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lusciouslips19 -> RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? (10/24/2008 6:53:22 AM)

I can say it doesnt work out very well when your sub is having a sing a long to motown. Its just too dang peppy for a scene! [:D]



Lordi71 -> RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? (10/24/2008 6:54:53 AM)

LOL yeah that could be a bit of a disadvantage




Nefric -> RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? (10/26/2008 4:32:17 AM)

I just checked out Nightwish and i have to say thank you for mentioning them. Good solid metal and I love her voice



catize -> RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? (10/26/2008 5:26:59 AM)

I find music during a scene too distracting. 
And there was one time S. was using a crop on me and he got into this rhythmic pattern.  I made the ‘mistake’ of saying out loud, “has a good beat and easy to dance to” (Bandstand, anyone??)
The beat and the rhythm changed rater drastically!  ~grins~[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m26.gif[/image]



xenboi -> RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? (10/26/2008 9:29:01 AM)

i like something dark and brooding Massive Attack's Mezzanine is always good!



xenboi -> RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? (10/26/2008 9:34:49 AM)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jZsHNkAJBDU



tia111 -> RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? (10/26/2008 11:43:19 AM)

enya works for me



CollaredChicklet -> RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? (11/2/2008 8:23:37 AM)

I think, my favorite song to submit to would have to be "Venus in Furs"  by Velvet underground.  give it a try, you won't be displeased! 
"kiss the boot of shiny, shiny leather... shiny leather in the dark..."
great song.



theobserver -> RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? (11/2/2008 10:01:17 AM)

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ORIGINAL: cinmin

i'll just toss this in here since i don't ever check that other forum either...i love the music that is in the movie From Dusk til Dawn. It is played by Tito and Tarantula and i can really get lost in it while scening/playing.

cin


I love Tito and Tarantula!



antipode -> RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? (11/2/2008 10:06:49 AM)

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Sorry everybody!


I don't think he meant it that way. He said  "Polls and Random Stupidity", not "Trolls and Random Stupidity" *grin*





antipode -> RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? (11/2/2008 10:10:49 AM)

I don't know. I had one sub who wanted to hear the Spice Girls, and would sing along - every session, continuously. Drove me bonkers. And of course the video was weird. I personally like silence, listening to breathing gives me clues as to what I am doing. Most of the time.



theobserver -> RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? (11/2/2008 10:28:17 AM)

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ORIGINAL: raveonette

I apologize beforehand if this has already been discussed and I just couldn't find it.

Music is very, very important to me and I constantly make mix "tapes" for almost every situation and most of my close friends. I've been thinking about doing one for BDSM (when silence isn't implemented) but the results have been kind of all over the place. Beyond playing what my Dom would want (let's say He ordered me to choose), do you have any recommendations if you ever mix music with your sessions? Do you ever use it to alter the mood or ambiance of the scene(s)? Do you usually go by what would make the Dom feel more powerful or intimdating, or to influence the sub specifically (or both?) For some reason I would LOVE to see someone using Slayer for those purposes...

Also, for all the hilarious responses ("Speed polka, definitely!" "That 'Rawhide' song!") a 'real' one would be aces. :) I would love to make a compilation from the suggestions and offer it to anyone who would be interested.



Jazz a la Cassandra Wilson (You move me/Traveling Miles, Time after Time), Miles Davis (Kind of Blue),

Joy Division (Atmosphere), Bjork (Venus as a Boy - domination/Unravel-submission), The Cure (All cats are Grey) and Type O' Negative (Love you to death), Janet Jackson (Rope Burn/Anything).

There is more, I love music but I'd be here all day rattling off the bands and songs I would love to submit to (if I were to submit *grins*).




LATEXBABY64 -> RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? (11/2/2008 3:45:34 PM)

this is a no go area for me i want my music videos to be pure in my head    not currupted wtih someone beating someones ass to a drum or something 



FaithBlue -> RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? (11/2/2008 3:55:12 PM)

No opera. One time, I was with a Dom and he had "Carmen" on. I couldn't help thinking of the Bugs Bunny version, even in the serious moments and I was smiling when I shouldn't have been.



BLGirl -> RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? (11/2/2008 3:59:50 PM)

The absolute best music; Hector Berlioz, 5th movement from the Symphonie Fantastique.... It is from the movie "Sleeping with the Enemy." Most eerie and cool at the same time, makes my skin crawl, but makes other things quiver at the same time.



DesFIP -> RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? (11/2/2008 4:16:50 PM)

We prefer jazz without vocals. I find vocals too distracting.



auburnvixen -> RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? (11/2/2008 7:21:44 PM)

I use anything by Joy Division, Depeche Mode, Rammstein and Butt Boy; selected Metallica, Alice in Chains and NIN; Death Cab's "I Will Possess Your Heart" (the long version), R. L. Burnside's "It's Bad You Know" (great for rhythmic caning), Samhain's "Human Pony Girl" and some Danzig works well too.



nicknacks -> RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? (2/8/2009 8:27:46 AM)

I was listening to the Torchwood soundtrack last night and was intrigued by how many tracks would make great session music. I think any music with lyrics would be distracting. Would any Domme want to compete with a singer for a sub's attention? Instrumentals, particularly ones which build in intensity, sound ideal -- the music of John Williams or Jerry Goldsmith for example.



feydeplume -> RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? (2/8/2009 8:51:42 AM)

Razed in Black would fit in well with what you have going here



T1981 -> RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? (2/8/2009 8:54:34 AM)

This may sound strange, but classical music.

We'd never scened to music before our playdates with our most recent friends, and he chose classical music. Pretty amazing what the percussions and cresendos can translate to in terms of sensations, and also how easy it is to get swept up in the music as you're scening.....absolutely marvelous!



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