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CallaFirestormBW -> RE: Legal Questions (8/8/2008 8:35:18 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MsJssk

I'm not sure what part of Texas your from but I have bought dildos and many other adult toys in Austin, San Antonio,  Houston, and I think Corpus Christi. I've been able to buy them my entire adult life. Oh and I bought a dildo at a house party in Dallas once almost 10 years ago. Until only a few months ago it was illegal to own more than 4 phalic devices in texas unless you had them for educational purposes. The idea was that it is fine to have them, but to own more than 4 implied that you planned to spread your deviance. Interstingly enough, it was only a few years ago that the number was six and they dropped it to four. But, to our great relieve, the law was overturned all together a few months ago. We celebrated in appropriate fashion. I think that one of the big online toy stores even had a sale in honor of Texas's liberation. Anyhow, before the law was overturned a few months ago, the deal was that sex stores could have them on the shelves and sell them all they wanted. As long as you were 18 years old you could buy them all you wanted. Of course, the boxes always said for novelty use only. As long as they were novelty use only, it was okay to buy and sell, just not to own. Go figure. I only know of one case of an attempt to enforce the law and it's hearsay about two parties removed. My boss said she had a friend at her church who did those tuperware type sales things. The preacher got wind of it and didn't like it so he contacted some police who interviened. I do not know the extend of the intervention. The boss said that the sticky part was that the saleslady was neglecting to call them novelty items and during her sales parties she called them vibrators and sold them for the purpose of, well... fucking.

I heard once that the reason for the cutsey animal shaped vibrators is to get around the phalic device laws. I don't know if that's true or not, but that's what I heard.

And that is the Texas story as I know it.

MsJ
proud Texas owner of a drawer full of phalic devices that are novelty items only



Thanks for the info, MsJ. The only reason I knew anything about it at all (since we're not from here originally and I'd never encountered such laws) was because my daughter (who works in a fetish shop) came home from work and told us that her boss had her moving the dildos out of the back room because they could legally sell them in the 'front of the store' now, instead of having them restricted to special request, so maybe it was more that the owner was skittish until all the restrictions were removed, I don't know. Anyway, that shop has a beautiful selection of glass dildos now -- pretty enough to decorate the mantle. *chuckles*

CFB




MercTech -> RE: Legal Questions (8/8/2008 8:44:50 PM)

Mississippi has a law against "insertable items made for prurient interest" and it is forbidden to sell them.
Several adult shops have been busted for "vibrators" and "dildoes". 
But, you can go to the local Walgreen's and buy an "extra long facial massager" completely legally.

Stefan




LadyPact -> RE: Legal Questions (8/8/2008 8:51:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MsJssk

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Where I live, which is a decent sized place, you literally can not buy a sex toy in this town.  There is currently a legal battle between the city and the only 'adult' store that has tried to remain in business.  In fact, I have never been able to buy a thing there since I moved here almost four years ago due to the fact that the legal case has kept the doors closed.

As to the other question, yes, I have had the cops show up during a small impromptu flogging demo in, of all places, Auburn Alabama.  It was called in as a disturbance of the peace.  No real issue with it.  We simply moved 30 people from one location to another.



Is it because there's a law against having adult toys or because there is a law against having an adult buisness within X amount of miles of any residence, schoool, church, park.....?

MsJ

I hope I have the right link.  You can read about it here http://chronicle.augusta.com/stories/072408/met_466806.shtml

There is literally no school within miles of this place.  No, it's not across the street from a park.  It's on a stretch of highway with very few residences around it.  In that area, it's business district.  It has more to do with living in the bible belt than anything else.




DavidS8ist -> RE: Legal Questions (8/9/2008 3:52:10 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Naira

I'm wondering if anyone has found that play, toys, etc are actively illegal in their area. Or, if you have had a visit from the local police due to a lack of volume control.

I have heard that in some places, sex toys and porn are illegal, which would also seem to make a lot of play very difficult to carry out. Anyone ever had a run in with the law?

