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I love you during sex....... - 9/18/2008 7:14:13 PM   
missturbation


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Status: offline 		How would you react and what would you do if your partner said 'i love you' for the first time during sex?
I did this a couple of nights ago . I'm not sure Sir even heard me but how embarassing, sex talk !!
Now i'm not sure but i think i might have meant it which is even worse

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RE: I love you during sex....... - 9/18/2008 7:17:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		Considering the emotions are heightened during good sex, I think I would take it with a grain of salt. I would hope that he meant it and would repeat it at a different time but I wouldn't ask him about it.

Last thing I want to hear is a partner saying "No, I didn't mean it, it was just lust and getting my rocks off".

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RE: I love you during sex....... - 9/18/2008 7:17:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		Honestly, i would probably pretend that it didn't happen. {and  hold my breath each time i was around Him hoping He wouldn't bring it up} Which, is probably not the healthiest way......... My opinion (for whatever it's worth) is talk to Him about it....But, bah!! Just think of all the funny stories it will make for later on.... Stay in the moment, dont analyze these things.

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RE: I love you during sex....... - 9/18/2008 7:18:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		interesting, and i think you should just go with it....if he heard and brings it up that's ok too.  passion brings out some strange vocabulary sometimes!  rofl.

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RE: I love you during sex....... - 9/18/2008 7:22:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		I pretended it hadn't happened, that i hadn't said it and he didn't mention it either thank god. I would have died on the spot.

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RE: I love you during sex....... - 9/18/2008 8:00:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		i will admit to having snuck in an 'i love you' during sex, really quietlike, when i meant it and was too shy to say.

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RE: I love you during sex....... - 9/18/2008 8:13:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yummy...  Maybe you mean it, maybe not.  It's just that much better when you do. 

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RE: I love you during sex....... - 9/18/2008 9:19:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		 If it is someone else that says it, I have always took it with a grain of salt. And waited to hear it outside the heat of the moment! But just because it was said during sex doesn't necessarily make it untrue.

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RE: I love you during sex....... - 9/18/2008 9:24:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		The first time Sweets told me durring sex, I cried... It was just so sweet, and perfect... He had been telling me that for years, and to hear it then and there, I thought it was sooo great... The first time I told him, was right after he fell alseep after sex... I didn't want to tell him face to face... There were too many problems with what we were going through at the time... I was with someone else... 

But I think that if it would have been anyone else,I would have just shrugged it off... It happens...

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RE: I love you during sex....... - 9/18/2008 9:31:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		You mean that isn't a normal response right before "can I get you something?".  It usually doesn't phase me, as it is in the throws of passion, and almost take it as an affirmation that the woman is enjoying herself.

I wouldn't worry too much about it.

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RE: I love you during sex....... - 9/19/2008 1:14:07 AM   
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RE: I love you during sex....... - 9/19/2008 1:18:40 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Last thing I want to hear is a partner saying "No, I didn't mean it, it was just lust and getting my rocks off".


Well I have about 4765 apology letters to write. Be back in a year or two.

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RE: I love you during sex....... - 9/19/2008 4:49:54 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

Yummy...  Maybe you mean it, maybe not.  It's just that much better when you do. 

*warm fuzzies all around*


I agree but just can't work out whether i meant it or not. I've been an umemotional robot for so long i'm all confuzzled by these feelings thingies lol

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RE: I love you during sex....... - 9/19/2008 5:16:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		Are all of you telling me that I can say anything during sex and get away with it. I mean Im tired of hearing a woman telling me that she loves me and all  I can do is to say me to. It would be nice to be able to open up more and lie my ass off. Misstrubation I don't know what to tell you. I do understand your delima.

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RE: I love you during sex....... - 9/19/2008 5:35:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		If you are going to say 'i love you' it is always a good idea to follow it with HIS/HER name...and not someone elses.

*yes...i actually did that*


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RE: I love you during sex....... - 9/19/2008 6:04:49 AM   
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RE: I love you during sex....... - 9/19/2008 7:18:34 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Are all of you telling me that I can say anything during sex and get away with it.


Yes, pretty much.  With us anyway.  Other, less-shallow girls would think you meant it. 


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RE: I love you during sex....... - 9/19/2008 7:21:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		I wouldn't worry about it too much......everyone's pretty much said what I was thinking...and I've been told the same thing while doing the deed......anything said to me in the throes of passion sounds nice at the time, but I don't lose any sleep over what he meant.  What is important is when it's said out of the bedroom....with nothing else going on and it just pops out of the mouth.

Just roll with it.....it sounds like things are looking up for you.....and don't worry about being confused emotionally.....it's all a part of the whole relationship package!  Good luck!

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RE: I love you during sex....... - 9/19/2008 9:25:17 AM   
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RE: I love you during sex....... - 9/19/2008 9:33:02 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: cjan

Just claim it's the darn Tourette's again.



Hey wait a darn minute!  That's what you said to me!  Sumbitchhhhhhhhhhh.


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