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sistermargaret -> RE: discipline (9/30/2008 11:51:17 PM)
Discipline is being called at 6:30am and told to get my ass downstairs and do my yoga, asked what my weight is today, and given instructions on a new excersize to do. He does this because He knows my health and future are important to U/us both, but more importantly my physical fitness and weight control are goals i set for myself but can't maintain by myself. i need discipline and He gives me what i need. Punishment is entirely different, and something i only got once. Didn't mind it so much, as i like that sort of thing, just not so damn HARD! "OW goddamnit" is not a safe word, lol. sm All it takes is absolute surrender

ranja -> RE: discipline (10/1/2008 1:58:28 AM)
Sistermargaret i know exactly what you mean, even some very selfdisciplined subs need a push on certain things, and it is such an enormous help if your Dom knows exactly how and when to push. Some things are just an awful battle to do for yourself. Same i suppose for Doms, but i think subs are more inclined to respectfully remind or ask Him for things...or beg that helps too

sistermargaret -> RE: discipline (10/1/2008 6:09:30 AM)
Now it's.........i dont know. I want to be myself as well. I'm all mixed up. Help me please? I can tell you this much. With the RIGHT Dominant you will remain you, who YOU are, only so much better. Not only are you who you are right now, but you will become all that you can be. The RIGHT Dominant is the Gardener of your soul. Here you are, this little bud waiting to blossom, all this wonderful potential, all these hopes and dreams and desires just trembling on the edge of fruition, but even at this point, your destiny can go either way. Nipped in the bud or fully blossomed. The Gardener prunes the unnecessary branches of your life that suck nutrients away from you. The Gardener keeps the bugs away, feeds and waters you, and takes such pride in you when your potential blossoms in all it's glory and radiance, and for Him you are most lovely. i know it's a scary thing to consider loosing one's hard fought for independence, and it is indeed wise to question everything constantly. But when Master RIGHT comes along, He will be your Gardener, and you will be happy and content in His garden. sm All it takes is absolute surrender

leadership527 -> RE: discipline (10/1/2008 7:23:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sistermargaret I can tell you this much. With the RIGHT Dominant you will remain you, who YOU are, only so much better. Not only are you who you are right now, but you will become all that you can be. The RIGHT Dominant is the Gardener of your soul. Here you are, this little bud waiting to blossom, all this wonderful potential, all these hopes and dreams and desires just trembling on the edge of fruition, but even at this point, your destiny can go either way. Nipped in the bud or fully blossomed. The Gardener prunes the unnecessary branches of your life that suck nutrients away from you. The Gardener keeps the bugs away, feeds and waters you, and takes such pride in you when your potential blossoms in all it's glory and radiance, and for Him you are most lovely. This is absolutely beautiful. It is my dream to be exactly this for my wife.

Daes -> RE: discipline (10/1/2008 9:16:12 AM)
Both discipline and punishment can be done in love. When I see the word discipline, I think of actions, protocols, training, even punishments etc that are meant to correct bad behavior. When I see the word punishment, I think of something that is used as a form of redemption for bad behavior. They could easily be one in the same, but that's just my take on it.

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