A few years ago I did some research on statutes specific to S&M and besides disseminating pornographic or obscene material to minors, found few if any statutes which specifically mentioned sadomasochism.

However.

In New York and in many other states, assault does *not* require the participation of the alleged victim to be prosecuted.

And.

In New York and many other venues, "consent" is *not* a defense.

Put them together and you have a prosecutable crime for which "...but she consented" is NOT a defense.

What this means to everyday folks is simply this:  Depending upon how and where you're discovered, a LEO may or may not make an arrest.  If arrested, a prosecutor may or may not seek a true bill.  Is he running for re-election?  Will the ink be favorable to him in his community?  No one can know in advance.  The *likelihood* of someone coming into your home and arresting you is really low.  Play at a noisy party where a neighbor calls the cops and the community is uptight, you may have a problem on your hands.

Too, as mentioned in your post, there are parts of the country where possession of sex toys - dildos, vibrators, who the hell knows what else - are illegal to be sold.  Others limit numbers for possession.  I'm not sure on recent case law:  used to be illegal to own in one or two venues, but that may have gone out with Lawrence v. Texas.

Be informed, do a risk/reward assessment, do what you do.

Age quod agis.

D.




DavidS8ist -> RE: Legal Questions (8/9/2008 4:00:38 AM)

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ORIGINAL: silkncarol

If you're really concerned you might locate a Kink friendly professional in your area who could advise you on the legalities of certain toys......the only ones i would think might be a problem would be some of the knives. 

<snip>


Sorry, but no, knives are not the only problem.  Slap someone across the face, you've assaulted them.  Tie them up, it's illegal restraint.  Spank 'em, flog 'em, assault.  Use a signal or bull whip on 'em, could be ADW.

All depends on how a prosecutor feels that day, whether or not his Wheaties have been pissed in, whether or not it'll make good press.  Y'all might want to read a novel by a former sex crimes prosecutor, Linda Fairstein.  It's called "The Bone Vault" and as a crime novel it's so-so.  But there's a sub-plot based on an actual incident that crossed her desk as a prosecutor.  It deals with a discovered tape of a brutal but consensual caning scene.

Her take on it in the book is pretty much what her take on the real incident, and it's eye-opening to anyone who swears by the "ssc" mantra.  Folks, consent don't matter if a hungry prosecutor wants to make a case.

'Cause at the end of the day, even if the case is tabled, dropped, or acquitted, you're out the dough.  And where do you go to get your reputation back?

Know with whom you play.  Know *where* you play.  And own your actions.

D.
Age quod agis 




DavidS8ist -> RE: Legal Questions (8/9/2008 4:07:56 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Alumbrado

A couple of southern states have laws on the books about dildo type sex toys. The US Supreme court ruled years ago that the government has no business in the bedrooms of consenting adults, so much of the 'sky is falling' claims about sodomy, or a simple consensual bedroom adult flogging, and so forth being illegal is simply hysteria.
People consent to being assaulted all the time.. its called football... theater... SCA... religious flagellation... martial arts... and BDSM.



You're incorrect, unfortunately for us.  Sports has long been excluded from assault and battery charges by case law.  S&M, on the other hand, is still a viable assault prosecution and not defendable using consent.  In fact, if you're caught in the act with someone chained or bound, they can pile kidnapping and illegal restraint on the indictment.

Lawrence v. Texas did a world of good for sexual privacy, but sodomy and flogging are still worlds apart, legally.  And remember, both Lawrence and Roe depend on Griswold v. Connecticut and the "...penumbra of the Constitution" to protect the right to privacy.  If Griswold ever gets revisited, we all could be in a world of hurt.

And I'll mention a pet peeve here:  I'm often brought to task when I identify sexually as a sadist.  I get the "...well, for me it's not about sex" argument as if to bring sex into S&M somehow soils the purity of it.  Yet if we made the case that it *is* sex, that it *is* a real sexuality no different from heterosexuality or bisexuality or homosexuality, we'd have a better shot of legally protecting what we do with the above mentioned citations.

