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pinnipedster -> RE: I get so jealous... (10/17/2008 12:16:12 PM)
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As a general reply: Yeah, sorry about griping. I was pretty damn depressed last night.
I am not saying that I can't engage in *any* bondage play. Even some fairly elaborate bondage play.
It does seem, however, from what I have encountered so far, most toppish women are far more into inflicting pain than putting guys in bondage. I haven't found one yet who seems to take any particular pleasure in what I think of as bondage for its own sake. (Not that I have anything against some pain, but bondage really is my main kink.) I've been fairly disappointed, at the play parties I have been to -- admittedly, not very many, but a few -- that the emphasis seems to be almost entirely on whipping and flogging. This is fine, but some variety would be nice. Particularly when you see some of the lovely bondage equipment available. Last one I was at, there was this marvelous contraption in the center of the main room to which one could be bound in all sorts of interesting ways, but I didn't see it used at all that night except as a place for people to perch while watching the scenes going on around it.
It's just frustrating to think that if I were a young, reasonably attractive and limber female, I could send a picture to any of several online sites where they'd not only be willing to put me into bondage far more elaborate than anything I am likely to find in the amateur scene, but they might even pay me for it. (True, that would mean my pictures would be all over the net, but at this point I've pretty much ceased worrying about that; it's not like I'm ever going to run for President. If I were actually a young woman, however, I admit I might feel differently.)
Anyhow, sorry for venting here, thanks for the various advice. Part of what's really frustrating is my financial situation -- now is not a time when I can really do much exploring -- and, more generally, not having money just sucks. :) Hopefully this will improve.
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