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subnoodles -> RE: sex in public - where can it be done legally? (11/10/2008 5:07:42 AM)

i went to a park near me in brighton (uk) with a 'friend' on saturday night to see what would happen.  i was put into position on all fours and was walked like a dog with my leash.  it was exhilarating, but the english winter weather meant there was only us there!  i can only imagine how exciting it would be to do this in public's eye!!

xx




DesFIP -> RE: sex in public - where can it be done legally? (11/10/2008 5:53:00 AM)

Does the public include your preschool cousin? Your elderly grandparent? Because if you want to start upsetting people who aren't interested in watching your sex life, why not start at home? Why inflict this on other people?




tazzygirl -> RE: sex in public - where can it be done legally? (11/10/2008 12:06:15 PM)

i simply want to know where the OP gets off deciding what the public wants to see.  tell ya what OP... your so hot abd bothered to do this in public while others watch.. send an invite to your family, have them meet you in the park,,, grabdparents.. kids.. neices, nephews.. neighbors too.. invite everyone you know... then go for it.. film it all.. get the thrill of your life.  do you have the guts?

tazzy




BadRaven -> RE: sex in public - where can it be done legally? (11/18/2008 7:11:23 AM)

Try the Cap D'Agde in the South of France. Whilst there this Summer, I saw several people being led around on dog-leads in public in broad daylight, naked. One poor guy had weights on his balls and couldn't match the speed of his erm, "owner", I felt for him, trying to scurry along a bit quicker. (I did laugh at him though, he he)

OK,  it's a naturist resort, so naked people are to be expected, but there's no rule that everyone has to strip off, your handler could stay clothed, take you for a stroll, then into the dunes for a damned good seeing-to. Or on the beach if you fancied drawing a crowd. Behaviour like that is, strictly speaking, against the law, but believe me, the sorts of things I saw going on, no-one will bat an eyelid if you stay away from the family area.



Whoooo, popped my posting cherry here!





NorthernGent -> RE: sex in public - where can it be done legally? (11/18/2008 2:59:56 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sailorfrank

Used to be called   "Dogging"   not sure what they are calling it now?



Still dogging and has been going strong since the '60s (probably before for all I know).

The police used to turn a blind eye. Since the advent of the internet word has spread, and every idiot and his dog has started going for a piece of the action. Many of these car parks are in nature parks (the idea being seclusion) that include reservoirs, picnic areas, fishing areas, running, dog walking trails etc; the last thing those using the parks want to see during daytime, is used condoms all over the place from the night before. The swingers left the place as they found it, so the police weren't overly concerned; the new batch of internet doggers leave the place a mess and have pretty much ruined it as the mess means loads of complaints from the public and consequently the police have to stamp it out.




stella41b -> RE: sex in public - where can it be done legally? (11/18/2008 4:11:36 PM)

The two most obvious places in Eastern Europe for me would be Poland and Slovakia. The north of Poland is very open and tolerant, but central and southern Poland less so. In Slovakia pretty much anything goes, and I'm sure that you could find plenty of forests and places where you can do this sort of thing.

This is unless you are talking about populated places, which is where - no matter where you go - you're going to run into the same issue of public decency and consent.

However how would you feel about say, 12 guys having a gay sex orgy in full view of you and your family? Would you enjoy it? Feel comfortable?

Would you be happy to have the video screened on national television? Could you cope with the reaction of those who saw such a video?

Doing anything in public requires a certain amount of consideration for others and looking at things from different perspectives.

Just thought I would point that out.




antipode -> RE: sex in public - where can it be done legally? (11/18/2008 7:02:10 PM)

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Why inflict this on other people?


At a guess, because it turns her on. You must remember that the United States is probably the most puritan country on earth, and that in large parts of Europe people will shrug and go about their business, who cares. The idea that you can't show a breast or a nipple on national television, or in a newspaper ad for cosmetics, but laugh about horrid raunchy jokes on Fox, is what divides them from us, or us from them.




antipode -> RE: sex in public - where can it be done legally? (11/18/2008 7:04:54 PM)

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Cap D'Agde


And they certainly are used to weird Brits, around Cap d'Agde, there are so many British they have several of their own radio stations, and a TV channel. This is not a bad suggestion.




antipode -> RE: sex in public - where can it be done legally? (11/18/2008 7:08:13 PM)

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the new batch of internet doggers leave the place a mess and have pretty much ruined it


Same is occurring in the Netherlands and Germany. For all three places, websites point you at where the action is, each Friday.




Vendaval -> RE: sex in public - where can it be done legally? (11/18/2008 7:16:11 PM)

Yes, several of the Public Disgrace videos are filmed in Eastern Europe.  http://www.publicdisgrace.com/site/?c=1
 
I recommend finding a swing club or a member only dungeon that will let you film on the premises.




MsFlutter -> RE: sex in public - where can it be done legally? (11/19/2008 4:42:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: JustDarkness

In Germany or belgium in a forrest or so..shouldn't be a problem either.


I can vouch for what Just said. Germany in a forest (esp along the volksmarch trails), Austrian mountaintops, wine cellars in Italy, the beach at night in Costa del Sol...
 
<sigh>




ODadEO -> RE: sex in public - where can it be done legally? (11/19/2008 4:58:35 PM)

I have a barn not too far from house and road, so you could hear the public, and I could watch and cheer :)  Maybe get my own little girl in on the action (with me) while you and yours go at it ;)  Not exactly 'public' but kinda, and I wouldn't complain a bit!




ThundersCry -> RE: sex in public - where can it be done legally? (11/19/2008 4:58:56 PM)

In my back yard...
 
Nothin` like shaggin` someone in a snowbank...
 
 




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