D.




Alumbrado -> RE: Legal Questions (8/9/2008 5:27:17 AM)

 Lack of consent is one of the elements of assault in US law, which is why consensual hitting of other people is perfectly legal.... which also doesn't mean that some zealous prosecutor or judge won't impose their personal moral beliefs in place of the law.  And that risk of being wrongly prosecuted also exists in what people read and say, how they worshp, who they love... and yet millions of us manage to make it through the day without hiding in fear from such things.

The claims about kidnapping are as erroneous as saying that all sex is rape...consent is a defining factor in all of the above.

And the DSM includes sadism as a 'real sexuality no different from heterosexuality or bisexuality or homosexuality', unless it exceeds certain parameters.


'The sky is falling, WIITWD is veeeewy veeewy danjuwus'' is a lot of fun apparently, judging by the number of people who trot it out and fall for it every time this comes up.




DavidS8ist -> RE: Legal Questions (8/9/2008 6:14:09 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Alumbrado

Lack of consent is one of the elements of assault in US law, which is why consensual hitting of other people is perfectly legal....<snip>



It's generally better to argue from fact rather than opinion.  Because, frankly, you're dead wrong.   For example, let's just look at one case and see the number of citations of both statute and case law which disprove your assertions:

"Penal Law § 120.05(2) provides that a person is guilty of second-degree assault when, '[w]ith intent to cause physical injury to another person, he causes such injury to such person ... by means of a deadly weapon or a dangerous instrument', in this case by scalding the complaining witness with hot wax. Further, Penal Law § 120.00(1) provides that a person is guilty of third-degree assault when '[w]ith intent to cause physical injury to another person, he causes such injury to such person', here by biting the complaining witness. As the majority correctly notes, neither statutory section provides for a consent defense, nor do these sections list lack of consent as an element to be proven by the prosecution (cf. Penal Law 120.05[5] ['without consent' is an element of the offense]; " (emphasis added)

These citations are from People v. Jovanovic, NY Supreme Court Appellate Division.  In fact, the footnotes to that decision add additional citations: "(5) There is no available defense of consent on a charge of assault under Penal Law §§ 120.00[1] and 120.05[2] (contrast, Penal Law § 120.05[5] [where lack of consent is an element). Indeed, while a meaningful distinction can be made between an ordinary violent beating and violence in which both parties voluntarily participate for their own sexual gratification, nevertheless, just as a person cannot consent to his or her own murder (see, People v Duffy, 79 NY2d 611), as a matter of public policy, a person cannot avoid criminal responsibility for an assault that causes injury or carries a risk of serious harm, even if the victim asked for or consented to the act (see, e.g., State v Brown, 381 A2d 1231, 1232 [NJ Super]; People v Samuels, 58 Cal Rptr 439, 447, cert denied, 390 US 1024; Commonwealth v Appleby, 380 Mass 296, 402 NE2d 1051; Iowa v Collier, 372 NW2d 303). And, although it may be possible to engage in criminal assaultive behavior that does not result in physical injury (see, Donnino, Practice Commentary, McKinney's Cons Laws of NY, Book 39, Penal Law Article 120, at 119), we need not address here whether consent to such conduct may constitute a defense, since the jury clearly found here that the complainant was physically injured. Defendant's claim that there is a constitutional right to engage in consensual sadomasochistic activity is, at the very least, too broad, since if such conduct were to result in serious injury, the consensual nature of the activity would not justify the result."(emphasis added)

I never said what we do is very dangerous, nor did I intend to incite hysteria.  I have stated, and both statute and case law support my assertions, that prosecution is 1) possible, not inevitable and 2) it's highly dependent upon circumstances and the whims of a prosecutor.  It's very nice to disagree with a post, and I suppose you enjoyed yourself.  But you really should look at the law before you make public proclamations to the contrary.  People might take your opinions as fact.

