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LadyPact -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/5/2008 11:51:00 PM)

Thank you so much to everyone who contributed.  One and all.  Just the thought of taking off of these good suggestions brought a smile to My face and a bit of a tear to My eye.  KoM, believe it or not, I heard you loud and clear.  Very good advice to give.  (My regards to your girls.)

MoGa, I really appreciated your words, too.  (My regards to koko.)  What you wrote here is just what I want to do.  If anyone knows the woman behind the Dominant, it is him and I want him to see that.

Also hejira, (My regards to Cuffsnkinks) I wanted to say thank you.    Somehow, it helps to know that others understand missing someone.  Just that little bit helps.  It really does.

Keep the suggestions coming.  I love reading all of them!



youngsubgeoff -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/6/2008 7:18:05 AM)

LP,

First, regards to You and Yours. To add to my Mistress' idea, before you go to the bedroom thing, I suggest you cook his favorite meal, or take him to his favorite restaurant, then maybe to a movie that he's been wanting to see. Make this an all day thing. Remember, this doesn't make You any less dominant, it just shows that You are a woman who hasn't seen her husband in 7 months.

Happy Homecoming

Geoff



MistressOfGa -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/6/2008 7:51:12 AM)

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ORIGINAL: hejira92

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

I understand that he has "seen" it all and watched you do things to subs a dozen or more times, but it was never for or about him. Let him see the woman behind the Domina and at the same time, the Domina that is his woman.
 
Hope this helps..it is what I would do, if I were seeing someone I love that I hadn't seen in 7 months.
 
Hugs!


For some reason, I found myself crying as I read this. Maybe I could feel the raw emotion in your words, or maybe I just understand missing someone.......
 
Whatever it was- it touched me. And Lady P, I hope your homecoming is wonderful, as full of delights and frolic as it is intimacy and renewal.


<Hugs hejira> Thank you.



tornaway -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/6/2008 8:25:57 AM)

 
    I don't know -  you mentioned your husband has agreed to "bottom to you once" during your very precious two weeks .  And the obvious had been brought up by others - that by the time he's home - he's gonna want "it" bad  ( as I suspect you will too ! )!

    Initially , I would let him take the lead , and give him whatever he wants , in whatever quantities - and just show him how glad you are he's home .  Just love him !  R & R with passion ! 
     Then , after a couple days , when the frenzy has quieted some - you can work up to surprising him with any number of the delicious suggestions given here .
 
     In any event - I hope you both enjoy every moment of your time together !



KnightofMists -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/6/2008 9:25:01 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

  (My regards to your girls.)


regards given and well recieved!

Now... I am going to speak for EVERYONE here.

WE EXPECT A FULL AND COMPLETE REPORT IN 3 WEEKS ABOUT THE SCENE IN QUESTION!!!!

we need wanker material  *G*



LadyPact -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/6/2008 9:37:05 AM)

KoM, I sincerely love people who make me laugh....  [sm=biggrin.gif]

Tell you what.  I'll promise to do My best.  I may be a little too busy doing the "I finally got Me some" dance.  [sm=dance.gif]

It isnt' often My play gets to involve physical sex, as well as the S/m play.  You guys might have to scrape Me off of the ceiling.  [sm=insane.gif]



KnightofMists -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/6/2008 9:45:05 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
It isnt' often My play gets to involve physical sex, as well as the S/m play.  You guys might have to scrape Me off of the ceiling.  [sm=insane.gif]



Oh dear... I had no idea that you were suffering so much... I am deeply sorry for your pain... If I had only known... I would of suggested that visited my dungeon so I could help you with your pain *EG*



Serenelysmiles -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/6/2008 9:55:20 AM)

Lady Pact,
Congratulations on his homecoming.  Master just returned from Afghanistan so I can completely understand, and I know the first night all W/we wanted was to be as close to one another as humanly possible, but after that He kind of let loose.  In Your case, since he's not a masochist, maybe light bondage, feathers and suede floggers, light and sensual.  .



