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RE: I Hope This Pisses You Off! - 8/20/2008 1:02:06 PM   
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I find myself wanting them all the more, in many ways, mentally and emotionally and physically.  I can see myself doing what you described in  your post on that thread...pulling my submissive by the hair and stating "that is just about enough, MINE" and then looking even deeper into those eyes and, once she has acknowledged that yes, it is, taking her.


This may be me just  having another hotflash......but that's hot, CD!


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RE: I Hope This Pisses You Off! - 8/20/2008 1:06:48 PM   
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Pass me a fan...<sheeew>  i'll join ya.......  

It's not the anger, but the passion i find so hot......being snatched up by the hair, taken...put in my place.

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I find myself wanting them all the more, in many ways, mentally and emotionally and physically.  I can see myself doing what you described in  your post on that thread...pulling my submissive by the hair and stating "that is just about enough, MINE" and then looking even deeper into those eyes and, once she has acknowledged that yes, it is, taking her.


This may be me just  having another hotflash......but that's hot, CD!


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RE: I Hope This Pisses You Off! - 8/20/2008 1:07:03 PM   
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or I suppose it could have been a mosquito--one of the two.

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RE: I Hope This Pisses You Off! - 8/20/2008 1:15:02 PM   
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I see temper being anger expressed in a very childish manner. It seems to be quite counterproductive and a waste of energy which could be used in a more productive way, at least for myself this applies.



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RE: I Hope This Pisses You Off! - 8/20/2008 2:07:46 PM   
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Most of the time my anger turns me cold, not hot; so the concept of angry sex is foreign to me. I don’t want to see or talk to the person until I have dealt with my anger by analyzing myself as well as the situation.  That gives me a chance to decide whether to just let it go or talk it over once I feel I can express it appropriately. 
There have been a few times in my life where I’ve felt hot anger but did  physical things like dig up bushes to exhaust it.

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RE: I Hope This Pisses You Off! - 8/20/2008 2:15:12 PM   
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I find myself wanting them all the more, in many ways, mentally and emotionally and physically.  I can see myself doing what you described in  your post on that thread...pulling my submissive by the hair and stating "that is just about enough, MINE" and then looking even deeper into those eyes and, once she has acknowledged that yes, it is, taking her.


This may be me just  having another hotflash......but that's hot, CD!

Hot yes...this is what I'm saying.


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RE: I Hope This Pisses You Off! - 8/20/2008 2:15:55 PM   
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Being angry and losing one's temper are 2 different things to me.  I think keeping anger bottled up inside is the fastest way to losing your temper.    It builds and builds until you explode.   I've seen that and I've been on the receiving end of that temper.   Not a place I want to be again. 

But expressing anger is good for the soul, imo.   Some of the best sex I've had was "angry" sex.  

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RE: I Hope This Pisses You Off! - 8/20/2008 2:17:16 PM   
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That said, I am sure there are a few times in my life if I had just thrown the fucking bitch down, ripped her pants off, tore off her panties, shoved them in her mouthh so I didn't have to listen to her scream and just fucked the living shit out of her till we both collapsed in exhaustion things might have worked out better.  Either that or I would have been fending off "bubba" at the local jail who was looking at me and thinking the same thing...



~gulp~ It's worth a shot, yes? Besides, how can she dial 9-1-1 if she's floating 3 feet above the bed???

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RE: I Hope This Pisses You Off! - 8/20/2008 3:12:46 PM   
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I was thinking about the fact I've become more open minded about this, that knowing my luck, my next partner in crime might not be the type to be into this. LOL..  Life has this strange way of playing practical jokes on you.

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RE: I Hope This Pisses You Off! - 8/20/2008 3:18:42 PM   
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That said, I am sure there are a few times in my life if I had just thrown the fucking bitch down, ripped her pants off, tore off her panties, shoved them in her mouthh so I didn't have to listen to her scream and just fucked the living shit out of her till we both collapsed in exhaustion things might have worked out better.  Either that or I would have been fending off "bubba" at the local jail who was looking at me and thinking the same thing...



~gulp~ It's worth a shot, yes? Besides, how can she dial 9-1-1 if she's floating 3 feet above the bed???

subtee,
You and I think very much alike!..I used to pick fights all the time in past relationships just to provoke angry sex...
That being said, sometimes even the hottest angry sex, or the most sincere apology can't erase the memory of hurtful words spat out in anger. One should be very careful when hurling those particular projectiles. Sometimes when you hit your target, you leave no trace of what once was...

