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pahunkboy -> RE: So young... (11/11/2008 7:03:10 AM)
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Sat, you are now a rare commodity.
I watch how my straight relatives are. Most will not get serious with any date that has children. Im sorry to say this but it is true. In my brothers case, he does not want to raise someone elses kid. He lamented last year how lonely he is and how oh how he wished he could meet a girl. Well the rock video girl of his dreams popped up this summer. She has carreer, her own money, and is a model. She wants to move in with him. (with her son) his reply is no. (so its over)
Yet- the type that bake cookies and are plain would never suit. He is 40 now.
My other brother doesnt mind. He likes alot of people in the house. however it is crazy that he did not get nuterred sooner. He likes sex, and as a result alot of child support.
So you must decide to plan your life. You can never control others. You can not change others. You can only control YOU.
If it were me, I would not get alarmed until a few years before the menstrual stops any chance of a successful pregnancy.
If you are done with your eduction and have a stable life, then it is closer to time.
At 20 I travcelled to see the country. Im so glad I did. It is harder when there are adult responsabilites.
Dont let any guy trap you. but nor should you trap any guy.
Life life as tho all of civilizarion counts on you, your contribution.
Hold your head up high!
We all are not cut out to be the ballerina, or the young mom struggling, or the newly wed.
My biggest mistakes in life-- listen up- have always been- when I violated my own principles.
Be honest direct and candid with yourself.
There are so many men (and woman) that are losers. THEY gamble , cheat, drink too much, are controlling, when I worked at the plant of 70 men, only 3 I thought would be suitable to date myself or a female loved one.
those odds are not very good.
So embrace your hobbies. You are the most important person in your life. smile.
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