LadyPact -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/6/2008 10:07:25 AM)

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact
It isnt' often My play gets to involve physical sex, as well as the S/m play.  You guys might have to scrape Me off of the ceiling.  [sm=insane.gif]



Oh dear... I had no idea that you were suffering so much... I am deeply sorry for your pain... If I had only known... I would of suggested that visited my dungeon so I could help you with your pain *EG*

You know, Dear, I'd make a joke of some sort as to misread that and ask if you were offering to bottom.  The only reasons that I'm not is that I would neither want to offend you, nor would I be able to say it with a straight face.



KnightofMists -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/6/2008 12:16:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

You know, Dear, I'd make a joke of some sort as to misread that and ask if you were offering to bottom.  The only reasons that I'm not is that I would neither want to offend you, nor would I be able to say it with a straight face.



It wouldn't offend me... since my confidenc in myself is alittle more thicker than veneer.  But as a note.. I have many toys in my dungeon and couple live ones too.

So... SM and sex wrapped up into one...  I know my part in the play  *G*



persephonee -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/6/2008 1:17:04 PM)

LadyPact

you have cmail...right after i close this box...(dammit, i always do that...)

perse



CreativeDominant -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/6/2008 1:42:23 PM)

I think you've been given some great advice here. 

I am not a masochist nor am I submissive BUT I found that out through an interesting day.  A switch friend of mine came down from Canada on a swing through the states to see some mutual friends and before we flew off to Kansas to meet with them, she spent 10 days here.  I had agreed that during one of those days, I would submit to her.  During that day, I said "Yes, Ma'am" and I bowed and knelt and did all sorts of servic-oriented things.  When she played with me that night, I was spanked and flogged and paddled and waxed and finger-fucked and dildo-fucked and "made" to eat her sweet, wet pussy and ass and...and you get the idea.

I found out several things...as noted, I found out that I am not submissive.  I balked at many of the things she told me to do, at least inside.  While it made me happy that I pleased her that day, I found no joy in the submission...it was more about making my partner happy.  I found out that I am not a big masochist...while I enjoyed the flogger and it aroused me sexually, I did not enjoy the paddle nor the crop.  I enjoyed the waxing and the anal stimulation.  What I most enjoyed though was seeing this side of her from the angle that many of her submissives see her and not through my own, dominant eyes.  What I most enjoyed was the slow, teasing build-up to an incredible release...the giving of her pussy to my mouth, only to have it pulled away just as I was really getting into it...the licking of my cock until it was about ready to explode and then, having it left alone...the finger-fucking of my ass and then the dildo-fucking of my ass, right against my prostate WHILE stroking and sucking at my cock until my hard ass was coming off the bed, only to have her stop.  The stepping away from the bed while I laid there, bound at the wrists and with a hard, straining cock as she slowly put her toys away and began to dance as she removed her clothes.



HerLord -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/6/2008 4:07:17 PM)

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

I think he wants you to "dom" him into sexual submission.
In other words, he wants you to treat him like a play-toy, without the pain.
Think of all the ways you can do this, and have at it.
I'm sure he'll love it.


It was the likes of you and your kind that brings me back to here.

I aint gonna tell ya what is gonna do it for him, but I'm pretty sure "more than once" will get ya through.



slavejali -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/6/2008 4:21:39 PM)

I think the best thing you can give him is the epxression on your face when you first see him, thats gonna make him feel so good. After that ..its all fun whatever you decide to do[:D]



Subversed -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/6/2008 4:27:03 PM)

don't sex him. lol



elegantalexis -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/6/2008 7:06:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

we need wanker material  *G*


[sm=mademyday.gif]



LadyPact -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/18/2008 7:57:32 PM)

Hello Everyone.  I pulled the thread back up so I could let MisterP61 read the responses.  I wanted you all to know that he appreciated reading everything that you all had to say.  As we read the responses together, he enjoyed all of the ideas a great deal.  No, it certainly won't be the first night, but it will definitely be one of the nights.

He's so happy to be home and is very much looking forward to his bottoming experience.  (Yay Me and yay us.)  I do promise a very good report of what we decide to go with and share it with you.  I think it will be a different view for him to be a participant in a scene with Me, rather than watching the scenes I do with others.