D.




newone11 -> RE: Legal Questions (8/9/2008 8:03:23 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DavidS8ist

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ORIGINAL: Alumbrado

Lack of consent is one of the elements of assault in US law, which is why consensual hitting of other people is perfectly legal....<snip>



It's generally better to argue from fact rather than opinion.  Because, frankly, you're dead wrong.   For example, let's just look at one case and see the number of citations of both statute and case law which disprove your assertions:

"Penal Law § 120.05(2) provides that a person is guilty of second-degree assault when, '[w]ith intent to cause physical injury to another person, he causes such injury to such person ... by means of a deadly weapon or a dangerous instrument', in this case by scalding the complaining witness with hot wax. Further, Penal Law § 120.00(1) provides that a person is guilty of third-degree assault when '[w]ith intent to cause physical injury to another person, he causes such injury to such person', here by biting the complaining witness. As the majority correctly notes, neither statutory section provides for a consent defense, nor do these sections list lack of consent as an element to be proven by the prosecution (cf. Penal Law 120.05[5] ['without consent' is an element of the offense]; " (emphasis added)

These citations are from People v. Jovanovic, NY Supreme Court Appellate Division.  In fact, the footnotes to that decision add additional citations: "(5) There is no available defense of consent on a charge of assault under Penal Law §§ 120.00[1] and 120.05[2] (contrast, Penal Law § 120.05[5] [where lack of consent is an element). Indeed, while a meaningful distinction can be made between an ordinary violent beating and violence in which both parties voluntarily participate for their own sexual gratification, nevertheless, just as a person cannot consent to his or her own murder (see, People v Duffy, 79 NY2d 611), as a matter of public policy, a person cannot avoid criminal responsibility for an assault that causes injury or carries a risk of serious harm, even if the victim asked for or consented to the act (see, e.g., State v Brown, 381 A2d 1231, 1232 [NJ Super]; People v Samuels, 58 Cal Rptr 439, 447, cert denied, 390 US 1024; Commonwealth v Appleby, 380 Mass 296, 402 NE2d 1051; Iowa v Collier, 372 NW2d 303). And, although it may be possible to engage in criminal assaultive behavior that does not result in physical injury (see, Donnino, Practice Commentary, McKinney's Cons Laws of NY, Book 39, Penal Law Article 120, at 119), we need not address here whether consent to such conduct may constitute a defense, since the jury clearly found here that the complainant was physically injured. Defendant's claim that there is a constitutional right to engage in consensual sadomasochistic activity is, at the very least, too broad, since if such conduct were to result in serious injury, the consensual nature of the activity would not justify the result."(emphasis added)

I never said what we do is very dangerous, nor did I intend to incite hysteria.  I have stated, and both statute and case law support my assertions, that prosecution is 1) possible, not inevitable and 2) it's highly dependent upon circumstances and the whims of a prosecutor.  It's very nice to disagree with a post, and I suppose you enjoyed yourself.  But you really should look at the law before you make public proclamations to the contrary.  People might take your opinions as fact.

D.



Now I'm curious...what's the cite for the case you're quoting.  Although I do agree with you--unless the statute specifically says (or incorporates by reference) that consent is a defense it can not be used as one.  Barring consent being used as the defense you're left with a risky, and well hidden, plea for nullification.

newone
*Because I have to---This is not legal advice.  Do not rely on the opinion expressed.




DavidS8ist -> RE: Legal Questions (8/9/2008 8:35:03 AM)

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ORIGINAL: newone11

Now I'm curious...what's the cite for the case you're quoting.  Although I do agree with you--unless the statute specifically says (or incorporates by reference) that consent is a defense it can not be used as one.  Barring consent being used as the defense you're left with a risky, and well hidden, plea for nullification.

newone
*Because I have to---This is not legal advice.  Do not rely on the opinion expressed.


The case was People v. Jovanovic, tried in New York City.  A case of rape, kidnapping and assault, brought by a victim who had consented to a weekend of sadomasochistic interaction with Oliver Jovanovic and then accused him.

