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Diffferent - 10/22/2008 8:59:27 AM   
Dnomyar


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RE: Diffferent - 10/22/2008 9:01:43 AM   
CatdeMedici


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RE: Diffferent - 10/22/2008 9:04:45 AM   
faerytattoodgirl


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RE: Diffferent - 10/22/2008 9:06:11 AM   
persephonee


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Status: offline 		Yes, D...but i tend to blow them anyway....

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RE: Diffferent - 10/22/2008 9:07:40 AM   
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RE: Diffferent - 10/22/2008 9:13:48 AM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		the people I've met from here have been just as they appeared to be.  Not always as compatible as I'd hoped, but no misrepresentations.....

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RE: Diffferent - 10/22/2008 9:14:22 AM   
bipolarber


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RE: Diffferent - 10/22/2008 9:22:48 AM   
lauren0221


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Have you ever talked to someone on CM and then met them in person and found them completely different from what you thought they were?


In general no, but sometimes they are even more wonderful than I thought:)

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RE: Diffferent - 10/22/2008 9:32:02 AM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		Yes, most of the time.  A few were exactly the same as online.


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RE: Diffferent - 10/22/2008 11:42:24 AM   
cravesdom


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Status: offline 		So far the ones I have met have been pretty much the same as they were online. And my Bob was even better in person!

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RE: Diffferent - 10/22/2008 12:00:10 PM   
Steponme73


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RE: Diffferent - 10/22/2008 12:52:53 PM   
hizgeorgiapeach


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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Have you ever talked to someone on CM and then met them in person and found them completely different from what you thought they were?


That's one of those truely Loaded questions, ain't it? lol

I've met 6 people specifically due to both of us having CM accounts.  4 were exactly like what I expected them to be like, the other 2 (a couple) were completely opposite (and complete flakes.)  Those meetings were all while I was living in Georgia.  Back home here in Oklahoma, things have been a bit....... Different.  There are several whom I know locally, and knew prior to having a CM account and/or knowing they had a CM account.  And I do mean Several.  Of the ones that I knew offline prior to knowing about their accounts - only 1 of them is like what I've seen in the posted profile, and I consider him a friend.  A couple of them are almost the exact Opposite of what I've seen in their profiles on here.  And the remainder are about half like their profile half highly innacurate.  All of the ones that have met me - whether they like me or hate me - would agree that my profile is accurate, primarily because I don't claim myself to be either dominant or submissive, and because I'm up front in having no interest whatsoever in a relationship.

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RE: Diffferent - 10/22/2008 1:12:24 PM   
lronitulstahp


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Status: offline 		yeah... a couple of them said they were Doms...but then i met them.

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RE: Diffferent - 10/22/2008 1:15:35 PM   
colouredin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

the people I've met from here have been just as they appeared to be.  Not always as compatible as I'd hoped, but no misrepresentations.....


Nod Nod, and im not just including CM, but all the BDSM sits im on, ive met over 100 people from these sorts of sites and none of them were anything other than what they claimed to be, as my beautiul GT said though, cant guarantee chemistry.

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RE: Diffferent - 10/22/2008 1:20:30 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		What you have to remember is, with the written word, we put OUR emotions and OUR emphasis on them. If it doesn't match up with what they intended, they can seem different. I've had people say I'm much more easy going in real life. :-)

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RE: Diffferent - 10/22/2008 1:23:12 PM   
lronitulstahp


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

the people I've met from here have been just as they appeared to be.  Not always as compatible as I'd hoped, but no misrepresentations.....
i can think of ONE  huge misrepresentation...but who's counting?

And when we met...love at first sight!!!!!

~caffeinated kitten


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RE: Diffferent - 10/22/2008 1:56:05 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I've never met anyone from here but from other online venues over the years. Some were as represented and others not so much so.

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RE: Diffferent - 10/22/2008 3:37:00 PM   
GreedyTop


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

the people I've met from here have been just as they appeared to be.  Not always as compatible as I'd hoped, but no misrepresentations.....
i can think of ONE  huge misrepresentation...but who's counting?

And when we met...love at first sight!!!!!

~caffeinated kitten



DAMMIT, Tulip!!   And that memory WAS blocked!!!!   *grumbles*

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RE: Diffferent - 10/22/2008 3:44:43 PM   
beargonewild


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Status: offline 		I'll let you know at the end of the month after I meet 4 from CM in person!  I don't expect they will be much more different then how they present themselves here.

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RE: Diffferent - 10/22/2008 3:57:36 PM   
girlivy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Have you ever talked to someone on CM and then met them in person and found them completely different from what you thought they were?


Yes, and on the other hand, have met a few who were exactly as they represented themselves.   I do my best not to form conclusions  before Imeet them, and to keep an open mind. When meeting I go with no expatations other than making new friends, and enjoying time out, and just having a good time.

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