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wandersalone -> RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily (7/31/2008 12:20:50 PM)

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ORIGINAL: samaraqzetax

I've already tried the asprin method, and it didn't seem to work. No I would not be good to anyone dead, except a plant fertilizer...but still there has to be some why to naturally assist the human body to bruise, not necessarly simply by brushing aginst something.  


Why does there need to be a natural way to assist the body to bruise?  If you are not able to find a way to bruise more easily maybe you and your Mistress could talk about other ways in which you could please her which may be more realistic/achievable.




RCdc -> RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily (7/31/2008 12:22:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

Relying without quotes to avoid dark's usual horridly huge and bandwidth eating font.........[;)]


Aw... yanno you .lovetohate. it ...[:D]
 
the.dark.




submisty323 -> RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily (7/31/2008 12:33:36 PM)

Maybe you don't bruise easily, that has nothing to do with how you serve Her, it is the chemistry makeup of your body.  I understand you want to please, but there are limits to how your body will react.  Other than being really fair skinned or anemic, I know of no other way to increase bruising....or a wooden paddle




Prinsexx -> RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily (7/31/2008 1:16:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: samaraqzetax

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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

Sam
Unless you misuse drugs, or abuse yourself and place yourself in likely dangerous postions, you cannot improve the bruising unless your mistress does her job 'properly'.  Now if placing yourself in danger and risking yourself is something that is going to 'make your mistress happy' - knock yourself out.  But don't come to a message board and expect that people will support the endeavour by giving you written ways to do it.
 
the.dark.
(.whojustisntin'themood'.)


I don't believe wanting to find a way to better cause bruises is "putting myself in danger" Myself cutting my arms and thighs IS my way of placing myself in danger, to which I've had to deal the the reprcutions of my doing such. Just because it is YOUR opinion that wanting to bruise more so, is your opinion and you have every right to it, but please do not enforce your belief system or opinions upon me. With that said, does anyone have any LEGAL and for the most part non-invasive ideas to help promote bruising?   


But you asked for my (our) opinions and i certainly am not enforcing my opinions on you only you can allow that to happen.
Now that you mention self-harm i understand more. It's a balancing act between your personal masochism and what you Mistress feelslike she is or isn't doint to you. i have very little history of physical self-masochism so i never have any level of expectations of what my bruises should or shouldn't look like.
But on a practical note: i take anti-inflammatories for medical purposes. i was recently told that it's the medication that causes me to bruise easily....all shades of brilliant colours actually that last and last. but i am NOT suggesting mis-use of such medication.
Perhaps you can take solace in the understanding that your Mistress is in control of this, knows and understands what degree of bruising she wishes to inflict? It's the stepping outside of this and feeling you need to self-inflict, in ther words, to top her, which is causing distress?
Trying to be helpful not enforcing my opinion at all.





Missokyst -> RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily (7/31/2008 1:23:47 PM)

So.. a woman who you only see every couple of weeks is upset because you dont bruise?  Are you sure you are not projecting your feelings of disappointment onto her?  Does she come right out and tell you, "your not bruising is pissing me off."?  Maybe it is just me but that doesnt seem like something that would bother me if I had a full deck on my plate of other playmates.  I doubt I would think of it beyond the moment.
Some people just do not bruise.  Your mistress is probably grown up enough to recongize that and accept it.  Do other things to please her and make her proud. 
Kyst




Daes -> RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily (7/31/2008 2:22:42 PM)

Ugh. Just accept that you got thick skin.

/I/ got thick skin, Sir beat the living crap out of my ass with a cane and I didn't have much to show for it besides some soreness and Maybe two bruises. Hurt like a motherfucker though, seriously. They went away in about three days too. I tend to be frustrated that they go away so easily, but theres nothing I can do about that. Thats just the way my body is.

