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rockybaynurse -> HAPPY EVER AFTER? (8/29/2008 6:41:52 AM)
I am meeting my on-line Dom for the first time next month[:)]. I am from the West coast and he is from the Southwest. Are there any success stories of any long-distance relationships working and or relocation that has happened b/c of the meeting? I have heard some horror stories, I am only intested in the successful ones b/c of my interest in possible relocation. Thank you.

RCdc -> RE: HAPPY EVER AFTER? (8/29/2008 6:46:04 AM)
Darcy was never my online dominant - we met online but never had an online romance persay with the whole cybersex or cam thing. We were originally 8 hours apart. We are now living together in a BDSM relationship with authority transference, where he is the dominant figure. Is that happy ending enough?[:)] Oh, just to ad - relocation occured for both Master and myself. We both moved to a mutually beneficial area on his decision. the.dark.

rockybaynurse -> RE: HAPPY EVER AFTER? (8/29/2008 6:57:37 AM)
Yes. Thank you.

eyesopened -> RE: HAPPY EVER AFTER? (8/29/2008 7:01:01 AM)
Ours too was never an on-line relationship but we initial met through this site. Within 45 days of initial contact on CM, I met my Master in person. Within 2 months from in-person meeting, I begged His collar and was accepted. We lived 500 miles apart and spent extended weekends together every other month until my lease was up and I could move in with Him. Today marks exactly 30 days since I "came home" and while there are challenges with my not having a job yet, we could not be happier. The process from initial contact to living together took 1 year but primarily because it would have been way too expensive to break my apartment lease. I consider ours a success story.

fontane -> RE: HAPPY EVER AFTER? (8/29/2008 7:04:58 AM)
I've had good and bad in respect to long distance. For my experience you have to meet sooner rather then later (meeting too soon has its issues but that's a different story). if you do not meet soon-ish then lots of other issues spring up too and it becomes an issue. So I say meet if your ready and then meet often as possible.

peppermint -> RE: HAPPY EVER AFTER? (8/29/2008 7:16:09 AM)
Gary and I met at a kinky camping event. At the time I lived in WA, and he was from MT. After the weekend he headed back to MT and I went to visit a friend and went to another event in WA where I met other Doms and played for the shear fun of it. Gary and I had shared phone numbers and Gary started to call me regularly after my vacation ended and when I got home from work. We'd talk for a bit while I wound down from the day. In general we got to know a lot about each other during those phone calls. A few months later he stopped by WA on his way to AZ for the winter. We visited for a few weeks and took a short trip in his motor home so I could see if I might enjoy living in it. He went to AZ. After many more phone calls I decided to give us a try in January. I got a leave of absense from my job and hopped a plane to Yuma. That was 2 1/2 years ago. We still live in the motor home. We divide our summers between WA and MT, but winters are spent in AZ. Guess you could call that a long distance success story.

silkncarol -> RE: HAPPY EVER AFTER? (8/29/2008 7:22:40 AM)
My last Master and i met online....he was in Atlanta, i'm in florida... we did the back and forth thing for 3 months and realized we both wanted more ....so we discussed our options and he decided it was easier for him to relocate....he was semi-retired and could work from any location......he leased his house, packed his things and moved down to be with me.....Until he passed, two years later, we were only apart 3 days. Those were the most fulfilling years of my life, so far........ i have high hopes for the future!

everhope -> RE: HAPPY EVER AFTER? (8/29/2008 11:14:46 AM)
have you looked at the threads in Positive Experiences? may we all find our bliss.

SingleRarity -> RE: HAPPY EVER AFTER? (8/29/2008 12:45:07 PM)
Daddy and I connected on bondage.com. We met in New Orleans a month later. Three months after that I moved to be with him. We've been together a year and a half. It's perfect, and he is the great love of my life, not to mention, my Sir, Daddy, and the sadist who beats me into pure bliss. Good luck to you! Daddy's Ballerina, e

lovingpet -> RE: HAPPY EVER AFTER? (8/29/2008 12:56:33 PM)
I have had two marriages from long distance relationships. One I moved to him after the wedding only for him to pass away a couple of years later. The other moved here to be with me. Yes, happily ever after is possible lovingpet

oceanwynds -> RE: HAPPY EVER AFTER? (8/29/2008 12:57:14 PM)
Sir and i met on line but not in the Ds rooms or here. We had other intersts that brought us together first. We decided very early when we entered a Ds relationship to not bring it on line. We do not live together, which works well for us. When he can he visits me, and occassionally i will go and stay with him for a couple weeks, providing i not needed to take care of mom. Yes, we miss each other a lot, but this works very well for both of us. i wish you all you hope to gain in your relationship. oceanwynds

rockybaynurse -> RE: HAPPY EVER AFTER? (8/29/2008 1:26:15 PM)
Congratulations on your sucess. I really appreciate hearing from you and your happiness. rocky

rockybaynurse -> RE: HAPPY EVER AFTER? (8/29/2008 1:27:51 PM)
Thanks, for reading my post. I have been chatting with my on line Dom for six months. A meeting is needed. Hopefully, the time is right. Rocky

rockybaynurse -> RE: HAPPY EVER AFTER? (8/29/2008 1:30:14 PM)
How exciting!! I hope for the 2 of you continued success and happiness. Thanks for your story. Rocky

rockybaynurse -> RE: HAPPY EVER AFTER? (8/29/2008 1:33:12 PM)
I loved your story. Thank you for sharing with me. I am sorry to hear about your master's passing but, my fingers are crossed that you once again find happiness. rocky

rockybaynurse -> RE: HAPPY EVER AFTER? (8/29/2008 1:34:43 PM)
No, I have not but, thank you for the info. rocky

rockybaynurse -> RE: HAPPY EVER AFTER? (8/29/2008 1:37:06 PM)
Dear singlerarity, I am glad that you found your "Daddy Dearest" may you have continued success and thank you for reading and replying to my post. Rocky

rockybaynurse -> RE: HAPPY EVER AFTER? (8/29/2008 1:40:26 PM)
Lovingpet, Thank you for your reply, knowing that you married two of your Doms/Masters is very heartning. It is defintely making it easier for me to visit and maybe relocate after all. Have a good day and stay safe. Rocky

rockybaynurse -> RE: HAPPY EVER AFTER? (8/29/2008 1:42:50 PM)
Thank you Oceanwynds for replying to my post. I hope continued success in your relationship. Rocky

akisha -> RE: HAPPY EVER AFTER? (8/29/2008 2:01:43 PM)
Allen and i met on here last fall, started out just sending a quick note about once a week or so. The "hi, how are things", kind of notes. Started talking more in January, he flew up in Febuary and moved up in March (easier for him to move then me) Everthing is going well so far and I don't for see it ending.

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