world any way he wants, then it's your turn..but then i'm a sub, so my pov probably isn't the same..lol.

Good luck.
jimini

may i say your comments are down to earth good practical advice and the foolball watching maybe the kind of thing HE needs to really score




LadyPact -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/19/2008 1:33:39 PM)

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ORIGINAL: steviemichael

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact




So, as the title says, just a question.  If you were going to play with someone after being separated for seven months, what would you do?


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 for us the lifestyle is not a shoping list that we tick off and cross out or even plan out.

A "shopping list" analogy doesn't apply here.  The question was more geared to what would people want to plan after being separated for a significant amount of time.




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