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RE: Gay? - 10/28/2008 5:37:08 PM

MasterKeeps

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Gay sex/leather is very, very different from what you see here. A quick stop at a local bathhouse will teach you in an hour just how different gay sex can be. Leather (gay BDSM) is quite different from het BDSM as well and probably explains why you do not see more leatherfolk here. There is crossover, mind you. I don't know specifically of any collarme type boards for leather folk, but there are many organizations nationally as well as online groups that can help you along. http://dir.yahoo.com/Society_and_Culture/Sexuality/Fetishes_and_Fantasies/Leather/Organizations/ Just Google "gay leather organizations," and you are likely to find something of interest. Go into this understanding that gay leathersex is very unlike, simply guys screwing in het BDSM. Look for a leather conference on the right side. Enjoy your voyage!

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RE: Gay? - 10/30/2008 1:44:21 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterKeeps

Gay sex/leather is very, very different from what you see here. A quick stop at a local bathhouse will teach you in an hour just how different gay sex can be. Leather (gay BDSM) is quite different from het BDSM as well and probably explains why you do not see more leatherfolk here.

I understand YMMV and all that... but I've found gay and straight bdsm worlds to not be all that different. The gay scene tends to be more promiscuous and more formal, but really, I've found that a lot of the things that apply here apply in my life and in others'.

After all, the kind of relationship I'm seeking the kind many heterosexuals are looking for and many have found.

The scenes may be a little different, but they have more in common than not, especially on a personal level.

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RE: Gay? - 10/30/2008 6:32:40 PM

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Would you be interested in bi males too? Or strickly gay? If you were interested in bi males too, that might open up the playing field. :) But if your preference is gay only, that does narrow your search.

Good luck in your search!

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I am into the BDSM lifestyle and i am new to this site. i would like to get into the male on male area of this but this place doesn't have alot for people interested in this or im not looking in the right place can some one show mere where to look

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RE: Gay? - 10/31/2008 4:21:55 AM

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the site is mostly str8 but there's lots of gay and bi guys

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RE: Gay? - 10/31/2008 5:00:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: MasterKeeps

A quick stop at a local bathhouse will teach you in an hour just how different gay sex can be.

Ehhh...which ones do you visit? (no, I don't want to visit..lol)
The remark sounds a bitt prejudiced

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