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RE: points of view - 8/19/2008 5:58:08 AM   
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RE: points of view - 8/19/2008 6:03:27 AM   
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RE: points of view - 8/19/2008 7:06:56 AM   
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I don't like others telling me how to run my relationships with their bubble gum advice, buttttttttttttt i'll just pass on my own bubble gum advice and set of rules.
Theres a certain arrogance and one twue wayism in here me thinks.
Read your op again latex and pretend you didn't write it. Maybe then you will see why people have not particularly taken your thread seriously.

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RE: points of view - 8/19/2008 5:37:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		it is no wonder why we are becomming less and less  no one can tell anyone anything even if it is very simple   shrugs why should i care i do not care lol  i mean if you really care about what you do in the lifestyle who  you are with how things effect you then stand up say your point of view  only tearing at my words only shows your true innner self   just do your thing say what  you think and move on  bubble gum logic yep  here we come

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RE: points of view - 8/19/2008 5:50:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		Umm  ....  your posts would be really a lot easier to read if you used punctuation and capital letters.   Just saying...................

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RE: points of view - 8/19/2008 7:33:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		Bubble Gum Logic.... Now I have a mental video of a science fair project building a logic engine out of hard and soft bubble gum for the binary coding....

BTW.. hardened bubble gum will hold up to 120psi on a 1/4 inch hole when used to patch a leak in a pipe.  350psi if you back it up with a rope lashing.  <bored sailors do strange stuff on long deployments.>  And a half stick of gum chewed and put in a 3/8 inch pipe and pressuized with 120psi air will raise a blood blister at 15 yards when fired.  Foam ear plugs are almost as effective and don't leave marks on the machinery for the officers to find.

Time to quit working today and go play at something if I'm getting such images.

No point of view here.. just shooting for humorous digression.

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RE: points of view - 8/20/2008 8:29:08 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

it is no wonder why we are becomming less and less  no one can tell anyone anything even if it is very simple   shrugs why should i care i do not care lol  i mean if you really care about what you do in the lifestyle who  you are with how things effect you then stand up say your point of view  only tearing at my words only shows your true innner self   just do your thing say what  you think and move on  bubble gum logic yep  here we come


Why should anyone tell others anything. I don't live their lives so I have no right to tell them how to live.

MY rules (which are mine and nothing to do with anyone else) are

Live life as if every day is your last.
Never cause any harm to others.
Do what makes you happy.

If you want to live your life your way that's fine. What others are telling you is that you are trying to force your views on to them. You have no right to do that.

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RE: points of view - 8/20/2008 8:30:32 AM   
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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

Umm  ....  your posts would be really a lot easier to read if you used punctuation and capital letters.   Just saying...................

***thank you - i thought i was the only one struggling to read this.***


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RE: points of view - 8/20/2008 8:36:52 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

it is no wonder why we are becomming less and less  no one can tell anyone anything even if it is very simple   shrugs why should i care i do not care lol  i mean if you really care about what you do in the lifestyle who  you are with how things effect you then stand up say your point of view  only tearing at my words only shows your true innner self   just do your thing say what  you think and move on  bubble gum logic yep  here we come

***who are you to say we are becoming less and less? In the D/s life - Doms do tell submissives how to act - what to do etc. That is kind of the entire point of Domination and submission. i care what happens to me - but i have to make my own choices, and damn straight i would speak up if i saw someone i cared about being mistreated - that is called friendship. Sometimes i need advice, and i ask for it - but even though i do not always follow said advice blindly - i have always learned something from it. i can only make my own mistakes - i am the only one also being able to fix them and not do them again, Help from others - i will always appreciate and ask for. i am not the smartest person on earth - there will always be someone else with a lot more experience and smarts that i can learn from...s...my two cents***


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RE: points of view - 8/20/2008 11:48:45 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

it is no wonder why we are becomming less and less  no one can tell anyone anything even if it is very simple   shrugs why should i care i do not care lol  i mean if you really care about what you do in the lifestyle who  you are with how things effect you then stand up say your point of view  only tearing at my words only shows your true innner self   just do your thing say what  you think and move on  bubble gum logic yep  here we come

Latex, normally I enjoy your posts because you generally are pretty open minded about somethings; but other times; you get so pig headed that you can’t even see your flippin nose. You are one of the few people who I have NEVER met who actually makes me want to bang my head against the wall in frustration.

You want to sit here and yell at us because we give advice on topics that we are asked for; and then you get mad because the advice that is given seems to be…to you anyway…illogical and born of ignorance.

When will you realize that people give advice based on their OWN EXPERIENCES, IDEAS, AND THOUGHTS. No one sits down to first say ‘Ok, this is what I think, this is what they think; let’s combine the two and see if what we get is any better’

A question is asked, a person responds. If you think the advice given was horrible; fine…that’s your perogative…speak up, say so, and why you think it was horrible.

Don’t get on your high horse and start complaining that all us ‘armchair psychiatrists’ are polluting the so called ‘pure lifestyle’ that you prefer to pretend is there. Those illusions never last and inevitably leave a bad taste in the mouth.