Just deal with it. Your mistress just needs to realize that you got thick skin as well. And as others have said, unless you misuse medication or Really hurt yourself theres not much option here.




missturbation -> RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily (7/31/2008 2:23:17 PM)

Bruising easily is not all that it is cracked up to be! I bruise extremely easily and quite severely. Just my arm brushing against a door frame for example will result in me being black and blue for a good few days.
Now i love the bruises from a good sound beating and admire them in the mirror muchly. Accidental bruising howevr is not quite so pretty, wanted.
Plus i hate saying 'oops Sir i damaged your property again' lol. Although that leads to the admired bruising so not all bad [:D]




Coupleofwhats -> RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily (7/31/2008 2:32:29 PM)

If she's that hung up on seeing bruises on her submissive-- as in it's an absolute "must" for her to feel satisfied -- and you don't bruise... maybe you guys are incompatible.

Or maybe she should experiment with other ways of hurting you. (Pinching inner thighs/armpit regions cause extra nice bruises.)

In any case, weakening your body in order to show more damage is a really stupid idea. Don't do that.




RedMagic1 -> RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily (7/31/2008 2:52:11 PM)

Nerf-covered aluminum baseball bat.
Electrical cord from small appliance.
Retractable metal television antenna.




samaraqzetax -> RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily (7/31/2008 2:58:01 PM)

Guess we will just have to deal with it then....I don't know, maybe it's also part me that wants the bruises just as much as her. Wish there was simply a magic little pill I could take though.




RedMagic1 -> RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily (7/31/2008 3:08:24 PM)

Don't be a down-in-the-mouth dipweed.  Coupleofwhats and I just gave you specific examples of how to produce more bruises without becoming a drug abuser.  If your "mistress" can't be troubled to change her style to get what she wants, maybe she's just not that into you, and is acting as though it's your fault.




sailorfrank -> RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily (7/31/2008 3:09:22 PM)

   Bruises or not...how you serve her is more important than your outward appearance.   She does not now what she has and I pity her!




Prinsexx -> RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily (7/31/2008 3:09:33 PM)

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ORIGINAL: samaraqzetax

I don't know, maybe it's also part me that wants the bruises just as much as her.

But it is you though isn't it? who wants the bruises and also wants to please her.
Me, i'm not into bruises for bruises sake...they're a side line. My brusing just seems completely random...lime Miss t said, i also can walk into a door, (well actually into the side of a table is the most stupid thing i often do) and the bruising is phenomenal. i can feel like i should bruise from a cane and there's nothing. whereas sometimes but not always a whiplash will do it. Inside of my thighs is the most brusisable.
Love bites...oh i simply love the brusing from those ...but it's never been suggested that it's a requirement.
I love bruises for the memory but then i also love no marks with a kind of arrogance of oh look i can take this.
Paradoxically if you take your mind off wanting the bruises maybe you will get better ones. Life's like that: want something too much and it just don't happen. Let it go and it usually comes to pass.
Thus spake the Oracle......




sailorfrank -> RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily (7/31/2008 3:19:25 PM)

    Hmmm???  The Oracle is very wise and knowing.   Sounds like great advice!




metalmiss -> RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily (7/31/2008 3:49:03 PM)

I find it hard to bruise aswell.. People suggested asprin for me but i chose not to follow that route because regular use can cause big problems further down the line..

The best remedy i found thanks to advice from another girl & quoted in my Master's words.. Vitamin E-Oil.. Here's why..

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ORIGINAL: Ravenmuse

Firstly the background....


metalmiss has been having a little 'problem' of sorts. she likes marks, she is one of these girls who likes seeing the bruising she carried from a session as an enjoyable reminder of what happened. It isn't so much of a deal to Me, though seeing her wince when she sits down for several days... well I DO like reactions and that is a fun reaction.


The problem being that her backside is VERY resistant to marking. A good thrashing with a straight dragon and a singapore.... it simply goes red with a few lines.... and an hour later you wouldn't be able to tell (Unlike her thighs where a single cane mark (not even a hard one) can easily last a few days).


Looking for advice from her fellow 's' types, one young lady from stateside made a rather interesting suggestion.... Vitamin E oil... Now I know it has benefits from a dietary side and also that applied to scarring will assist to get rid of or at least lessen it, but I certainly had never considered its application to 'assist' in marking during play. One trip to Holland & Barrett later... 'earthly elements' Natural vitamin E-oil (60,000 I.U)... pure enough it can be taken as a food supplement or used externally as a moisturiser.


