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GreedyTop -> RE: Dressing Like a Domme (9/28/2008 6:19:05 PM)
yeah, that teasing peek is HAWT :)

RumpusParable -> RE: Dressing Like a Domme (9/28/2008 6:21:14 PM)
If you search online, you can also find some very sassy looking wedges nowadays... height with more support/balance and without as much stress on the feet with the angle. I've not done shopping for that sort of thing in ages so don't have links handy or I'd share, but there are some very non-traditional and sexy wedges out now.

RumpusParable -> RE: Dressing Like a Domme (9/28/2008 6:28:13 PM)
I took a minute to view your profile to get look at you for ideas... The sharp long-skirted women's business suit style would look really good on you... find one nicely tailored, elegant, and it would cover while giving a very attractive boss-lady/stern-mistress look on you. And honestly? You could pull off some of the latex suits well if you found some you like... on someone with your shape and frame, the good quality ones hold everything in place and hide more than would be expected. But, generally, I think going for that more BossLady, haughty-and-stern mistress look would be great for you... sexy but covering as much as you care to. Tailored vests that cover but emphasize the bust and waist, mixed with nice slacks or slit-skirt. Starched blouse with high-waisted skirt and comfortable heels or wedges... Don't now if any of that is your style at all, but it's an angle lol.

kiwisub12 -> RE: Dressing Like a Domme (9/28/2008 6:28:31 PM)
I've always thought that "dress-up" clothes and bare feet were hot!

RumpusParable -> RE: Dressing Like a Domme (9/28/2008 6:37:48 PM)
Oh, and there's also the option of doing what I do most of the time with the great looking but not so great for walking shoes: not walk in them more than the most minor amount possible. When the shoes are on, a slave is serving me... if I need to walk to the bathroom, they lend me an arm or their duty is to remove my shoes and care for them until I sit back down, then they put them back on me. If a session directly involves sexy shoes, I put that at the beginning or end (again with the sub doing shoe-duty) and do the rest in my bare feet.

MistresseLotus -> RE: Dressing Like a Domme (9/28/2008 6:53:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MstrssScarlet I hope this doesn't belong in the off topic section. If it does, I apologize. I'm wanting to change my look. I can no longer wear the high spike heels that I once did (and still love) and I'm looking for something that is still fetishy and "domme looking", but more comfortable. Yes, I realize that you can be a domme in your pajamas if you want, but I'm talking about things like parties and events. It also helps put me in the mood when I'm having a session. Any suggestions? Mistress Scarlet edited for spelling Do up the hands and feet.. Spa pedicures and bejewel the bare feet. (Edited to add- do ultra feminie.. I'm thinking an east Indian sari complete with bindi)

MstrssScarlet -> RE: Dressing Like a Domme (9/28/2008 9:17:16 PM)
You have all been a tremendous help. Thank you for your time and advice! Mistress Scarlet

WhiplashSmile2 -> RE: Dressing Like a Domme (9/28/2008 9:40:17 PM)
How about a Pair of Ass Kicking Platform Boots or Shoes!! No slender heels involved... Added bonus are the shoe/tire marks on sub/slave ass like it was a blacktop road....

WhiplashSmile2 -> RE: Dressing Like a Domme (9/28/2008 9:42:23 PM)
How about a pair of spiked NIKE track/running shoes! You get to screw in little studded track spikes! Sure the shoes themselve might not look mean, but the underside has a wicked bite!!

WhiplashSmile2 -> RE: Dressing Like a Domme (9/28/2008 9:44:26 PM)
Mountain or Hiking Boots!! You can buy some really Kewl looking ones in black.. Nice wide and thick tred.. Hell, steel covered toe work boots, some of these look trendy now! Great for ball kicking I imagine...

