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RE: Metamorphing Doms? - 11/24/2008 9:44:22 AM

Aneirin

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If I can be honest with myself, I cannot see why others can't, I am no one special.

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RE: Metamorphing Doms? - 11/24/2008 9:47:23 AM

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That's the 1st wave, once you get used to them you will get the 2nd wave of Doms who tell you why you would be the ideal slave for them...

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RE: Metamorphing Doms? - 11/24/2008 9:49:15 AM

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ORIGINAL: Aneirin

If I can be honest with myself, I cannot see why others can't, I am no one special.

Because everyone is not you.

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RE: Metamorphing Doms? - 11/24/2008 10:02:00 AM

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Yeah I was thinking procreation strategy as well.

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ORIGINAL: Aneirin

Has anyone ever wondered how many people on this site are living alone and unloved, they just need something, anything and will comply with anyone's wishes just to have someone take an interest in them.

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RE: Metamorphing Doms? - 11/24/2008 10:15:27 AM

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Interestingly, there is some statistical evidence to support what you've experienced. Trevor Jacques' exhaustive questioning of Leather folk has revealed that male Dominants are the most malleable in their orientation. And while I don't recall the specific percentage, they were considerably more so than female Dominants, or submissives of either gender.

How much of that anomaly is related to a greater desire for getting laid is difficult to say.

John

Men are men no matter if they call themselves a dom or submissive. Men will do whatever it takes to get laid. So don't be disappointed or surprised. (saddened, possibly)

If one does not cater to whatever side they hope to get you on.. you are easily deemed, "close-minded and in a little box". When hit with this attitude.. consider the source and stick to what you seek.

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RE: Metamorphing Doms? - 11/24/2008 11:54:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: Aneirin

Has anyone ever wondered how many people on this site are living alone and unloved, they just need something, anything and will comply with anyone's wishes just to have someone take an interest in them.

I prefer not to wonder about stuff like that...it is too sad.

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RE: Metamorphing Doms? - 11/24/2008 12:28:02 PM

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I was expecting you and Rover

Sheesh. WashMet, and I wouldn't be there? That was an easy ten bucks

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RE: Metamorphing Doms? - 11/24/2008 12:29:11 PM

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Men will do whatever it takes to get laid.

Nah. I certainly won't. Who needs the clap?

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RE: Metamorphing Doms? - 11/24/2008 12:39:51 PM

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One can get a bit jaded with these emails! lol You can't let them get to you and yet, there is a day or time when they will. lol There are a lot of people saying this seems to be an online thing... and most days I agree with that, but I see it in real time too. Confused or lonely or even the almighty horney people are everywhere! Trying to figure some out is just a mind boggle and a time waster.

I don't care what the motive is... I do care how people approach me and if they deal with me in ways I find acceptable. If they don't, block... I don't care how many nicks they change to and come back with. I do want someone who knows themself and who knows what they want. I don't have time to play their experimentation broad. Age... creeps up on you and after a while, you just don't have time for all that and just want to settle in and get comfy... not boring... but at ease and never knowing where someone is coming from just isn't in my comfy zone anymore.

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RE: Metamorphing Doms? - 11/24/2008 2:11:42 PM

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i asked my Master once, do you ever think about being submissive to a woman?

He replied, 'Yes it is possible that I would succum to a woman but I could never live that way, it's natural for a Dom to think on the other side of the spectrum, it helps us get into that pretty little head.'

He also was talking to a Dom before he met me, (not in a submissive sense but he was considering that if he really liked her then he would switch back and forth with her and having a more vanilla relationship, have D/s just during bedroom play.)

i have had Doms, allow the me to do what i wanted to Them for the night, the time is usually brief and done during sexual play, but it is possible. It's usually done when they trust and know the person already knows what Their limits are. Perhaps They were just looking for what they didn't have. You mentioned you met a guy who already had a submissive, maybe He as a Dom wanted something different that day that his submissive was too submissive to fulfill? So, i say believe what you read, and know there are two sides to every coin, and some coins look the same on both sides.

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