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tenderplant -> RE: The DOM Trap (7/21/2008 10:56:23 AM)
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ORIGINAL: ChainedExistence
Sitting around waiting for the perfect person to fall out of the sky is a search in vain. There are so many wonderful submissives who would give their right arm to be in a loving relationship, meanwhile many Doms are looking for the 19 year old beauty queen with the 22 inch waist,(I see you're not, but you get the idea), the IQ of Einstein, and the sexuality of the highest paid porno star, (and she's a D/s virgin). There's certainly nothing wrong with having standards, but how many amazing women have you passed by because they didn't fit some set of particulars you may have? The pool is small enough already when you want a kinky woman, but taking out the subs that are too old, too young, too far away, too educated, not educated enough, too fat, too thin, already in a relationship, never been in a D/s relationship and so on.....and your search becomes more difficult. The more particulars you demand, the smaller that pool becomes. Be willing to be open to a woman you might not have considered before- you widen your pool of candidates, and you might just be pleasantly surprised.
Edited to add...took me 7 years to find the "perfect" relationship, and it was far from perfect when it began. You have to work for perfect.
Chained Existence I couldn't have said it any better.
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