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RE: Perceptions - 9/25/2008 6:45:18 AM   
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Perceptions, was an excellent title for this post.  Simply because my perceptions and assumptions, based off what you shared, would hve been worlds different from your own. 

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RE: Perceptions - 9/25/2008 6:55:05 AM   
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ORIGINAL: subeos

The profile I could not even get through. To me sounds like a inflated ego. It must hurt to have such perfectness in you.

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I agree so much here... I was skipping through the whole thing and my final thoughts were: "Egocentric, closeminded jerk."

Yes jerk...


I find this part to me extremely insulting to some:
"I am not here to deceptively, or hypocritically romanticize BD/SM just to cure some dangerously desperate lonely desires of middle-aged, overweight women who are unsure as to what they want, and why they want it."

Also the whole: "Omg im so real, I was titled "Master" by ONE person rofl!"

Is just ridiculous.

Just my opinion on the whole thing

That said, I do think that people who expect slaves of doms to dress a certain way should realize this is not important.

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RE: Perceptions - 9/25/2008 6:58:44 AM   
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I was reading your post and found it to be really enlightening. I have an interesting thought I wanted to share.

Coffee. I need coffee first before I can share that thought. Good coffee. Maybe something along the line of hazelnut or vanilla. After I get the coffee, I will probably have to cook up a decent batch of pancakes.

You need pancakes with your coffee. It just makes sense. I can't really share my enlightened thoughts on an empty stomach with just coffee. I'll need lots of syrup as well.

Let me tell you about dishes. No, my enlightened thoughts aren't about dishes, but if I have made coffee and pancakes, I will need to do the dishes. If I procrastinate, I will forget about them and they will sit in the sink all day.

Rinse, wash, rinse. Procrastination isn't the way of a real master. I can't be perceived as procrastinating. I think procrastination was what I wanted to talk about. Or was it perceptions. Maybe some other "P" word. Oh yeah, peanuts.

Peanuts are great. I love peanuts. They are all salty and crunchy. They feel good in my mouth.

But how do I know if they are really salty and crunchy? Maybe that is just how I perceive them. They might me sweet and soft to someone else.

Woah...my head hurts now.

My mother told me life is like a bag of peanuts.

There is a lot of nuts out there.

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RE: Perceptions - 9/25/2008 7:03:23 AM   
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Made me chuckle there Mad...  


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RE: Perceptions - 9/25/2008 9:03:23 AM   
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Awesome post !!!

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RE: Perceptions - 9/25/2008 9:08:19 AM   
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MR... I think I love you!!  LOL

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RE: Perceptions - 9/25/2008 9:27:22 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DefinitivelyDom
"Well what the fuck does a Dom look like little clueless girl actor?", I asked.



Does anyone really talk like this, outside of bad movie dialogue?

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RE: Perceptions - 9/25/2008 11:30:19 AM   
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I was so naturally Dominant that I wasn’t even aware of it.
A calm confidence.
Charisma, Charm, and My ability to say what I felt.
Even if it wasn’t so nice.
I had that Charisma.
That Charm.
That Integrity.
That ability to intrigue them with a look, while frightening them with the same look.
The ability to draw them in with an intoxicating presence.
I’ve watched girls knees buckle as soon as they enter My personal space.
I’ve seen their words stumble, and mumble, because of hot flashes in their head.
I’ve seen them look at their shoes in self shame when their eyes locked onto mine in a way that we both knew I could make them do anything I wanted them to, and that they’d love every minute of it.
That’s My Perception.
It will not change.

Let me guess..................your a legend .......................in your own mind?


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RE: Perceptions - 9/25/2008 11:33:02 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

I was reading your post and found it to be really enlightening. I have an interesting thought I wanted to share.

Coffee. I need coffee first before I can share that thought. Good coffee. Maybe something along the line of hazelnut or vanilla. After I get the coffee, I will probably have to cook up a decent batch of pancakes.

You need pancakes with your coffee. It just makes sense. I can't really share my enlightened thoughts on an empty stomach with just coffee. I'll need lots of syrup as well.

Let me tell you about dishes. No, my enlightened thoughts aren't about dishes, but if I have made coffee and pancakes, I will need to do the dishes. If I procrastinate, I will forget about them and they will sit in the sink all day.

Rinse, wash, rinse. Procrastination isn't the way of a real master. I can't be perceived as procrastinating. I think procrastination was what I wanted to talk about. Or was it perceptions. Maybe some other "P" word. Oh yeah, peanuts.

Peanuts are great. I love peanuts. They are all salty and crunchy. They feel good in my mouth.

But how do I know if they are really salty and crunchy? Maybe that is just how I perceive them. They might me sweet and soft to someone else.

Woah...my head hurts now.

My mother told me life is like a bag of peanuts.

There is a lot of nuts out there.


ROFLOL  priceless!!


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RE: Perceptions - 9/25/2008 11:34:49 AM   
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quote:

Perceptions.
Initial impressions that are hard to change


They certainly are.
This is why whenever i see your posts now i will think of a guy with his head up his ass

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RE: Perceptions - 9/25/2008 11:41:30 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: E2Sweet

Ok, here's the Cliffs Notes version for those that weren't able to make it though...

...I always question those who insist on being refered to as ’Master’, or feel the need to identify themselves as a Master... Same is true for submissives.
...There are a lot of actors out there....
...I don’t go to munches. And when I have? I see a lot of actors. Both submissive ones, and Dominant ones...
...I had a lil girl submissive come up to Me and state that; "I don’t look like a Dom!"...
..."Well what the fuck does a Dom look like little clueless girl actor?", I asked....

