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Prinsexx -> RE: Owned Reality (9/4/2008 9:54:47 AM)
Despite the fact that my profile clearly states that i am owned and that i will not return mail to dominants, i stil get poachers. i guess they are desperate, and/or it's a turn on for them to perve/mail/solicit/poach/trespass another man's property.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Owned Reality (9/4/2008 9:58:42 AM)
I will totally go shopping with you I have Happy Thoughts of you trying to lick beth's freckles off

NuevaVida -> RE: Owned Reality (9/4/2008 9:59:00 AM)
I've always viewed such demonstrations as a lack of class, lack of respect, and lack of a clue in a major way. I suppose it could be insulting if one lets it, but the reality is, it's really rather pathetic. I mean, would these guys contact a stranger and say, "Hey can I borrow your car for the weekend?" Why then would they even fathom someone would hand over a human being like that? It's insane. On that note, I certainly wouldn't complain if beth flashed me at Folsom Street (heh), but mostly I'm just really looking forward to meeting you both. [:)]

variation30 -> RE: Owned Reality (9/4/2008 10:10:33 AM)
I'd never loan a woman out. in the words of my kinergarten teacher: I don't share well.

hejira92 -> RE: Owned Reality (9/4/2008 1:28:50 PM)
Hmmm, something must be wrong with me- the only request Master has gotten to "borrow" me is from someone who wanted to wrestle naked (if I recall properly, it may have been in pudding...) [:D]

yourMissTress -> RE: Owned Reality (9/4/2008 1:54:27 PM)
I am always amazed by such questions. Completely out of the blue, random, strange. They certainly wouldn't ask you if they could borrow your car for a few hours! Why would they ask for your most prized and, where beth is concerned, completely irreplacable possession???? I love to play with or experience friends. I enjoy allowing my friends to play with or experience my own s's. But a total stranger? riiiiight. Where I get them from the other angle...usually a male D who wants to see his s played by a woman, or sometimes from a femdom who wants her online s who is local to me to be played for real. And they always act like they would really be doing me a favor. Umm, no thank you, there are plenty of pro's who would love to take your money.

DarkSteven -> RE: Owned Reality (9/4/2008 4:30:17 PM)
I might share my submissive for casual spanking/flogging play with me watching, but I'm essentially monogamous. That does NOT stop me from being polyflirtatious online, though, as several women here can attest to.

missturbation -> RE: Owned Reality (9/4/2008 4:56:04 PM)
Weird this topic should come up now lol. I keep getting money offers recently off people i know. Real life people too. The latest was £60 for half an hour although they said it would all be over in 30 seconds ewwwwwww. Although not bad money for half a minutes work !! [:D]

MAMandSlave -> RE: Owned Reality (9/4/2008 5:14:56 PM)
I would say that the loaning out another has to do with the dynamic of the relationship. It can be an exercise in submission, objectification, or an opportunity for the submissive or slave to have an experience that they otherwise might not have had.

NuevaVida -> RE: Owned Reality (9/4/2008 6:14:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation Weird this topic should come up now lol. I keep getting money offers recently off people i know. Real life people too. The latest was £60 for half an hour although they said it would all be over in 30 seconds ewwwwwww. Although not bad money for half a minutes work !! [:D] LOL, I've been offered money to suck my nipples. $50 a nipple. All I'd have to do is sit there. Hmmmm, [:D]

eyesopened -> RE: Owned Reality (9/5/2008 5:41:42 AM)
The only problem with making such observations is that either the offending parties will never read this thread or won't recongnize themselves if they do.

slaveluci -> RE: Owned Reality (9/5/2008 5:59:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse I am selfish. Very rarely do I loan out anything anymore if someone asks to borrow. There is usually a very good reason they do not have one of their own. [image]http://www.collarchat.com/upfiles/smiley/bowdown.gif[/image].........you said it, LaT. So true................luci

Patrick2005 -> RE: Owned Reality (9/5/2008 6:34:36 AM)
I agree that most of these guys are clueless clods, but some are simply lazy. Forming and building a relationship- getting to know you- takes time and some personal emotional investment. It's much easier just to write a letter. I've heard, more than once, of people asking masters to leave their slaves to them if they die. The most poignant bdsm story I've ever read was about just that issue. A dominant was dying- he had 18 months to 2 years to live- and he was trying to decide who to leave his slave to. He wanted to make the transition before he died so she would never have to be alone.

LaTigresse -> RE: Owned Reality (9/5/2008 6:54:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Patrick2005 I agree that most of these guys are clueless clods, but some are simply lazy. Forming and building a relationship- getting to know you- takes time and some personal emotional investment. It's much easier just to write a letter. I've heard, more than once, of people asking masters to leave their slaves to them if they die. The most poignant bdsm story I've ever read was about just that issue. A dominant was dying- he had 18 months to 2 years to live- and he was trying to decide who to leave his slave to. He wanted to make the transition before he died so she would never have to be alone. If indeed it was a true story. Sounds more like a BDSM romance novel type of thing.

OsideGirl -> RE: Owned Reality (9/5/2008 7:36:16 AM)
Master keeps saying that he's left me to his best friend. I'm still trying to figure out if he's serious or not.

Patrick2005 -> RE: Owned Reality (9/5/2008 8:10:29 AM)
"If indeed it was a true story. Sounds more like a BDSM romance novel type of thing." Oh, it was a romantic bdsm short story- not a "true tale". I have known of some cases of slaves being given away in real life, though- but never one who was bequeathed.

oceanwynds -> RE: Owned Reality (9/5/2008 9:38:48 AM)
Mercnbeth This is off the topic, but i just wanted to say i do enjoy your posts. It is good to see two people so intune with each other. It makes me smile. There are a lot of wonderful posters here and i do learn a lot from so many of you. blessings oceanwynds

knees2you -> RE: Owned Reality (9/7/2008 10:00:31 PM)
quote: *Being owned is one thing, being married* *is another.* *But being owned and being married now that is something truly Special!! knees2you*

Sunnyfey -> RE: Owned Reality (9/8/2008 12:54:56 AM)
eh i get idiots emailing me all the time, this one guy has emailed me about 8 times commanding me to write a report on the reasons i would be suited to serve him, and how i am a good submissive. my reply to these on an almost dasily basis? "Fuck you im owned"

Dari -> RE: Owned Reality (9/8/2008 10:57:57 AM)
It's taking everything I have not to send a PM: 'cn i borro beth plz?????' In all seriousness - I don't share well. And by "well" I mean "at all." But the requests I get for me to share my pet generally get filed in the "sure, just the other side of never, you fuckwad" column. People are stupid. And believe everything they see in porn.

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