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How to make yourself bruise more easily - 7/31/2008 10:12:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have a hard time bruising. My Mistress is upset everytime she canes me and I only end up with some nasty welts, but no bruises to show off of her handywork. So, my question is, does anyone have any ideas how to make myself bruise easily, so that in turn Mistress will be proud of me?

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RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily - 7/31/2008 10:16:41 AM   
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RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily - 7/31/2008 10:17:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm confused.  Your profile says you're looking for a Mistress, but your question implies that you have one.

Either way.  There's a fairly recent thread in another section on this topic.  You can find it here http://www.collarchat.com/m_2030025/tm.htm


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RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily - 7/31/2008 10:18:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: samaraqzetax

I have a hard time bruising. My Mistress is upset everytime she canes me and I only end up with some nasty welts, but no bruises to show off of her handywork. So, my question is, does anyone have any ideas how to make myself bruise easily, so that in turn Mistress will be proud of me?


...there are several ways to bruise more easily......however, they mostly involve becoming seriously ill, or misusing medication. If your real motivation is to make your Mistress proud of you why not do some voluntary work?

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RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily - 7/31/2008 10:24:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		i bruise just by touch (not really but almost)...because of my heart condition which includes low platelettes.  which was odd that when i got my tattoo's i didnt bleed alot nor did it swell/bruise...that made no sense to me...if someone can tell me why..id like to know...

cause if i get punched, or flogged, spanked..etc i bruise easy..


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RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily - 7/31/2008 10:26:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		My current Mistress...as she like to be called, seems to have a lenghty dance card, so yes, I am looking for a more steady routine in my life...not just once every 2 or 3 weeks...Ugh!



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RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily - 7/31/2008 10:29:43 AM   
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ORIGINAL: samaraqzetax

I have a hard time bruising. My Mistress is upset everytime she canes me and I only end up with some nasty welts, but no bruises to show off of her handywork. So, my question is, does anyone have any ideas how to make myself bruise easily, so that in turn Mistress will be proud of me?

Try emotional masochism (ie beating yourself up emotionally for mo apparent reason)...there are no visible signs whatsoever....your Mistress will be even more upset and probably smack you around a great deal harder....et voila! the cycle can begin all over again....however it does rather sound like you are doing a great job at the emotional masochism anyway.


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RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily - 7/31/2008 10:39:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		"Try emotional masochism"...I don't understand, what exactly do you mean?

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RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily - 7/31/2008 11:13:08 AM   
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"Try emotional masochism"...I don't understand, what exactly do you mean?

It's just my British sense of humour....and that personally i blame my emotional masochism for anything and everything that doesn't show.

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RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily - 7/31/2008 11:19:55 AM   
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RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily - 7/31/2008 11:29:05 AM   
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It promotes clotting


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RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily - 7/31/2008 11:32:42 AM   
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Unless you misuse drugs, or abuse yourself and place yourself in likely dangerous postions, you cannot improve the bruising unless your mistress does her job 'properly'.  Now if placing yourself in danger and risking yourself is something that is going to 'make your mistress happy' - knock yourself out.  But don't come to a message board and expect that people will support the endeavour by giving you written ways to do it.
 
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RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily - 7/31/2008 11:35:39 AM   
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asprin.
It promotes clotting



Er.  No it doesn't.
 
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RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily - 7/31/2008 11:46:13 AM   
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Sam
Unless you misuse drugs, or abuse yourself and place yourself in likely dangerous postions, you cannot improve the bruising unless your mistress does her job 'properly'.  Now if placing yourself in danger and risking yourself is something that is going to 'make your mistress happy' - knock yourself out.  But don't come to a message board and expect that people will support the endeavour by giving you written ways to do it.
 
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I don't believe wanting to find a way to better cause bruises is "putting myself in danger" Myself cutting my arms and thighs IS my way of placing myself in danger, to which I've had to deal the the reprcutions of my doing such. Just because it is YOUR opinion that wanting to bruise more so, is your opinion and you have every right to it, but please do not enforce your belief system or opinions upon me. With that said, does anyone have any LEGAL and for the most part non-invasive ideas to help promote bruising?   


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RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily - 7/31/2008 11:59:46 AM   
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asprin.
It promotes clotting



Er.  No it doesn't.
 
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On second thought it's a blood thinner-my bad.
 
I wonder why they always advise to stay away from it to avoid bruising then?

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RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily - 7/31/2008 12:02:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

asprin.
It promotes clotting



Er.  No it doesn't.
 
the.dark.

 
On second thought it's a blood thinner-my bad.
 
I wonder why they always advise to stay away from it to avoid bruising then?


....a bruise is a subdermal puddle of blood. Thinned blood spreads more easily.

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RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily - 7/31/2008 12:04:00 PM   
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Advise a change in toys if she wants marks. Heavier canes work well, as do thuddy paddles. Some skin simply refuses to retain blood subdermally. I have known women I could beat till thier ass almost turned blue during play-and they were totally off in la la land for hours after.

And by the time they came back down, thier circulatory system has already cleared the damage-barely any marks.

It drove them nuts.

You might be the same. And if so, she will just have to deal with that.

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RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily - 7/31/2008 12:04:38 PM   
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I don't believe wanting to find a way to better cause bruises is "putting myself in danger"


....there's only one way to do this. Make your body less resistent to damage. That, per se, is putting yourself in danger. Consider this.....do you want to bruise just because you brushed against something? Hemophiliacs alrwady have that problem, and i guarantee none of them want that condition.

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RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily - 7/31/2008 12:16:15 PM   
samaraqzetax


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Status: offline 		I've already tried the asprin method, and it didn't seem to work. No I would not be good to anyone dead, except a plant fertilizer...but still there has to be some why to naturally assist the human body to bruise, not necessarly simply by brushing aginst something.  

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RE: How to make yourself bruise more easily - 7/31/2008 12:19:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		Babe.  I am not trying to enforce anything on you.  I love bruising.  But there is no legal way to do this - apart from your mistress using the right kind of toys and hitting you hard enough and taking the time to find out where your body bruises best.  The only other way is to take drugs... which I could list for you here and now but unless you are aware of your medical conditions and seek medical advice, I am not willing to do that over the net.  It would be dangerous for me, or anyone else to do all the research for you.
 
You have been given one piece of advice that is total rubbish - will you risk taking that piece of advice because it sounds cool and easy?  Asprin will have little or no effect on your bruising - depending on your blood cholestorol levels at the time you take it, it DOESN'T promote clotting and only specific aspirin that your doctor will prescribe and not overthecounterstuff will be remotely effective.  But taking aspirin constantly and consistantly is not something that one should do without doctors advice.  So unless you are prepared to explain why you want to take aspirin to your doc, then you can accept the risk.  That's all cool.
 
And if you desire advice, don'tcome to a forum and expect people NOT to stick on their belief systems, coz thats just fucking naive.
 
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