...When I turned around to join in?, I was BAM!, face to face with 3 little subbie girls...
...They were looking at Me like they saw a ghost they couldn’t believe seeing...
...Looking at Me in awe like I was the 1st one that they’ve ever been in front of...
...And I just popped their balloons without having said one word...
...The host sat back watching all of this with a great big laugh and chuckle. He knew who I was...
...And I was the mindfuck who coordinated, and directed the scenes to be lived out at any gathering we shared.
...Too hardcore with My respect for the ’Definitive’ expectations within D/s...
...Too appreciative, and respectful, of the ’Definitive’ results realized...
...Unable to jeopardize My integrity by conforming to any lesser expectation...
...It was a pretty 19yr. old girl, that I had befriended when I was 24, who looked at Me one day and announced to Me that I was going to be her "Master"...
...She sensed in Me what the 3 subbies in the story above had sensed...
...I was so naturally Dominant that I wasn’t even aware of it...
...A calm confidence. Charisma, Charm, and My ability to say what I felt. Even if it wasn’t so nice.
...Within 3yrs. My Mentor Titled Me as a "Master"...
...He had to convince Me that My skills had exceeded his own on so many levels...
...I prefer simple velcro restraints over ropes anyday...
...I had that Charisma...That Charm......That Integrity...
...That ability to intrigue them with a look, while frightening them with the same look...
...The ability to draw them in with an intoxicating presence...
...I’ve watched girls knees buckle as soon as they enter My personal space...
...I’ve seen their words stumble, and mumble, because of hot flashes in their head...
...I’ve seen them look at their shoes in self shame when their eyes locked onto mine in a way that we both knew I could make them do anything I wanted them to, and that they’d love every minute of it...
...I saw those same eyes rise as I lifted their faces by their chins with My index finger...
...When their eyes again connected with Mine? It was with a plea to do whatever I wanted to them. It was a plea to make them do what they had only imagined, and fantacized about up to that point...

...Stupid Men would never suspect how perverse women actually are...

All I can really say without going on a huge rant is, if anyone showed up at one of our local functions and called someone a "little clueless girl actor", I'm 100% sure he would be shown the door. I'm sorry, but that's just completely and totally ridiculous behavior for anyone above the age of.. say... seven.




Please stop  LOL your making my stomach hurt from laughing!!!!!! 

scarlet


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RE: Perceptions - 9/25/2008 12:33:27 PM   
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OMG... I just reread the OP and oh boy, I actually think I misread it before. 
I can clearly understand why you stay away from social networks that cater
to the lifestyle......

All the world is a stage....... and away we go.   The preception behind
hearing the fat lady sing while dropping a mirror into a swimming pool.

Fucking MadRabbit had it right about having to go for the Coffee, and
then one things leads to another. Hell, I should have had coffee and ate
something before making my previous post.

Somebody managed to come up with the cliffnotes edition of the OP.


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RE: Perceptions - 9/25/2008 1:01:36 PM   
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You all make my day, everytime.

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RE: Perceptions - 9/25/2008 1:02:55 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

quote:

Perceptions.
Initial impressions that are hard to change


They certainly are.
This is why whenever i see your posts now i will think of a guy with his head up his ass


We should install a little window in his stomach so he can see out. 


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RE: Perceptions - 9/25/2008 1:08:48 PM   
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quote:

I wondering why I wasted so much thought on my previous post.... while these words would have been enough!


That was a hell of a post, though. lol

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RE: Perceptions - 9/25/2008 1:55:19 PM   
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I kind of enjoyed the opening post. It was a little over the top... but there was quite a bit that I can connect with. Maybe the presentation could have been worked on a bit, but overall it was decently written. Thank you for sharing.

C-D

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RE: Perceptions - 9/25/2008 2:04:00 PM   
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You know, I read alot about titles and how they can't define a person. I agree with that but I also wonder why it's never mentioned that maybe people label themselves as 'Dom' or 'sub' because it's a very true aspect of themselves that they're proud of? I'm a slave. It isn't the entirity of who I am but it's such a big portion of it I'm very proud to have that 'title'. As for preceptions, or first impressions, they do tend to linger and while I'm sure your OP was very enlightened, I have to agree with others on here that I got bored after the self important aspects of it became overwhelming and I went off in search of shiny things out of desperation. Sorry.

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RE: Perceptions - 9/25/2008 4:01:59 PM   
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Mad Rabbit why are you doing the dishes that is a slaves job?...sheesh you musnt be an actor fake wanna be.

*shakes head* and all this time I thought you were an intelligent witty Dom

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RE: Perceptions - 9/25/2008 4:42:06 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: heartcream

OP, I noticed on your profile you are an Expert at Walking.


LOL That just made my sucky day not so sucky, so thanks!!

Seriously OP wtf are you thinking?  I stopped reading when my eyes started to blur over. And I can read anything, but I left to go read the toilet paper wrapper as it made more sense. All I got out of this was "blahblah actors blahblah me me me blahblah i'm so charming blahblahblah"  Now, if that's what you're going for, great.. but based on the comments on this thread already, people don't seem to have gotten a very good...... perception of you. I'm just saying.   Maybe try a different approach...

-cs

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RE: Perceptions - 9/25/2008 5:23:49 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: CookieSlave

All I got out of this was "blahblah actors blahblah me me me blahblah i'm so charming blahblahblah" 


good stuff!

_her

< Message edited by JewAndCelt -- 9/25/2008 5:24:26 PM >


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