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undergroundsea -> RE: Responsible for your years of repression? NOT! (9/7/2008 7:53:02 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
Goodness, the stakes have gone up.  I should have known this trend was coming after all of those threads where the folks who write us emails think we're required to reply.  Now they've uped the anti and we are also required to satisfy their every whim and anything they might have "repressed." 


By 2009, we would like that instead of subs writing to dommes, the dommes should proactively write the subs and ask what fetishes they need fulfilled.

Life is all about growth and progress.

:p

I agree that creating that guilt trip is lame.

Cheers,

Sea



Steponme73 -> RE: Responsible for your years of repression? NOT! (9/7/2008 9:18:03 AM)

LOL...I can't believe someone would try that tatic!!!  Oh well, I would define that as "His Problem"!!!



MotleyMayhem -> RE: Responsible for your years of repression? NOT! (9/7/2008 12:26:15 PM)

My policy on people like that:

Your cowardice does not entitle you to a portion of my strength.  I worked to be who I am; if you're not willing to work to know the person I've made of myself, you're not worth knowing.



pixelslave -> RE: Responsible for your years of repression? NOT! (9/7/2008 10:44:52 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MadameMarque

Guys like that need some of their own back.  He needs a woman following him around, telling him about how she has some fetish that she needs fulfilled, with no regard for the fact that it's got nothing to do with his profile - except, perhaps, that he's mentioned he hates it.

When he tries simply not responding, she can come on, under two or three new pseudonyms, insisting that if he were a decent person, he would ignore what he wants, and give her, a complete stranger, the intimate satisfaction she wants.  After all, it would be so easy for him to give her what she wants.  She should then send him some particularly undesirable (to him) pictures of just what she's talking about.

Why, I could go on and on.  But you all know the play book.


From experience, I can tell you that similar things happen more often here than you ladies might like to think. [>:]
 
 - pixel
 
 Lady Pact's bleaux
 



Briena -> RE: Responsible for your years of repression? NOT! (9/8/2008 2:18:59 AM)

Maybe you should reffer him to a Pro Domina LOL!  Say something like "go to this website" or "Pay this chick X amount of dollars and she will do whatever you want" LOL!  Thats what I would do... Then I would politely say FUCK OFF, just like that.  Hire this bitch and FUCK OFF.  :D  Thats just me though.



BiteGirl -> RE: Responsible for your years of repression? NOT! (9/8/2008 3:07:35 AM)

I get that stuff alot, even though I say on my profile I'm only seeking friends. People don't read it, or think of you as a human being, a WHOLE human being, you are just there to make them feel good/do what they want or think they need.

I often wonder what happens to these people, do they ever get what they want in the end?



BiteGirl -> RE: Responsible for your years of repression? NOT! (9/8/2008 3:09:27 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Briena

Maybe you should reffer him to a Pro Domina LOL!  Say something like "go to this website" or "Pay this chick X amount of dollars and she will do whatever you want" LOL!  Thats what I would do... Then I would politely say FUCK OFF, just like that.  Hire this bitch and FUCK OFF.  :D  Thats just me though.


Yeah, that's my usual reaction. If you're so desperate for it, and only this one thing/scene, then pay for it. Then at leaste both partys are getting what they want. He's getting his scene and she's getting her rent money.



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Responsible for your years of repression? NOT! (9/8/2008 6:26:22 AM)

sounds likes a local "baby" who messaged me a couple months ago - wanting me to diaper and spank him ...plus help decide who should spank him first. 

i blocked him without responding.




LaTigresse -> RE: Responsible for your years of repression? NOT! (9/8/2008 7:35:45 AM)

I am rather confused about all the ranting about goofy emails I read on here.

Is it really that difficult to read, realize they are clueless/didn't read your profile/trying to get a reaction, and just delete and forget about it?

I won't waste my time replying to them if they cannot take the time to write an intelligent email based upon taking the time to read my profile. Simple really.



seababy -> RE: Responsible for your years of repression? NOT! (9/8/2008 7:48:05 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I am rather confused about all the ranting about goofy emails I read on here.

Is it really that difficult to read, realize they are clueless/didn't read your profile/trying to get a reaction, and just delete and forget about it?

I won't waste my time replying to them if they cannot take the time to write an intelligent email based upon taking the time to read my profile. Simple really.



I know but its so much fun to hear about the really extra goofy ones.



LaTigresse -> RE: Responsible for your years of repression? NOT! (9/8/2008 8:01:47 AM)

Maybe that's my problem. I delete them so fast I forget them, then I cannot make fun of them.



Pyrrsefanie -> RE: Responsible for your years of repression? NOT! (9/8/2008 6:22:11 PM)

Repression?  Whatever, instead of finding a Domme it sounds like he needs to find himself a good therapist.

Well played, Calla, I applaud you for standing fast!



CallaFirestormBW -> RE: Responsible for your years of repression? NOT! (9/8/2008 8:59:18 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I am rather confused about all the ranting about goofy emails I read on here.

Is it really that difficult to read, realize they are clueless/didn't read your profile/trying to get a reaction, and just delete and forget about it?

I won't waste my time replying to them if they cannot take the time to write an intelligent email based upon taking the time to read my profile. Simple really.



Frankly, it was just that the exchange was so completely off-the-wall that I just -had- to share. It wasn't even the "good domme" line -- that one's been trotted out so many times the shoes are worn to tin foil... the thing that caught me on this one was the whole "if you were a decent person", and, as I said in the OP, I didn't expect anyone to fix it -- I just wanted to share it along... sort of like a nasty case of athlete's foot... *wicked grin*

CFB



stella41b -> RE: Responsible for your years of repression? NOT! (9/8/2008 10:29:20 PM)

You've got to watch out for these 'repressed' types. In some of these people I see an almost direct Freudian link between their toilet training in their formative years and their attitude to BDSM.

Some of them get so anally retentive about their needs if you used a butt plug on them there's no way you'd get it back.

Edited for typos.



Vendaval -> RE: Responsible for your years of repression? NOT! (9/9/2008 1:35:04 AM)

The years or rather decades of repression indicate that he does not meet people in person. 


quote:

ORIGINAL: SunNMoon
I do agree. I dislike this type of whining; it just makes me wonder how they meet people in person.



thetammyjo -> RE: Responsible for your years of repression? NOT! (9/9/2008 6:16:40 AM)

You are completely correct, Calla.

The only person responsible for helping him through his years of repression is a therapist he pays.

His email is a stark example of an attempt at emotional blackmail and a stupid attempt at that. Anyone with a clue about emotional blackmail knows it honestly only works once you are in a relationship with someone and there is a certain level of commitment and connection established.



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