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SlaveIndigochild -> Synergy (9/30/2008 9:16:29 PM)

The way i live my life and those i live my life with: it's an inspiration.
What gets created between Us and them is greater than the sum of its parts: books, poetry, plays, photography, performance, music, art.
definition:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Synergy   Synergy (from the Greek syn-ergo, συνεργός meaning working together) is the term used to describe a situation where the final outcome of a system is greater than the sum of its parts.
Question: does bdsm produce synergy for you in your life and if so how?

And Stella: thank you so much for an amazing Munch. Thought provoking, creative and the start of something truly amazing. A synergistic moment in time.




FangsNfeet -> RE: Synergy (9/30/2008 9:44:28 PM)

Pet and I made a baby together.




DavanKael -> RE: Synergy (9/30/2008 10:58:11 PM)

Hi, SlaveIndigoChild----
Your question speaks directly to a response I gave in a different thread.  Synergy is exactly what I was talking about.  Here goes: 
Sex, a part of which is D/s, has always struck me as special, particularly sacred.  The potential for that exquisite alchemy that is greater than the sum of its parts, for me, seems most potentially manifest in this way.  This isn't a thought that appeared for meone day though it's developed moreso across time; from the moment I was aware of sex and understood what it was, I knew it for something precious.  Magical.  Sex is the place in which I have, on occasion and most strongly, felt the boundaries between myself and another melt, the twining of energies together, merging into something greater than the sum of its parts; achieving greater union with each other, with all, with the Universe. 
I also see in myself the desire to walk a spiritual path with a male partner/husband as my guide.  My beliefs are solid, they don't need shoring up but the shared communion of thought, of idea of sacredness strikes me as part of sacred dominion/submission; balance between us. 
  Davan




MasterFireMaam -> RE: Synergy (9/30/2008 11:11:50 PM)

Life IS synergy. How we react to living creates our experience.

Master Fire




juliaoceania -> RE: Synergy (9/30/2008 11:15:08 PM)

He demands that we be more together than we are separately... If he did not feel we were we would not be together... Hence his screen name on this site




GreedyTop -> RE: Synergy (9/30/2008 11:20:04 PM)

what MasterFire said

(hi, Juliana..nice to see you again)




juliaoceania -> RE: Synergy (9/30/2008 11:28:19 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop


(hi, Juliana..nice to see you again)



Howdy! Nice to see you too!




SlaveIndigochild -> RE: Synergy (9/30/2008 11:29:20 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

Pet and I made a baby together.

[:D] sweet reply.




SlaveIndigochild -> RE: Synergy (9/30/2008 11:33:26 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

Life IS synergy. How we react to living creates our experience.

Master Fire


Sometimes. for some, their principle appears to be entropy.....war, greed, conflict, destruction, violence, abuse. Quite a different principle. But one i guess that those involved in are neither aware of or prepared to own.




MasterFireMaam -> RE: Synergy (9/30/2008 11:48:46 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SlaveIndigochild

Sometimes. for some, their principle appears to be entropy.....war, greed, conflict, destruction, violence, abuse. Quite a different principle. But one i guess that those involved in are neither aware of or prepared to own.



These things are necessary until we learn the lessons therein. Eventually, human kind will have to wake up, learn to be NICE to each other and move beyond these negative emotions caused by fear. If we don't we simply won't survive. But...now we're kinda off topic. ;-)

Master Fire




SailingBum -> RE: Synergy (10/1/2008 12:36:56 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SlaveIndigochild

The way i live my life and those i live my life with: it's an inspiration.
What gets created between Us and them is greater than the sum of its parts: books, poetry, plays, photography, performance, music, art.
definition:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Synergy   Synergy (from the Greek syn-ergo, συνεργός meaning working together) is the term used to describe a situation where the final outcome of a system is greater than the sum of its parts.
Question: does bdsm produce synergy for you in your life and if so how?



Heres the thing....  Life is a lot about synergy.  kinky or not.  I get that this is a kink friendly site but synergy has it's place in all relationships.  Kink has nohting to do with it.

BadOne




RCdc -> RE: Synergy (10/1/2008 2:18:29 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

Life IS synergy. How we react to living creates our experience.

Master Fire



Synergy is two or more activities.  Life isn't synergy, but the product of it.
 
the.dark.




SlaveIndigochild -> RE: Synergy (10/1/2008 5:11:02 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

Life IS synergy. How we react to living creates our experience.

Master Fire



Synergy is two or more activities.  Life isn't synergy, but the product of it.
 
the.dark.

Then maybe synergy could be BOTH a product of life and life itself. see i'm just putting the two ideas next to each other.
This is what happens inside my experience of being 24/7. it's an internal process as well as something which is behaved 'out'. Whilst in terms of behaviour there's no evidence that i am in any particular dynamic as an internal experience i am always in it. There's no 'edge' of being out of it just because i am not playing, kneeling, receiving pain etc etc.
What i was getting at really was how much the all round experience of living out bdsm has inspired me, well in my case to write. The writing would still be there but there would be only about 50^ of what i produce...literally my other personna which writes about non-dynamic related stuff.
i'd want to say synergy is baout something being created which is, as the definition of the term suggests, something more, something greater than just the sum of two people
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RCdc -> RE: Synergy (10/1/2008 5:47:17 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SlaveIndigochild
Then maybe synergy could be BOTH a product of life and life itself. see i'm just putting the two ideas next to each other.
This is what happens inside my experience of being 24/7. it's an internal process as well as something which is behaved 'out'. Whilst in terms of behaviour there's no evidence that i am in any particular dynamic as an internal experience i am always in it. There's no 'edge' of being out of it just because i am not playing, kneeling, receiving pain etc etc.
What i was getting at really was how much the all round experience of living out bdsm has inspired me, well in my case to write. The writing would still be there but there would be only about 50^ of what i produce...literally my other personna which writes about non-dynamic related stuff.
i'd want to say synergy is baout something being created which is, as the definition of the term suggests, something more, something greater than just the sum of two people
.



I don't know Prinnie.  I just do not get how life is synergy - not even for a moment.  What you do, you write, you eat, you have sex and this boils down to life, but it's only a product of the synergy.  The synergy is the actions, not the result.
 
When Fangs states he and his partner made a baby - they are the synergy, not the baby.  Synergy is the process.  The sex, the people, the conception.  The baby is the product of said synergy.
 
You living BDSM, you involving with others, experiencing different feelings, emotions and the sensations is the synergy.  The writing is a product of it.
 
So yes, synergy is the creating of something more than which began, but it's the process, not the end result.
At least, that is how I see it.
 
the.dark.




scarlethiney -> RE: Synergy (10/1/2008 5:37:38 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

Pet and I made a baby together.


Congrats to  you both!!!

scarlet




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