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RE: Impact Play: Kneeling vs. Standing - 10/13/2008 7:30:43 PM

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Oh! That is fun! Thanks for reminding me, daddyslilloneds. ;-)

Oh, Master.....??? *hehehe*

What? You want that horse tail buttplug?

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RE: Impact Play: Kneeling vs. Standing - 10/13/2008 7:33:32 PM

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Naaaaaay!! :-)

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RE: Impact Play: Kneeling vs. Standing - 10/13/2008 7:56:23 PM

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My favorite for impact play is to put someone in my suspension cuffs, clip them to a suspension bar hanging on a chain from the ceiling. It allows for easy access to all parts of the body and I like to keep them on their toes ;)

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RE: Impact Play: Kneeling vs. Standing - 10/13/2008 8:00:48 PM

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I've never experienced any impact type of play in a standing position. I've always been either laying down, kneeling, or strapped down to a bench.

I don't think I'd like it standing up, I'd probably cave in or something. But maybe it would be easier to endure the pain? I don't know.

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RE: Impact Play: Kneeling vs. Standing - 10/13/2008 8:09:22 PM

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Until recently, I've always been flat for impact play, but I've been suspended with cuffs from a chain in the ceiling......the first few times it was done, i just hung on to the chain, but was too distracted by trying not to fall on my face. In the suspension cuffs, I can still "let go" and float, but once I'm gone, all my weight is supported by my hands and wrists, which in turn cuts the length of time that I can hang, because of circulation issues.

Personally, I'd rather be down flat, that way I'm not worrying about supporting my own weight, and can play much longer. If I'm the least bit uncomfortable physically, I can't get my mind where it needs to be. My shoulders and arms are my weak points on my body, so I have to be careful how they are tied up or restrained. Even kneeling is okay.....as I've been restrained kneeling, but still bent over the bed for support. Any indication that I feel that I may fall and I'm out of whatever space I'm in.....and my restraints and blindfolds and gags must be fitting properly.......slippage will have the same result in bringing my out of my head space.

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RE: Impact Play: Kneeling vs. Standing - 10/13/2008 8:22:35 PM

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I have never had to wear heels during impact activities and hope I never do. That would spell disaster for me. Unless, of course, it was light impact where I didn't have to balance.

My favorite has been lying face down on the bed...that was always easiest for me, and therefore - being who he was (and still is, I assume) - what I would receive the least. Either I'd be standing with something to brace myself, or standing - bent at the waist with my hands on the floor (and yes, I've fallen over when the wallops were hard enough), or face on the floor as in the air. Probably the hardest was being strung up with my hands overhead and nothing to hold onto, so my body swayed around a bit. But he dug it so I was thrilled, hey.

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RE: Impact Play: Kneeling vs. Standing - 10/13/2008 9:47:57 PM

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Hello there! While he does use both (standing and kneeling either on the floor or one of the benches) I find that if I had my choice, I would always be on all fours on the floor in front of him with no restraints. I find something deeply fulfilling about knowing that even if I wanted to crawl away, he would stop me. When he places me down on the floor like that, he usually tells me that I can move, I can try to crawl away but it isn't going to stop him from beating me. Being in that position also allows me to rock and move with his motion or the music and allows for a more primal feel for me. He can kick, step, push, beat, move, drag, and position me any way he wants throughout the interaction. I can withstand more this way. Well wishes, Cav's ally

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RE: Impact Play: Kneeling vs. Standing - 10/14/2008 6:03:30 AM

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My absolutely favorite place to be is over Daddy's knee. He sits in a straight backed chair we keep in the bedroom for this purpose. I can take a lot in that position and it feels so absolutely right. Otherwise, it's standing up, leaning against the bed. We have one of those very high four poster beds so leaning puts the edge of the mattress just under my chin for lots of support. It hurts a lot more in this position and I like it, but can't endure as long. None of my heels have ever had any acquaintance with the pavement, they're only for play, and the time I can spend upright on them is limited. But that's okay, because Daddy likes to use them to bind me up in all kinds of delightful ways, so I spend little time standing in them

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An aside, and I'd love to hear from others about this. I adore being on my back across the bed with my head hanging upsidedown over the side to take Daddy into my mouth. It totally bypasses my gag reflex that way. Has this been anyone else's experience?

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RE: Impact Play: Kneeling vs. Standing - 10/14/2008 6:07:41 AM

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For prolonged impact play, I prefer and need to be kneeling on a bench or horse. I can really let go and take all I'm given then. For singletail and flogging, standing (cross or not) works best as those are a shorter time frame activity and usually separate from all out impact play.

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RE: Impact Play: Kneeling vs. Standing - 10/14/2008 6:17:21 AM

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i love the cross - unfortunately, the Dom i play with has a thing for heels. Standing tied to the cross with my legs spread past shoulder width apart in 6" stilettos doesn't make for the most comfortable experience. The muscles in my ankles and the outside of my calves start to burn after not too long. Now, in heels, i don't mind standing with my arms tied above my head - leaving me able to hang onto the rope. i used to love being on hands and knees for a nice flogging, but i ruined that when i wrecked my motorcycle last spring - being on my knees is mostly more painful than anything He can do!

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RE: Impact Play: Kneeling vs. Standing - 10/14/2008 12:20:06 PM

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Well suspended or bent over and tied to a Breeding Bench isn’t bad either.

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RE: Impact Play: Kneeling vs. Standing - 10/14/2008 7:43:10 PM

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For a flogging, i like to be on the cross, either with hands free to change position or in very supportive cuffs. Neither i nor Master want other sundry muscle aches and pains to interfere with what He is inflicting. Leaning against the cross is very comfortable and no high heels here, it would be a disaster!

For a spanking i prefer to lean over something so my chest and tummy are supported. In Our little dungeon area We have a rowing bench which is height-adjustable, when it's pointing up on a diagonal it's very comfy. In the house, We use the arm of the sofa. my knees mean that kneeling is only ok once i'm already deeply into subspace when i drop to them voluntarily. Or We have used the edge of the bed too though that's a bit low.

As a Domme, I prefer to have My boys supported similarly so they stay somewhat still (I've found boys wriggle more than girls!).

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RE: Impact Play: Kneeling vs. Standing - 10/14/2008 8:24:40 PM

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Neither, and it don't matter if it's kneeling over a bench or other aparatus I'm not capableof kneeling with out great deals of discomfort and then my knee's hurt for days after, And as for standing , that's painful and hard to maintain after a few moments, and since the point of our play is for me to have fun as well as him, we don't do play where kneeling or standing is needed.

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While attending a recent local event, a couple of sub friends and i were discussing the pros and cons of a kneeling position vs. a standing position during an impact play scene. They preferred standing because it was less intense and they could withstand longer sessions this way. Kneeling, in their minds, made everything too taught thereby making the sensations more intense, which, in turn, made it difficult to withstand a long session. i, on the other hand, prefer kneeling because it is more intense. Also, because i have somewhat weak ankles and Master always has me in stilletos during a scene this means that i'm not only trying to concentrate on the sensations; but also trying to make sure i keep my balance and don't twist or injur my ankles, which is difficult to do when W/we play heavy. A kneeling position allows me to experience fully all the sensations Master is giving me without the worries. i can, in essence, relax and enjoy. As for the added intensity...well, that's just bonus for me. Bottom line, though, i'll take it anyway i can get it...even standing on my head, if need be. But, if asked my preference, it would definitely be kneeling.

So, i'm curious what other submissives/slaves think on the issue. And there are, perhaps, even a few Doms/Dommes who have a preference for different reasons as well.

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