MstrssScarlet -> RE: Dressing Like a Domme (9/28/2008 9:46:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile2 How about a Pair of Ass Kicking Platform Boots or Shoes!! No slender heels involved... Added bonus are the shoe/tire marks on sub/slave ass like it was a blacktop road.... I like your thought process! LOL Mistress Scarlet

MasterFireMaam -> RE: Dressing Like a Domme (9/28/2008 10:02:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop Scarlett? Have you tried using a long, full skirt? Then whatever footwear you choose will be only revealed at YOU R discretion.... Yup! I'm wearing harley davidson boots under this. Oh, and boxer briefs, too. ;-) http://www.collarme.com/photos/tn/tn_252740p01.jpg Master Fire

pdv99 -> RE: Dressing Like a Domme (9/29/2008 12:34:35 AM)
If you like the Doc Marten look, but find they aren't comfortable there are now lots of other manufacturers around - try the higher lacing versions of Magnum boots, popular with the police and military.... Peter

Lynnxz -> RE: Dressing Like a Domme (9/29/2008 3:57:09 AM)
What about this skirt? :D If you told them to make it long enough, you could prolly get away with flats. Also, here are some thigh high flats.

DesFIP -> RE: Dressing Like a Domme (9/29/2008 4:26:40 AM)
English riding boots from any tack shop or direct from Ariat. Low, wide heel, and space in back to tuck a crop in comfortably. You do better getting measured at a tack shop though to fit the calf correctly. And yes, with a severe black skirt with a slit.

GreedyTop -> RE: Dressing Like a Domme (9/29/2008 4:34:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop Scarlett? Have you tried using a long, full skirt? Then whatever footwear you choose will be only revealed at YOU R discretion.... Yup! I'm wearing harley davidson boots under this. Oh, and boxer briefs, too. ;-) http://www.collarme.com/photos/tn/tn_252740p01.jpg Master Fire Thats gorgeous!! and HAWT!! :D

LadyPact -> RE: Dressing Like a Domme (9/29/2008 6:33:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl from my experience its usually the pro's who wear the fetish clothes...ive never seen a non pro wear leather....unless at a club. i also rarely see pictures on cm of a mistress in leather. I think you would be mistaken.

LadyBeckett -> RE: Dressing Like a Domme (9/29/2008 7:07:46 AM)
What a wonderful question, MstrssScarlet. As a girl I would wear my mother's heels about the house. I loved the way I felt while wearing them. I still do, but I have modified my style with some of the newer additions to my collection. The heels, while still 4", are a little thicker. I maintain the peep-toe and t-strap style, however. Sometimes during play I will wear strappy style sandals. What naturally submissive boy doesn't sigh deeply with longing at the sight of a Domina's beautiful feet? Instead of wearing stockings, I will just wear a pretty garter. For parties a sexy cutout platform or a nice black or brown leather wedge may work. http://www.thisnext.com/item/96ADC5D8/Giuseppe-Zanotti-Metallic-Cut http://www.dsw.com/dsw_shoes/catalog/product.jsp?index=20&category=cat20020&prodId=180719&brand=

MstrssScarlet -> RE: Dressing Like a Domme (9/29/2008 11:52:48 AM)
Lady Beckett, that first pair of shoes you posted the link to are incredibly sexy! Unfortunately, they're already sold out. No suprise there. I have to keep the height of my heels even lower than the 4" on that pair. Usually 2-3 is as far as I can go. I have arthritis and it destroyed (among other things) the joint in my left foot right behind the big toe - where the ball of your foot is. After surgery, I've had to work back up to anything with a heel at all and seem to have plateaued where I am right now. Platform shoes do indeed make it easier to walk in any size heel. As someone else already described, the weight is transferred more evenly as you move. I noticed while browsing through the online catalogs last night that the oriental look has become somewhat of a fetish. I'm a little confused on this one. Would this be considered sub, domme, or simply fetish? Anyone have a clue? Mistress Scarlet

azropedntied -> RE: Dressing Like a Domme (9/29/2008 12:12:16 PM)
Scarlet i have seen the Domme look the fetish look and subbie concubine look all done well through oriental fetish fashion MIDORI uses that in spades and she defines herself a fetish diva , i think whatever fits can work .

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