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Kittenysoft -> Hi I'm Kittenysoft :) (7/21/2008 11:49:48 PM)
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Hullo everyone,
I'm a sweet midwestern gal who has been very active in BDSM for many years...all in my mind. [8|] I've always had relationships with normal "vanilla" guys, choosing them mostly for their looks, and got super excited whenever they did anything even slightly dommish. Even though my turnons are relatively mild, I've been told more than once I'm obsessed with sex. Well, who wouldn't be? If all the best sex is going on in your mind, why wouldn't you spend a great deal of time there? However, I'm ready for a new strategy. One where I'm the normal one. And where real life is better than imagination.
I'll try to respect protocol (capitalization etc) when communicating with serious BDSMers, but I hope no one will be offended if I sometimes mess up. I am not trained that way and it is just not my thing personally. I don't define myself as submissive, masochist, or slave. I also wouldn't say that I'd never switch. Every once in a while I like to feel tough and in control--it's just that I like to lose control much more often. Someone told me that the appropriate term might be "bottom." But doesn't that sound like a gay sex term? I'd think it would just confuse people even more. I have no idea.
Anyway, it has been great meeting all the people who have sent messages so far, and I look forward to getting to know even more people in this forum and via chat.
Best wishes,
Kittenysoft [;)]
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