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WhiplashSmile2 -> RE: Spanking & whipping as punishment? (10/2/2008 2:00:31 AM)
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My thoughts on this topic may or may not be a suprise to some people. In fact me and the new girl talked about this awhile back too.
I'm pro supportive of spanking as punishment, however very seldom have I ever had to spank anybody. Be it kids or a sub/slave. There are number of misconceptions I see at work on this thread along with lack of acceptence or understanding.
I make it clear and upfront about the type of offenses or wrong doings that I will spank somebody for. The Top of the list, if I catch somebody attempting to cause or causing another person any physical or great harm. I have zero tolerence for this behavior.
Anybody who I've ever punished with a spanking it's one to three blows at most. Yes, it does make an adult sub/slave feel like they are being treated like a kid. It's punishment and it's humilating to be spanked like a kid. However, if you want to act like a kid, be prepared to get it like a kid. Reminded that you are in fact been acting like a kid. The Humilation factor of being treated like a kid, is punishment in itself.
Anybody who I have ever spanked, trust me, they more then deserved it and they knew it and knew the major wrong they did.
No confusion of it being associated with pleasure either. A Masochist can feel the stinging reminder and trust me, they won't be processing it as pleasure. Because of the mental aspect going on at the time. It appears that too many people are afraid that spanking a Masochist will somehow result in confusion. This is a misconception.
As it's been stated, the whole mental aspects of punishment is what gets to anybody. Ok, combine those things along with a wack on the ass. The Brain is not processing this as pleasure or a great experience.
Again, I stress that very seldom have I ever had to spank a kid or a sub/slave. This is a very rare thing for me to do. However, still none the less it's something I have done and will do.
Sure, the sub/slave might be feeling like they are being treated like a kid, but then again that's 75-80% of what it's about. The humilation factor. It's anything but about PAIN, this is why Spanking even a Masochist even as punishment can and does really fucking work more time then not.
Corperal style punishments really have a bad rap these days. It's not some abusive behavior. There are people who abuse punishment, and this has resulted in it having a bad rap these days.
If I can loving spank somebody's ass 20 times while playing, I best be able to spank there ass 1-3 times as a means of punishment if they have committed some major wrong doing. Come on, if you can take it during play, you can take it when it's the real deal. At least physically you can deal it, mentally it will eat you up inside being treated like a little kid, which makes it real punishment and more mental compared to being physical.
Spanking is confused with beating somebody senseless. Again, it's not about mindlessly beating somebody or taking anger out on somebody. Punishment is punishment. You can wack somebody on the ass 1-3 times while being pissed off, just as much as you can stand there and come up with a list of their prileages you are going to revoke. Words often can cause more hurt compared to physical actions any day. Just because you are not physically touching somebody does not mean you are not prone to perhaps subjecting more long last injury to them verbally.
People that express they never do such and such while angry sort of concern me. Makes me wonder how much control they really have over themselves when they are pissed. You can be pissed, upset, angry and pissed and still be in control of yourself. It's something that one has to master and be aware of in themselves. The aspect of self discipline at work.
It's like telling somebody, hey I suck at being able to control myself when I'm pissed or angry.
I'm sorry if I'm sounding harsh and judgemental here. I'm expressing my honest thoughts on this topic and matter. I'm not here to be part of the Social BDSM Glee club and make lots and lots of friends and worry about pissing somebody off or not.
Punishment is just that, spanking for punishment is not play, not even for a masochist, don't worry it won't confuse them and get them thinking punishment is pleasure and vice versa. The human mind works very well at understanding and processing what the fuck is going on. Plus spanking and the humilation factor involved reinforces D/s.
Sure, if somebody can take 20 hard licks to their ass during play, but find taking 1-3 licks to their ass as punishment too much, there's something wrong with the picture. Must be something mentally that troubles them. Hence spanking is not so much of a physical thing as it is mental.
OK, enough of this rant. I know I'm not the only person out there that understand this concept.
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