It's complicated in many ways.  There was a misapplication of the Rape Shield law which led to the exclusion of evidence that would have belied rape and kidnapping charges.   Fortunately for Jovanovic, the majority in the Appellate Court through the baby out with the bathwater, throwing out the assault charge with the rape and kidnapping charge, while acknowledging that consent was irrelevant in the assault charge.  The dissenting opinion outlines why the assault charge should have been upheld rather than retried.

Because the victim decided to not appear in the retrial, the DA's office dropped the case, leaving the issue unchanged:  statute and case law still support the reality that consent, in many venues, is not a defense.

Now, I don't for a minute think the cops are gonna bust in my door and haul me away.  Nor do I think most prosecutors are going to pursue a consensual S&M session unless there are compelling reasons for them to do so.

But I don't think it prudent to tell folks on a list that all they have to do is say "I consented" and their top will be set free with a pat on the back.  We talk a lot about "informed consent."  Knowing the law is a great way to give "informed consent".  And as you concluded your post brilliantly, this ain't meant as advice.  Nor is it a projection of probability.  It's merely passing along information.


D.




kiwisub12 -> RE: Legal Questions (8/9/2008 8:44:02 AM)

ok, just for fun   -    i live in the bible belt

           right next to Cupids    ......     is  .......   (drumroll please!)   ......a.......  U Pull It !!!!!!!!




It just shouldn't be allowed! [:D]




newone11 -> RE: Legal Questions (8/9/2008 8:45:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DavidS8ist

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ORIGINAL: newone11

Now I'm curious...what's the cite for the case you're quoting.  Although I do agree with you--unless the statute specifically says (or incorporates by reference) that consent is a defense it can not be used as one.  Barring consent being used as the defense you're left with a risky, and well hidden, plea for nullification.

newone
*Because I have to---This is not legal advice.  Do not rely on the opinion expressed.


The case was People v. Jovanovic, tried in New York City.  A case of rape, kidnapping and assault, brought by a victim who had consented to a weekend of sadomasochistic interaction with Oliver Jovanovic and then accused him.

It's complicated in many ways.  There was a misapplication of the Rape Shield law which led to the exclusion of evidence that would have belied rape and kidnapping charges.   Fortunately for Jovanovic, the majority in the Appellate Court through the baby out with the bathwater, throwing out the assault charge with the rape and kidnapping charge, while acknowledging that consent was irrelevant in the assault charge.  The dissenting opinion outlines why the assault charge should have been upheld rather than retried.

Because the victim decided to not appear in the retrial, the DA's office dropped the case, leaving the issue unchanged:  statute and case law still support the reality that consent, in many venues, is not a defense.

Now, I don't for a minute think the cops are gonna bust in my door and haul me away.  Nor do I think most prosecutors are going to pursue a consensual S&M session unless there are compelling reasons for them to do so.

But I don't think it prudent to tell folks on a list that all they have to do is say "I consented" and their top will be set free with a pat on the back.  We talk a lot about "informed consent."  Knowing the law is a great way to give "informed consent".  And as you concluded your post brilliantly, this ain't meant as advice.  Nor is it a projection of probability.  It's merely passing along information.


D.


I'll look up the case since I'm a law geek and like looking at obscure, interesting cases.  And you have A LOT more faith in the police and prosecutors than I do. :)




SimplyMichael -> RE: Legal Questions (8/9/2008 8:48:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Asmodeus

AFAIK, there is nowhere in the US that consensual battery is a defense to an assault charge. No clue if this is true anywhere else in the world.


Actually, this is completely untrue.  In any state where pro-domming is illegal, bdsm is legal.

A friend of mine who was last years International Master/slave couple does a class on bdsm and the law and in most states it is completely legal, just as boxing and sex are...




abcbsex -> RE: Legal Questions (8/9/2008 9:18:22 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: MsJssk

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Where I live, which is a decent sized place, you literally can not buy a sex toy in this town. There is currently a legal battle between the city and the only 'adult' store that has tried to remain in business. In fact, I have never been able to buy a thing there since I moved here almost four years ago due to the fact that the legal case has kept the doors closed.

