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Ooookay.... so life handed you two a couple of lemons, and instead of making lemonade, or even sticking them in the frige, you're going to throw them, and your life together, in the garbage.

What the hell?  So you're separated by career concerns, this means now your relationship is over?  Neither one of you has the balls to be patient, work through a less than perfect year, and strengthen your commitment -- Instead you're going to take your wedding rings off and toss them down the shitter.

Well done, fits right in with the lazy, me first, instant gratification mindset of current western society.  Gods forbid you should accept the fact that stuff happens, you can work through it, and keep on.   Far easier to break up!

Grow up.  Both of you.  If you care about each other as much as you claim to, then a mere separation shouldn't tear up your relationship.

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* Just as a side note the situation i used was only an example. It's not an issue now, we both have our control back by choosing to hang in there.