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RE: So young... - 11/11/2008 7:03:10 AM

pahunkboy

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Sat, you are now a rare commodity.

I watch how my straight relatives are. Most will not get serious with any date that has children.   Im sorry to say this but it is true. In my brothers case, he does not want to raise someone elses kid.   He lamented last year how lonely he is and how oh how he wished he could meet a girl. Well the rock video girl of his dreams popped up this summer. She has carreer, her own money, and is a model.   She wants to move in with him. (with her son)   his reply is no. (so its over)
Yet- the type that bake cookies and are plain would never suit. He is 40 now.

My other brother doesnt mind. He likes alot of people in the house. however it is crazy that he did not get nuterred sooner. He likes sex, and as a result alot of child support.

So you must decide to plan your life. You can never control others. You can not change others. You can only control YOU.

If it were me, I would not get alarmed until a few years before the menstrual stops any chance of a successful pregnancy.

If you are done with your eduction and have a stable life, then it is closer to time.

At 20 I travcelled to see the country. Im so glad I did. It is harder when there are adult responsabilites.

Dont let any guy trap you.   but nor should you trap any guy.

Life life as tho all of civilizarion counts on you, your contribution.

Hold your head up high!

We all are not cut out to be the ballerina, or the young mom struggling, or the newly wed.

My biggest mistakes in life-- listen up- have always been- when I violated my own principles.

Be honest direct and candid with yourself.

There are so many men (and woman) that are losers. THEY gamble , cheat, drink too much, are controlling, when I worked at the plant of 70 men, only 3 I thought would be suitable to date myself or a female loved one.

those odds are not very good.

So embrace your hobbies. You are the most important person in your life.   smile.

< Message edited by pahunkboy -- 11/11/2008 7:04:35 AM >

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RE: So young... - 11/11/2008 7:16:48 AM

LaTigresse

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Oh wait until you are 32 and then 42, and see what those people are like. It is fun.

I moved away from my home town when I was 16, then back off and on until I was 26. I only lived 70 miles away but didn't spend any time there. EXCEPT, once a year I would go back to work with the 4H kids at the county fair.

I loved seeing the changes. The arrogant star football jock get fat and bald. The snotty blonde who's daddy was the VP of a national women's clothing store that thought she was a princess end up broke, divorced and living with mommy and daddy, who also lost everything when the company went belly up. The nerdy girl that got made fun of and always hid behind a book ended up a sucessful attorney and gorgeous!

The ones that make me sad are those that will never be seen again. Somehow they fell through the cracks of life and got lost forever.

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RE: So young... - 11/11/2008 11:32:01 AM

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Holy cow, don't get married or knocked up as long as you can avoid it. Even though my biological clock has ticked for too long I do not regret it one bit. I have enjoyed freedoms that most never do. I have been able to do just about whatever I want whenever I want for a very long time.

I do have some financial responsibilities, but unlike others I have never had to babysit, pay child support or anything of the sort. The money I make is mine. And therefore I only have to work part time and can live just fine.

At 48 I know it is too late, kid's 10 I'd be 58, kid's 20 I'd be 68. I still do not regret it. Not one bit.

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