FatDomDaddy -> RE: Opinions on Dom (8/7/2008 5:51:10 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968
All doms should be evil It says so right on page 93 of the Official Dom Handbook. (can be bought at amazon.com)
One can be evil and nice.
After all, Hitler loved children and dogs [;)]
DomDolf -> RE: Opinions on Dom (8/10/2008 10:02:07 AM)
Dominants can be nice. They can be stern, they can be strict, they can be manipulative and they can be seemingly evil. They can be stern, strict, mainipulative and evil while being nice.
porcelain26 -> RE: Opinions on Dom (8/10/2008 10:17:24 AM)
One of the things I like about dominant people is you never know which side of them you're going to get. I have yet to meet a dom I liked who wasn't multifaceted. My Owner is an excellent example of this: He is by far one of the most terrifying, intense, cruel men I have ever met, but He is far and away one of the nicest guys I know, also.
I think you just have to find your 'fine line' and understand that being a nice guy is sometimes the best foundation to being a terrific dominant. However, if people are saying you're too nice, and what they're really doing is politely calling you a pushover, then that's a whole different topic.
MidMichCowboy -> RE: Opinions on Dom (8/10/2008 12:47:34 PM)
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ORIGINAL: subtee
Wait just a minute there...if Doms can be nice, does that mean I can be, uh, mean?
Man, I hope so. Then I can dream of you laying across my lap, with your pants pulled down, .... I need a shower.
kiwisub12 -> RE: Opinions on Dom (8/10/2008 12:48:29 PM)
my Sir is sensitive, intelligent, smart, funny, loving, sweet, intuitive, nice, caring .... and as dominant a man as i have ever met.
To be dominant is one aspect of his personality. It doesn't exclude anything - except submission.
and bear in mind that you can catch way more flies with honey than vinegar. [:)]