As to the other question, yes, I have had the cops show up during a small impromptu flogging demo in, of all places, Auburn Alabama. It was called in as a disturbance of the peace. No real issue with it. We simply moved 30 people from one location to another.



Is it because there's a law against having adult toys or because there is a law against having an adult buisness within X amount of miles of any residence, schoool, church, park.....?

MsJ

I hope I have the right link. You can read about it here http://chronicle.augusta.com/stories/072408/met_466806.shtml

There is literally no school within miles of this place. No, it's not across the street from a park. It's on a stretch of highway with very few residences around it. In that area, it's business district. It has more to do with living in the bible belt than anything else.



I've been here about a year (across the border though in SC) and I've been wondering about that shop... couldn't figure out why, if it was out of business, they didn't just sell the place. This makes sense though!




RedMagic1 -> RE: Legal Questions (8/9/2008 9:19:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DavidS8ist
It's generally better to argue from fact rather than opinion.  Because, frankly, you're dead wrong.  

You're not the first person to try to convince Alumbrado of this.  People I know for a fact are attorneys have tried.  It's unlikely he'll budge from his position.  Besides, as a practical matter, it's almost irrelevant whether something is legal.  Do you really want to spend $10,000 defending yourself against a sexual assault charge, knowing that if you lose, you will be in the system as a sexual predator for the rest of your life?

Choose partners who are not vindictive and not insane.





CallaFirestormBW -> RE: Legal Questions (8/9/2008 9:26:37 AM)


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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1


Choose partners who are not vindictive and not insane.




This would be good advice -- if there were -any- way of knowing, in advance who is going to freak out and go bonkers.

CFB




nejisty -> RE: Legal Questions (8/9/2008 10:19:59 AM)

thank you....I tried West law....you have to be a subscriber???

nejisty




RedMagic1 -> RE: Legal Questions (8/9/2008 11:40:02 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CallaFirestormBW
This would be good advice -- if there were -any- way of knowing, in advance who is going to freak out and go bonkers.

I am friends with my exes.  A lot of people are.  Of course there are ways of knowing that in advance.




CallaFirestormBW -> RE: Legal Questions (8/9/2008 2:10:14 PM)


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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

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ORIGINAL: CallaFirestormBW
This would be good advice -- if there were -any- way of knowing, in advance who is going to freak out and go bonkers.

I am friends with my exes.  A lot of people are.  Of course there are ways of knowing that in advance.



I'm friends with my exes as well -- but they're exes for a reason... and you never know what could set one off -- like UMs coming into the picture. We do the best we can, but every time we open ourselves up, we have to accept the risk that goes along with it.

CFB




DavidS8ist -> RE: Legal Questions (8/9/2008 2:31:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael


A friend of mine who was last years International Master/slave couple does a class on bdsm and the law and in most states it is completely legal, just as boxing and sex are...


Yeah, and other folks who do classes preach the SSC mantra.  Well, I do classes too, and I'll stand by the citations in my earlier posts.  There are references in that one decision alone which span several jurisdictions.  Case law and statute trump propaganda, opinion, and a leather title any day.

The problem arises when people search statute for S&M legislation forgetting that LEO's don't need it:  They have assault, battery, and domestic partner abuse statutes to fall back on, and in most cases, they don't even need victim cooperation to prosecute.

As I stated earlier, there is ample case law (and, I believe, some statute) which excludes most sporting competition from assault prosecution.  It's *not* the same as S&M.

Again, I'm not saying prosecution is likely.  I *am* saying to read the statutes in your own venue and make an informed decision.  Google your own state's penal code and then read the statutes on assault, battery, illegal restraint, and kidnapping.  Then decide for yourself.

D.
"It's another thing entirely when so many people in our little corner of humanity can't seem to tell the truth if you lit a fire under their ass and offered an extinguisher for one established fact."
- Laura Antoniou




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