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obsessiv -> here to learn (9/9/2008 4:56:19 PM)
Hi, brand new today. My wife keeps asking when im going to tie her up so i figured I better start researching a bit, lol. I hope to learn alot here. Any immediate ideas of some intro activities we could try? I was thinking of buying a soft rope and maybe a spreader bar :)

VivaciousSub -> RE: here to learn (9/9/2008 8:49:11 PM)
Hi there and welcome! I think you will find that many, if not all of us, are here to learn and grow. Do you and/or your wife have any prior experience with these things? This isn't a lifestyle that one jumps into lightly! BDSM and it's associated practices require skill, finesse and consideration to name a few attributes. Take a look around at the following forums: General BDSM, Ask A Master, Ask a Sub/Slave. There you might find the answers you seek.

obsessiv -> RE: here to learn (9/10/2008 12:18:24 PM)
thx, We are pretty inexperienced but both very open-minded people who want to explore many facets of our sexuality. We have been going though a group sex thing a little bit lately and we think bdsm may be the very interesting and exciting. So far, I blindfolded her and tied her wrists together and to a bed post with some of my rock climbing gear, lol. It was very exciting for me to have control of her in this way and I took advantage of the situation to play and nibble on her sensitive nipples which she usually wont let me near. I will take your advice and visit some other areas here. thx again

Ghostwriterprime -> RE: here to learn (9/10/2008 12:44:57 PM)
I found lots of stuff on the web. Google shibari and you'll find plenty of how-tos.

Ghostwriterprime -> RE: here to learn (9/10/2008 12:48:38 PM)
If she's got prominent nipples when aroused, you can make tiny nooses in both ends of a shoelace, slip them over her nipples and slide them closed until they are deliciously tight. A slight tug on the cord will keep her attention focused quite well.

obsessiv -> RE: here to learn (9/10/2008 5:06:15 PM)
her nipples are very prominent and hard almost all the time. Id post some pics if its possible. I like that idea

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