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RE: Making new relationships - 12/12/2005 5:58:57 AM

IrishMist

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ORIGINAL: GIGGLEBOB

The problem Is jamesthehumanrug is that I have charisma in person but online I'm pixels and my charisma dont transfer too well.

I don't know about that Gigglebob. From reading your profile, and reading what you have posted here, you sound like a wonderful person. Just be yourself, be honest, and have lots of fun as you learn more. :)

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RE: Making new relationships - 12/12/2005 7:37:27 AM

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time, patience, watch who responds to the message boards, you can get a feel for them through their responses and it warms the approach a tad---

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RE: Making new relationships - 12/12/2005 10:26:09 AM

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If you're here to look for a relationship then you will probably be disappointed. Don't expect anything. This isn't a dating service. Be honest, be fair, be truthful and be yourself. Fill out your profile in detail honestly and include at least one picture of yourself. Enjoy what's here for it's own sake and don't worry if you don't hear from anyone.

OscarHargraves

Well, i have a profile on other sites, such as b.com, but truthfully i rarely even check to see whether i have mail. i do use CM as a "dating service" but it rarely happens that i agree to meet a Man in real life. Most wash out long before that stage. But gee whiz, Oscar, those of us who are searching need hope; don't squash that.

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RE: Making new relationships - 12/12/2005 10:56:37 AM

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"do you have smelly feet"

FTopinMichigan

Wow; i have received annoying emails but this is a cake-taker, LMAO. So, did You answer him? LOL; tell us.

To the Op; FTop is correct; some/many will discard an email that merely says "hello"; if You see a post that moves you, write to the member and then tell them what they wrote was s'how important to you.

Run searches and write to people who have what You seek; and tell them that; offer some information about yourself.

Make sure You have a good profile yourself. You might check out this thread:

http://www.collarchat.com/m_211664/mpage_1/key_Dom%2CMaster%2Cprofiles/tm.htm

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RE: Making new relationships - 12/12/2005 11:01:43 AM

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ORIGINAL: OscarHargraves

If you're here to look for a relationship then you will probably be disappointed.

While I can agree about not -expecting- anything, I can't agree that this isn't a good place to find someone that you are compatible with for a relationship. SR and I found our Sunshine through CM, and she's been a blessing to us. My acolyte, Sethembile, who entered training with the Abbey, however, we found because we met her through the local scene. She is also a treasure, but a completely different person, with completely different perspectives than our Sunshine -- and we like it that way. We cherish both of them for the individuals that they are, and the new challenges and perspectives they bring to our lives.

When the time is right, the right situation will present itself. Take your time, enjoy your opportunities to talk to people, in person and in writing, and just let the experience be what it is and you'll be fine. Don't let naysayers or hostile individuals make you afraid or bitter -- just believe in what you want, and commit yourself to being who you are, without fear and without apology.

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RE: Making new relationships - 12/13/2005 7:01:05 AM

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I try to Katylied but I cant be sure that the same messages get a long cos I communicate a lot with facual expressions and body actions which you cant see.

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