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RE: points of view - 8/20/2008 5:38:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		everyone has ideas and ways of doing things and that is ok  My only idea of anything is take things as they come one step at a time..... I use to sit back and read and watch sometimes reading boards sometimes chat rooms just like everyone else.... watching all the insta doms dommes subs dictate concepts and policy..
lol  what is simply funny only a very rare few ever make things last or work  what is even more bizare is people twisting fact for fantasy
maybe people need to be a little more civil  shrugs do not take my word for it just read through hundreds of sites blogs chats  there is a very huge pattern of individulism vs unity so yeah we are becomming indangered look at how many clubs have closed  or events nolonger going   SO AGAIN THIS IS MY POINT OF VIEW 
hence the topic  points of view

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RE: points of view - 8/20/2008 6:53:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

everyone has ideas and ways of doing things and that is ok  My only idea of anything is take things as they come one step at a time..... I use to sit back and read and watch sometimes reading boards sometimes chat rooms just like everyone else.... watching all the insta doms dommes subs dictate concepts and policy..
lol  what is simply funny only a very rare few ever make things last or work  what is even more bizare is people twisting fact for fantasy
maybe people need to be a little more civil  shrugs do not take my word for it just read through hundreds of sites blogs chats  there is a very huge pattern of individulism vs unity so yeah we are becomming indangered look at how many clubs have closed  or events nolonger going   SO AGAIN THIS IS MY POINT OF VIEW 
hence the topic  points of view

LOL Ok, we can do this your way. Points of view? Let’s talk Points of View. But please…leave the ‘bubblegum logic’ on someone else’s doorstep.

In your first post here, you said
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Everyone has a point a view or answer to someone elses problems 

I disagree with this. Yes, everyone has a POV on certain specific topics that are brought up here in this forum; but in no way does anyone attempt to solve or answer another’s problems. Each and everyone of us here knows that this is impossible to do; that you have to solve your own problems using your own ways. You can listen to the advice offered, but in the end, it’s each person’s own way of doing things that will determine how they solve their own problem.
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  In the lifestyle i find the more and more the truth.

Since I don’t live a ‘lifestyle’, I can not comment on whether this may be true or not true.
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  Kinda like back seat drivers telling people how to drive when they are not in the way of on comming traffic

Once again, this comment here goes back to the first one you made and my answer for that is the same as what I would give here.
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  Wisdom is only in side thoes that respect it and use it

I disagree. Anyone who has lived life in any kind of way has wisdom. What separates the wise from the clueless are those who choose to act on what they have learned in the past and better themselves because of it.
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  Doms Dommes Subs all have a view on life the universe and all that jazz.

So does my 14 year old. What’s wrong with having a solid opinion about something and standing up for that?
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  so i have a list of simple rules to live by   My point of view  in the ds relm of things
     

  •    in our grand world of logic small as it may be  Our lifestyle starts with one point Thy self  learning growing and understanding  Thy self  no matter dom sub domme or other..
  • Now that we have a centeral point of refernce Thy self  we need to make a list of do and do nots .
  • do respect those that came before you
  • do be true to your word
  • do not use others for self gain  karma will slap you  oh yes i have seen this happen
  • do be there for your sub dom domme  being a person of honor is with more then any riches
  • do not gossip about your sub dom or domme other
  • do take the time out for your dom sub domme or other
  • do not let others interfer with what two people have built stay true to each other



That’s all good and fine. AS long as you realize that YOUR simple list of rules is NOT Mine. I don’t follow your rules, any more than I would expect you to follow mine. What’s more is the fact that no single person is going to agree totally with YOUR list of rules.
Once again though, that’s a good thing. Why would you want a robot who agrees with everything you say and do? Sounds kind of boring to me.
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lifestyle is very simple  

Once again; I do not live a lifestyle so I could not say if it was simple or not. I will say this though. LIFE is in no way simple. It’s complex and forever changing; it’s not stagnate and it does not follow any rules that have been laid down before it. LIFE goes it’s own way without regard for who is driving.
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  just be honorable and respectable life will smile

Now THIS I DO agree with. I could add a few other’s to the mix, but you generally have it.
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  and another thing stup it with the bubble gum logic it is borning trying living the lifestyle instead of reading it out of a book or web site  :)


Once again; everyone is different and everyone follows their own set of rules. If a person happens to like the rules that come from a book or website and is willing to implement them into their own lives…more power to them…I admire them for that. I may not agree, but I sure will admire their ability to stand their ground.

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RE: points of view - 8/21/2008 3:54:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		cool  now  have you ever read sucess stories of how people made millions or invented something or won a event  THEY NEVER GAVE UP  with in everything that is positive there is a common thread of the right way to get theire.  if your way does not work maybe you should try reading about how to get there  I always here your way is not my way and vs versa. me my oh my what ever lol   If want to have peace if you want to get the things you want you better wake up to a few simple facts
The world is vast rules are changing. So are pints of view  If you think that road of desfuctionalism  is the way of the future your sadly mistaken It is time to own up pay and o the right things    Look around pop culture  yep  we are in major change
point of view :)

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RE: points of view - 8/21/2008 4:57:39 AM   
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with in everything that is positive there is a common thread of the right way to get theire

Now before I disagree out of hand with this comment; let me ask first...are you referring to the 'never give up' philosophy as THE COMMON THREAD that shows the right way to get there? And if you are; then what about those who DID GIVE UP only to take a different route and still succeed? Would that not throw the common thread out the window?
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  if your way does not work maybe you should try reading about how to get there

Ok stop for a minute. What you said right here disputes what you said earlier.
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  and another thing stup it with the bubble gum logic it is borning trying living the lifestyle instead of reading it out of a book or web site  :)


First you say to stop reading about it and live instead...now you say a person should read about it. Which one is it? Because you can't have it both ways.


The rest of your post...well, I am still trying to figure it out

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