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RE: I Hope This Pisses You Off! - 8/20/2008 3:22:54 PM   
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I've never really thought about it as I'm not violent like that. But giving thought to it now, I would venture to say they need anger management classes. Or... a gym membership. Somewhere where they can go and vent and not hurt anyone. As far as the "rough sex" bit goes, I would say that depends on the severity of the anger and such. In general, probably NOT the best idea. To easy for it to get carried away and end up differently.

I don't know about those angry threads around here, but maybe I'll run into them someday.

Much love,

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RE: I Hope This Pisses You Off! - 8/20/2008 3:32:10 PM   
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I use violent video games to get rid of that sort of anger...
I work tech support for a living, so I have a lot of anger inside of me that I cant release on the people that piss me off, hence the gaming. :D
Personally, I dont enjoy sex/play when I'm pissed off... a BJ sure, but thats it :P


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RE: I Hope This Pisses You Off! - 8/20/2008 3:44:04 PM   
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I believe in releasing anger in healthy ways. Sometimes I will have angry sex. I can have my blood boiling and know that I have to stay away from her, but once I've cooled off and while I still have a good simmer going, I like to take her from behind, belly down, hair in hand, a good spanking with the other and a one-way discussion until I'm ready to finish. Then I jerk in her face, hair and wipe off on the sheets that she hopefully just washed. I like knowing she has some thinking to do about things while she cleans up. Even if her thoughts make her want me again. I always feel better after that. Hell, I'm calmer now just thinking about it.

Edited to add... I don't consider this punishment, it's only to make me feel better.

Dolf

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RE: I Hope This Pisses You Off! - 8/20/2008 3:46:09 PM   
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I believe in releasing anger in healthy ways. Sometimes I will have angry sex. I can have my blood boiling and know that I have to stay away from her, but once I've cooled off and while I still have a good simmer going, I like to take her from behind, belly down, hair in hand, a good spanking with the other and a one-way discussion until I'm ready to finish. Then I jerk in her face, hair and wipe off on the sheets that she hopefully just washed. I like knowing she has some thinking to do about things while she cleans up. Even if her thoughts make her want me again. I always feel better after that. Hell, I'm calmer now just thinking about it.

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RE: I Hope This Pisses You Off! - 8/20/2008 3:57:22 PM   
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I am a man thats pretty much in control at all times, and will not let the angry moods get to me,I am pretty much like Michael in lets say MY revenge,when a sub/slave. bitch pisses me off  then  I put it on a list of things to do and the next time I do rip her panties off shove them in her mouth,slap the fuck out of her and tie her hands behind her back, shove her head into the pillows and give her the grudge fuck of her life time,slapping her ass,pulling her hair and reminding her of what she did to deserve this glories grudge fuck,then chaining her to the bed for the rest of the day....of course this is just what some bitches love and go out of their way to piss us off but what the hell we think we are getting even...To store up the angry is a self destructive that isn't good for anyone,just add it to your list and get even...bounty


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RE: I Hope This Pisses You Off! - 8/20/2008 4:00:27 PM   
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Is this the WankFodder thread?  I am so confused.
That's what I love about the CM posters......talk about anger, we get hot.  Talk about the weather, and we are up in arms. 

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RE: I Hope This Pisses You Off! - 8/20/2008 4:04:13 PM   
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Is the WankFodder thread?  I am so confused.


WANK AWAY LOL....

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RE: I Hope This Pisses You Off! - 8/20/2008 4:05:38 PM   
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Apparently some dominants enjoy finding their relaxation, after being pissed off, in a good session with the subject of their frustration.

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RE: I Hope This Pisses You Off! - 8/20/2008 4:08:56 PM   
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"Does expressing anger, releasing temper necessarily mean a loss of control?"


It doesn't have to. Obviously it depends on how you express it.

And angry sex is HOT.      Sick and wrong? NO.


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RE: I Hope This Pisses You Off! - 8/20/2008 6:09:41 PM   
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Displays of anger are okay if both of you are okay with them. But if you enjoy ranting and raving to get out stress whenever you've had a bad day, and you know that your partner is terrified of this, then it isn't okay. You either start taking your stress to the gym instead of using your partner as an emotional punching bag, or you damage the relationship.

Some people have huge blow up fights on Friday night and spend all Saturday having make up sex. It works for them. But it has to work for both of them or both will be unhappy.

Anger doesn't work for me. I've spent too many people who used their anger to get everyone else to guess at what was wrong, walk around on eggshells, hide in closets etc to be willing to ever be with someone else who doesn't have rigorous control of his anger. For me, a person who isn't capable of coming home and saying "I am so angry, my boss waited until 4:15 to land me with this damn report and he knew we had plans for the weekend" instead of blowing a gasket is not someone I am compatible with.

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