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submale57651 -> People In Search of 24/7 Relationships (8/16/2008 11:18:39 PM)

Dommes who claim they are looking for a male sub for a 24/7 relationship but are unwilling to spend any time conversing with them in a one on one situation are only fooling themselves.  They are not seriously looking to meet anyone new.  If they were, they would not treat them in a disrespectful manner by only conversing with them in a chat room where their attention is divided between the new person and the 37 other people in the chat room.  Psychologists tell us, the fact that the person can only function in the psuedo world of the chat room means they do not possess any real socalization skills
and will probably never be able to have a meaningful relationship with anyone.  In short,
these people are not a nut magnet, but rather, they are a Nut.



AdamTaylor -> RE: People In Search of 24/7 Relationships (8/16/2008 11:26:19 PM)

I know there's plenty out there who just don't truly understand the lifestyle. They just see it as a chance to be "naughty" for a while.
I've seen Dom/mes treat a potential like crap right from the start. Hurling abuse and orders. Um... yeah, that's not quite how it goes.

I've had potential slaves ask to serve me and move in in the first message.
I don't think so.

Unless someone's just looking for a fling... these work like normal relationships.
You get to know the person, you find out if you're compatible, and you start taking things one step at a time.

Anyone who tries to jump in headfirst right from the start... is in for a nasty shock.



MizSexyVixen -> RE: People In Search of 24/7 Relationships (8/16/2008 11:49:02 PM)

I personally know plenty of people who like to spend time hanging out in chat rooms. That they do that for entertainment does not mean that can't socialize real time.

I understand the OP is discouraged by the male sub / femdom stats but online chat is like anyplace else. Wait for a nice (and mutual) chemical reaction, the rest tends to follow.



Leatherist -> RE: People In Search of 24/7 Relationships (8/16/2008 11:50:48 PM)

Life happens a day at time, only a fool tries to live in the future.



Karl89741 -> RE: People In Search of 24/7 Relationships (8/17/2008 12:11:34 AM)

I love that...

You're not the Nut Magnet. You are the Nut! [:D]




DMFParadox -> RE: People In Search of 24/7 Relationships (8/17/2008 8:58:28 AM)

Being a submissive male must suck.

Welcome to the boards.



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