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RE: love first bdsm second - 7/22/2008 9:06:38 PM

jim64

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Thank you all for the input. I have been interested in this as long as I can remember.Yet, I would not be here if not for her. She "talked me into" being flogged at a fetish ball 2 years ago. She knew what I wanted, but I was shy. I was changed forever. She saw that and encouraged me to join local groups and go to munches. She was not even sure if she would participate. I was worried that she was only doing this to make me happy.

Luckily, that beginning is all in the past. She has gone from being loving supporter to loving, sadistic domme. We are very happy as we travel down this path together. May all of you be as well!

jim the idiot

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RE: love first bdsm second - 7/22/2008 9:22:09 PM

Skully7000

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Friends first.

BDSM second (if at all) (even if we are both Tops we can co-top a scene together)

Love third (if at all)

Cheers
Skully

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RE: love first bdsm second - 7/24/2008 4:26:13 PM

SlaveSubtoserve

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My former Mistress (former wife) and i started out as Domme/sub then progressed to M/s for years --- think its much better to get that all on the table up front for all concerned as we did before marriage.

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