MisterP61 -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/18/2008 9:30:51 PM)

Being as it is Me who this is also about, I feel I need to also thank everyone for their inputs.

First I want to say it is so good to be home again.  After seven + months, it is a much deserved vacation and I do plan on making the most of it.  Second, for those thanking us for our sacrifices, I say you are welcome, and though it is very much appreciated, I do not serve for that, for it is a deeper calling in Me that drives Me.

As the beautiful LadyPact has said, I am not submissive, though some of the things I do may seem like it is so.  However, even in "vanilla" relationships, those where the two people love each other on a deep level that is hard to reach, but attainable, I do things for her out of Love and never think twice about doing them for Her.  For example, like many of the suggestions that were made, I enjoy bathing her...... there is something that is so deeply sensual and erotic about it, that I could be the "baddest" Dom out there, but would always jump at the chance to do so for her because of the love I have for Her.  it is the hopeless romantic in me, and I will never be ashamed of, nor think of ever changing that part of Me.

I do rather like the suggestion of Me being Her "service" sub.  There is something quite intriguing about Her being Domme and Woman that has My blood boiling some.  This wont be the first time I am bottoming to Her, but it has been a very long time, and I am looking forward to it.  I am no where near the masochist Her boy is, but I can tolerate pain to a degree, and She knows My limits there so I have no worries ever.  All in all..... this will be a great month for Us, and I give this Woman a lot of credit for what she does to support Me in My career.  I AM the luckiest Man alive, and though some may wish to argue that point..... I will say this..... it is to Me that I am, and that is all that matters in Our lives together.

Thanks again for all of the support.

MisterP61

Edited to correct My hunt and peck typing skills



HouseofTreasure -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/18/2008 10:15:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MisterP61

Being as it is Me who this is also about, I feel I need to also thank everyone for their inputs.

First I want to say it is so good to be home again.  After seven + months, it is a much deserved vacation and I do plan on making the most of it.  Second, for those thanking us for our sacrifices, I say you are welcome, and though it is very much appreciated, I do not serve for that, for it is a deeper calling in Me that drives Me.

As the beautiful LadyPact has said, I am not submissive, though some of the things I do may seem like it is so.  However, even in "vanilla" relationships, those where the two people love each other on a deep level that is hard to reach, but attainable, I do things for her out of Love and never think twice about doing them for Her.  For example, like many of the suggestions that were made, I enjoy bathing her...... there is something that is so deeply sensual and erotic about it, that I could be the "baddest" Dom out there, but would always jump at the chance to do so for her because of the love I have for Her.  it is the hopeless romantic in me, and I will never be ashamed of, nor think of ever changing that part of Me.

I do rather like the suggestion of Me being Her "service" sub.  There is something quite intriguing about Her being Domme and Woman that has My blood boiling some.  This wont be the first time I am bottoming to Her, but it has been a very long time, and I am looking forward to it.  I am no where near the masochist Her boy is, but I can tolerate pain to a degree, and She knows My limits there so I have no worries ever.  All in all..... this will be a great month for Us, and I give this Woman a lot of credit for what she does to support Me in My career.  I AM the luckiest Man alive, and though some may wish to argue that point..... I will say this..... it is to Me that I am, and that is all that matters in Our lives together.

Thanks again for all of the support.

MisterP61

Edited to correct My hunt and peck typing skills


Glad your home. Take care of Her. She deserves it. And Thank YOU, for your contribution to keeping this the greatest country in the world! All of you who disagree... Shut the fuck up and get the hell OUT!

By the way.. the whole reason I responded again was to tell you how much your idiocy statement made me chuckle. Thanx for that.

Peace
Storm

*edited to add*
(The idiocy statement in you siggy.) 



MisterP61 -> RE: No catchy title, just a question (12/18/2008 10:22:33 PM)

Thank You Houseof Treasure...... You have no idea.... or maybe do.... the complete idiots that I have to deal with sometimes in the Army (they are called officers). 

Shit!!!!!! Did I type that in My out load typing voice?

MisterP61



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