|
Icarys -> RE: Two profiles? (9/20/2008 3:35:53 PM)
|
quote:
ORIGINAL: subenchanted
quote:
ORIGINAL: DesFIP
If the new profile isn't from the same area, has no picture, doesn't have a lot of the same details - then maybe it isn't him. Maybe someone else generally copied from it to make their own profile.
You could make a second profile of your own and email his second, proving that neither of you are to be trusted. The easier way is to simply say that since he says he's more interested in you than in anyone else he's been speaking to, you would now like to meet for coffee next weekend. And then decide based on how you feel once you've met.
Until you meet, it just isn't real, even though it can feel real.
It was him, or someone pretending to be him. Same height, weight, age, town, similar profile text. I wrote to him asking about it and he claimed someone was imitating him. And, magic, presto, the profile disappeared almost certainly faster than the webmasters could ever have arranged.
There are some things that he's written that make me somewhat uneasy, but perhaps he's just had a lot of bad luck in life.
His first wife left him for another woman after aborting his child. His second wife cheated on him, but he stayed with her anyway through a huge health crisis that left her disabled. A few years later she filed for divorce, winning their Vermont country house and all assets because of her disability -- only to be magically healed the day after the decree signing at which point she got a full-time job.
Once freed from marriage he had a sub in every city. He ultimately choosing one of the many who had a drinking problem. Then came a "slave" who wanted more of the whip than he apparently preferred to dish out but he stuck with her for nearly a year anyway. That "romance" overlapped the previous relationship. Quick on the heels of that came his romance with a woman he got got pregnant. Her wealthy mother got so disapproved of his long hair and his politics that she launched a campaign to badger and bribe her into ditching him. This caused such emotional stress that the woman miscarried and refused to ever see him again. On top of all this, he also says that he's being discriminated against by the many women in charge of hiring free-lance artists.
So I'm not just worried about the duplicate profiles. This is a guy who writes a lot about how much he wants someone to cherish, yet I have this uneasy feeling he might not like women very much at all. They certainly seem to be the author of his every misfortune. Am I reading too much into all this? I'm away on a business trip and have a bad cold, so I'm not thinking very clearly and could use some feedback, if anyone has any.
Thanks in advance,
sub, enchanted
I'm not sure about the "not liking women bit" he after all has no problem being with more than one at a time lol.. I'd find someone who had their lives a little calmer if i were you..unless you like being part of the chaos in order to feel alive? If he's so taken with you why hasn't he let the others go? Or is it a possible poly situation for you? I'm getting it's not [:D]. I bet it will be though if you continue seeing him, whether you like it or not. Whether you even know it or not.
Good luck, female.
|
|
|
|
