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LotusSong -> RE: Switches Non Entities (7/23/2008 4:56:55 PM)
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Oh I'll give it a shot. Let's see... a switch switches depending on what the other person brings out in them?
No one ever dictated to me which i want to play with
Where did you get that? I allude to the sentimate that switches repeat ad nauseum that that are either dom or sub depending on how that other person makes them feel. See switch forum thread: http://www.collarchat.com/m_1896342/tm.htm
They have ominous and mysterious NEEDS that must be met. While a switch does not like boxes, they do wish their other partner, for the moment, BE in THEIR box for the switch to express the opposite nature enjoyably.
there are no "ominous or mysterious needs" The same could be said about Dominants or submissives......i used to have two partners...one that bottomed and one that topped...not one that did both....
I find it odd that your comment reflects what you just don't understand from the other side. (I'll speak for myself here) I don't hate switches... I find the dynamic lacking when it comes to MY satisfaction. I feel no power exchange, no flow and they drain me. Kinda like an energy vampire. Please don't take offense, I'm just sharing my reasons. I started in a group that was 80% switches. I know the beast. So carry on, enjoy yourselves but just don't expect 100% acceptance.. (here or anywhere in life) otherwise you will become vain and bitter.
Did you have a bad experience with a switch? it sounds like you are the one that is bitter. Are you a switch? so then how would you know what one feels or thinkings ..if i precived Dominants like that they would all be assholes...but they are indiviuals and are all different....
My my.. sorry, didn't mean to piss your post toasties! Why are you so upset? Because not everyone finds a switch appealing??? My experiences with switches has been posted in the appropriate forum a couple times. If you want me to tell you personally, just email me.
I am sorry your experience with switches was a bad one.....maybe some day you will met a nice one and loose some of your hatred....
Oh I've met some and they were nice.. I just preferred not to indulge them because the outcome was always the same. (again, if you want to know-email me)
I was a poly bisexual switch
WAS? How can you be a was "polybisexualswitch"? I mean.. that's the holy grail of lifestyle persona you had there :)
....with TPE while playing with said person...many years later...i find myself collared and in an intense TPE M/s relationship....and though its sometimes an internal struggle i find it fullfiling in different areas of life....am i still a switch ..yes...
Switches are not the only ones here who are not into TPE...there are many people on this site and in the groups W/we belong to that are not into and have a bad opinion of TPE....
ok. .. and your point?
just my 2 cents
.. hold it.. [sm=2cents.gif] you have change coming [:D]
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