When We got back, I applied some oil to her ass... then later that evening, about 20 mins before I was going to play I applied it again... letting it have time to sink into the skin.


Then We played... it wasn't particularly hard play, nor long (about 20 mins or so) but it did involve both the dragon and singapore. WHOA... less than a few minutes after stopping... one large mark! Not deep red, not blue, not purple... but BLACK! Que, one VERY happy girlie with a very sore bum (also a reason for the play being shorter... her reactions were a lot different, she was FAR more sensitive AND given there was something else in play, I erred on the side of caution till I was sure of the effects)


All was fine for a couple of hours till We were going for a cig and I told her to lift her skirt so I could check how the bruising was doing. One problem with checking a bruise... it needs to BE there for You to check it!!!... nothing... nada... GONE! not even a red mark. In 27 years doing this I have NEVER seen something go from black to nothing in that sort of timescale Boggle Off We went to bed, one confused Master and one sulking girlie!


Next morning however the bruising was back and by lunchtime, whilst not as impressive as the huge black half-bumcheek covering one that it looked like there was initially... but a nice large black bruise, a smaller one one the other cheek and moderate amounts of lighter bruising over the rest of her arse.


So it undoubtedly works, the tail doesn't end there though.... heheheh. The ol' Evil git had noticed something. Remember I mentioned she seemed FAR more sensitive g Last night... one stripped girl and the vit E oil applied all over her back, from the shoulders right down the her backside. Again, about 15-20 mins before I played. Now metalmiss likes hard play. Doesn't so much like sting (understatement) but thuddy she LOVES. With My heavy flogger I can land one putting My shoulder into it and normally get a sharp intake of breath and her wriggling for more. Last night I had her nearly crawling over the sofa and with, for us, moderately light play. Heavy flogger, light paddle, acrylic switch, wooden paddle. All the reactions were very much heightened.


Then after a little break, onto more sensual play... pinwheel, knifeplay and finishing with wax.... I was holding the candle quite a bit higher than normal but fuck... I nearly had to peel her off the ceiling. Perfectly safe from harm but the sensations (Especially from the heat) where much more intense for her.


No marks from that play, but then none where aimed for. her back is still VERY sensitive though... especially to 'Someone' running His nails over it. heheheh So not only is the oil good from a marking perspective, it also means I can get far more intense reactions at lower level (and thus safer from harm) play.... fun fun fun Just from the last couple of nights observations it is something that will be a staple of My toybag in future and something I will be recommending to a few of My friends....


Yes its a long quote from one of His journals, but He goes into a lot of detail regarding the pro's and con's as far as we're concerned.. However, we don't use it everytime.. But it  IS a problem now sorted without taking drugs of any kind.

Hope that helps in some way x




BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily (7/31/2008 4:03:03 PM)

This question was posted last week in the sub/slave forum and my response was that I don't bruise easily anymore unless it's from Him biting me. 

My bruises will vary depending on how hard He bites, but can last for days to weeks. 

I still have faint bruises from bites He gave me a month ago.





samaraqzetax -> RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily (7/31/2008 4:11:24 PM)

Thank you for the tip in using vitimin E oil, to help promote bruising. I'll be sure to give it a try and will inform you of my results.




metalmiss -> RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily (7/31/2008 4:22:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: samaraqzetax

Thank you for the tip in using vitimin E oil, to help promote bruising. I'll be sure to give it a try and will inform you of my results.


You're welcome :) i will look forward to hearing if it works for you too.. x




msprudence -> RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily (7/31/2008 8:16:47 PM)

Fast Reply:

When I have someone who wants marks and reminders but doesn't want to go through the pain of getting them (or as much of the pain of getting them [:)]) than I add things with suction.   A cupped wooden spoon for example, hitting in such as way as to cause suction or a rubber suction toy... It's more of a hickey than a bruise... but it is a mark left....




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